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Intimate Flow

Published October 11, 2022 by tindertender

Life is a river of energy, mostly in motion, sometimes stagnant, needing a “shock” of sorts to start the flow again.

The Universe never fails us, giving us plenty of opportunity to reroute, reformat and come into a shift of perception.

I don’t believe the things I believed as a youth, or my early adult life, or even 5 years ago.

The Mental Body, the Physical Body and the Energetic Body is either empowered, or drained, by others and self. Only becoming intimately aware of the body’s energetic and emotional movement can a person even begin to manifest change purposefully, intentionally.

I flow the best I am able at any given moment.

Grateful for life.

Thoughts are electric and feelings are magnetic.

When you think a thought which is positive or negative, the emotion you feel about the thought begins to wrap itself around the thought, the more you think it, the stronger it becomes and neural pathways are formed, a rut in one of the roads of mind. This is pleasant when the thought and feeling are good, and very unpleasant when they are not.

If the feelings are negative, the thoughts becoming repetitious and the rut in that road of thought gets deeper, the more challenging it becomes to rewire the neural pathways.

Be intentional with your energy.

Be mindful of your thoughts.

Small steps …

Getting started is the difficult part.

Flow.

It’s So Weird Seeing Two Women …

Published October 9, 2022 by tindertender

… In the same space.

One who identifies with and speaks with the body and sexuality, the other who lives from and shares from innocence, almost naïveté.

One feels toxic, like it’s hiding something and manipulative, the other Light, happy and transparent.

One acting from the root chakra, the other from the heart.

To each their own.

We’re all at various stages of “the game”.

Break the Spell

Published October 9, 2022 by tindertender

Positive thoughts and attitudes break the “magic” of the suffering “program”.

Be your own Master.

Emotional Maturity

Published October 7, 2022 by tindertender

Written by: @Theholisticpsyc

A child who wasn’t able to emotionally develop, becomes the adult who: takes everything personally, is highly defensive, & struggles to voice what they actually feel.

HERE’S WHY

Our emotional development happens beginning at birth & through childhood, where we learn: how to identify and regulate our emotions.

Emotional maturity comes from this process.

In order to learn this, we need to be modeled it by a parent figure.

If we’re raised in a home where we are parentified (made to be the emotional caretaker for a parent), where a parent is too busy or overworked, or where a parents rage or emotional instability runs the climate of the home— we don’t get to emotionally develop.

The sole focus becomes staying safe in the environment.

So, we cope with hypervigilance.

Hypervigilance is the attunement to the environment. Meaning, we sense everyone else’s emotions or shift in facial expressions or behavior.

We know when a parents mood is going to shift & how that will impact us, when we might be blamed or shamed, or when a parent might withdraw from us completely (ie: the silent treatment.)

We learn & adapt quickly to caretaking the emotions of those around us. Or managing those emotions the best we can as children.

Sometimes this is mistaken as empathy— it’s not.

It’s a survival mechanism.

Long term hypervigilance creates nervous system dysregulation.

We become high reactive to those around us because we’ve learned that people are not safe & we must defend ourselves.

Everything feels personal, because at one time in our lives: it was.

With our awareness on the external, this leaves little time for self awareness, self reflection, or emotional regulation.

The result: we are emotionally immature.

Unable to know what we feel, how to express it, or if it’s even ok to feel what we feel (many of us have been shamed for our emotions: “stop being dramatic,” “don’t be so sensitive” “man up.”)

In earliest years we were made responsible for adult emotions.

This is never the role of a child.

What Is Freedom?

Published October 6, 2022 by tindertender

Choice

Published October 6, 2022 by tindertender

We are patient.
We are kind.
We take no shit.
Be with us.
Or be against us.
Power in choice.
We create our reality.
With a little help from our friends,
Or separation and destruction from our adversary.
Choose.

Will you be steered by the adversary, or drawn to family who loves you?

Transparency

Published October 4, 2022 by tindertender

So many spewing their rhetoric as though it were fact.

Everybody’s being exposed for who/what they are, including me.

It’s messy, but necessary business.

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Visions

Published October 4, 2022 by tindertender

For an ever so brief moment, I went there in my mind.

Mind Games

Published October 4, 2022 by tindertender

Did you just confess a fantasy?

No, but sometimes I engage a fantasy trying to choose me.

Number Message 428

Published October 3, 2022 by tindertender

October 3, 2022
8:28 a.m.

~ Be persistent in pursuing your goals and soul mission.

~ Your material and financial needs will always be met.

~ You are called to have stronger faith in your angels.

~ Your role is critical in this world.

~ The guardian angels want you to know you are immune. They will hinder you from evil. You will be surrounded by good health. They are on duty. They are working to make your life better. Past illness will stay at bay. Get to work and do not fear.

~ Personal Freedom means having a mind of your own.

~ Make yourself relevant.

~ If you work towards making others happy, you will be given joy. Everything you do will be repaid accordingly. Always watch your actions. The things you do dictate your future. Build your future by doing well for others.

~ Have a forgiving heart while interacting with people, but …

~ Do not let people get on your nerves when you can easily walk out of their lives and surround yourself with people that matter.