Why is it acceptable to ask for criticism, yet not alright to ask for compliment? We’ve been ‘trained’ to seek the negative … in self, in others, in situations.
Self-trust.
Self-esteem.
There’s always someone to help us in this regard, to the positive, or to the contrary.
When we fully take responsibility for our actions, stop blaming our attitudes and character on past experiences, then we can claim our life.
We can choose the practices we wish to embody. If others are not okay with any of it, let them be. Honor yourself in the moment, every one of them.
If experience brings tough lessons, embrace them as thoroughly as possible to decrease the chances of a lesson needing to be relearned.
Recognize.
Accept,
Or release.
Once you are okay with every little quirk and habit, the rest doesn’t really matter, as long as no harm is coming to self, or any body.
“No single No one possesses the complete range of faculties. through social union, human beings complete one another, and mutually secure their well-being. Because they need one another, they have been created for living in society and not in isolation.” ~ The Spirits’ Book
Take a good long and hard look at what the so-called leaders are pushing for … I do not speak of the president, but those who fight against him.
Covid-19 came along after a three year attempt to impeach the president. The democrats, indeed, the whole advisory committee, pushed for isolation, and the covering of the mouth, signifying compliance, silence.
They sold fear, ripe and ready to eat, while this president tried to give the cure (hydroxychloroquine) which has even been proven to fight cancer … two for one. But what did the majority of Americans do? They swallowed the lies and rejected the cure … they allowed fear, hatred, and false reporting to take from them what they’ve been wanting and waiting for.
The government, previous to this one, steered jobs away from the American citizens, gifting the citizenry profit loss and opportunity loss for their own well-being.
People need to rise together, for anything other than that is ensuring our own demise.
PS – Joe Biden will be taken out of the race by his own team. Whomever they replace him with will be the true devil, or someone puppeted by him (them, since it is a group thing).
The vote will be for freedom …
… or for more of the same we got before this administration, a true slavery symbolized by the mask and stay at home orders.
More human trafficking, more missing people, more murder as they push to eliminate the protectors of the law, and release serious criminals from prisons.
Don’t let your hatred for one man cause you to throw in the towel on your country.
Regardless of the threats …
Threats that make the most hardened warrior crumble and apologize for supporting the president.
The war is real.
And it is bigger than any one man.
My hope is there will be enough Americans and others in this world to support and bring us into the light.
Pray.
Meditate.
Sing.
Dance.
Whatever you need to do to raise your vibe into one of appreciation and love, do it.
Nature works every time.
There WILL be a one world order.
It will come in the form of slavery, or freedom.
Choice is ours.
It will come from a place of fear, hatred, or good thought processing.
It is important to rule the emotions, and not be ruled BY them.
The enemy uses emotion against us … ALL of us, in various methods.
Make a commitment to learn something new. Have you always wanted to knit, roller skate, skydive, or play an instrument? Try it! Be a beginner and see what calls to you.
One of the secrets to staying young is to always do things you don’t know how to do, to keep learning. ~ Ruth Reichl
Sometimes we stop ourselves from doing new things because we want to do it “right” right away. We’re not willing to be messy or clumsy, or to make mistakes. But trying to always do things right can make us rigid, and never trying something new can keep us isolated in our old routines.
Imagine yourself looking at the world with a beginners mind, and being willing to try new things. This means you are also willing to be messy, clumsy, and imperfect. That’s what beginners do.
I could not lie anymore, so I started to call my dog, “God.” First he looked confused, then he started smiling, then he even danced. I kept at it: now he doesn’t even bite. I am wondering if this might work on people?
The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself. ~ Anna Quindlen
Many of us hold an image in our minds of who we think we should be, and we constantly compare ourselves to this imaginary version of ourselves. Anytime we fall short of this standard by not being pretty enough, successful enough, smart enough, or fill-in-the-blank enough, we judge ourselves harshly.
The truth of the matter is that we will always fall short of perfection when we compete against an imagined version of ourselves. You are perfectly imperfect, just as you are. Free yourself from the imaginary chains of perfection. You are the only one who can do so.
You’re probably about 15 years-old, so I don’t expect you to be very mature or for you to want a little girl on your skate ramp for that matter.
What you don’t know is that my daughter has been wanting to skateboard for months. I actually had to convince her that skateboarding wasn’t just for boys.
So when we walked up to the skate park and saw that it was full of teenage boys, she immediately wanted to turn around and go home.
I secretly wanted to go too because I didn’t want to have to put on my mom voice and exchange words with you.
I also didn’t want my daughter to feel like she had to be scared of anyone, or that she wasn’t entitled to that skate park just as much as you were.
So when she said, “Mom it’s full of older boys,” I calmly said, “So what, they don’t own the skate park.”
She proceeded to go down the ramp in spite of you and your friends flying past her and grinding rails beside her.
She only had two or three runs in before you approached her and said “Hey, excuse me…”
I immediately prepared to deliver my “She’s allowed to use this park just as much as you guys” speech when I heard you say, “Your feet are wrong. Can I help you?”
You proceeded to spend almost an hour with my daughter showing her how to balance and steer, and she listened to you – a feat not attained by most adults.
You held her hand and helped her get up when she fell down and I even heard you tell her to stay away from the rails so that she wouldn’t get hurt.
I want you to know that I am proud that you are part of my community, and I want to thank you for being kind to my daughter.
She left the skate park with a sense of pride and with the confidence that she can do anything, because of you.
Basically, they think of 100 reasons why something might go wrong. And all of those thoughts then struggle to become things, sometimes overriding their more constructive thoughts.
That’s the power of worry.
Now, let’s say you want something fantastic to manifest in your life.
Hypothetically, let’s say you want a Carefully laid out agenda. (I know you.)
Have you closed your eyes yet and imagined 100 reasons why it might come to you easily, fast, and harmoniously?
Many people have become habitual prayers, asking for this and for that. The prayer form has taken on something that resembles the three wishes of a genie … praying to the Djinn.
Prime Creator is your “partner”. If you insist on treating yourself and others like crap, well, you’ll most likely receive the same … until you actually tire of it and change your habits.
I’m no expert, not by far. However if you know about the genie (Djinn) you know what I mean. (https://occult-world.com/djinn/)
I used to believe habits needed breaking, and recently learned a better framing for that, which takes so much burden off the psyche.
We don’t break habits, we change them.
Just flow into the next format, whatever you wish to try on next. When you find a format that isn’t toxic or destructive, awesome, keep it and continue to grow.
