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Flow With Intension

Published June 28, 2020 by tindertender

In this existence, we are seen yet also unseen (physical form vs our thought form). We are here and yet not here.

It is often stated that there does not appear to be an answer to a situation or circumstance. I know I’ve done it.

How can no solution exist?

We are here in the physical, and also in the spiritual through thought and energy.

If we become still and know that our perspective has been limited, opening to new ways of seeing things from our various positions in the seen and unseen worlds, answers will begin to flow.

People are so tense these days. Muscles contracting, heart speeding up, tensions rising, anxiety or fear. They are too much in their head and body … shrinking, becoming more and more rigid.

Life is a flow.

Momentum occurs when the intention and drive are combined into action. Rigidity has no ability to flow, it sinks.

We can become stuck in our stubbornness.

Don’t jam up.

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Oracle Reading 6-28-2020

Published June 28, 2020 by tindertender

There is a quiet still place inside of you that will always be available as a sanctuary, yet finding such a space in the natural world will enhance and complement this internal place of peace. Whether it is a cave, meadow, forest, seashore, or any other setting in Nature, this is where you can see, hear, and feel the presence of the Creator in your surroundings. Let it become a temple for your heart and soul.

Rather than having your computer, television, or any other human-made device or activity be your sanctuary, allow yourself to discover the perfect place in Nature where you can simply be and breathe. Doing so bridges the connection between the internal and external, facilitating a spiritual communion that allows your being to be aligned in dramatic and quiet reverie with All That Is. In today’s busy world, it becomes even more critical to set aside time for sanctuary – even if you have to schedule it!

It is time to take a break! Not just a coffee break, but a respite from the usual environment you find yourself in. That trip you wanted to take? Go for it. Tired of being indoors? Make it a point to get outside. Have become so attached to your surroundings that you have created within them an illusion of safety, yet it is not these things that make you feel safe. Rather, the familiarity you have imbued in your surroundings have generated this false sense of security.

Taking time away from the familiar is literally about changing your external environment in a significant way, such as doing something unusual or perhaps something you have always wanted to experience. Another perspective is breaking through the barrier of beliefs that have constricted you in any way from being who you truly are. This is your opportunity to do some intentional breaching of these thought patterns, which will open you to different worlds and perspectives.

This is a time of considerable harmony for you, one where the various elements in your life are flowing together smoothly. Just as in musical harmony, it is the interface of these elements that merge into a cycle of symmetry and balance that evokes feelings of harmony. The challenge is to sustain this inner accord even when there is considerable dissonance outside of your own mind, heart, and body.

Note the sensations, emotions, and thoughts you experience when everything seems to be moving along well. Take three deep breaths, and let your breathing be the anchor that reminds you of this state of consciousness. Whenever you perceive chaos around you, know that it is a mirror for your inner turmoil. When you recognize this, take three or more breaths to bring forth the memory of those moments when your life was like a symphony. Then every time you exhale, you are releasing the energy of your internal state of harmony into the world, and it will have amazing effects.

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Relationship

Published June 28, 2020 by tindertender

Men … so ready to “defend”. Bless them. I cannot fathom what it must be like to dwell constantly with the knowing that at any time, the inner defender may need to be unleashed.

To see them in action … ooohhhhh …..

To know of the safety they provide their families.

The security they bring to their wives, to their children.

It is a heavy load. One I’ve never really thought about before.

What do they go through when their protection efforts have failed? What happens to their hearts, their minds?

Who will defend their inner being when that time comes?

The woman.

The nurturer.

This is why partnership is imperative. We balance each other in the flow of life.

If one half is suppressed, the functioning of the whole suffers.

May the masculine be recognized for his efforts.

May the value of woman be realized as the important aspect of life that she is.

May partnership become full and well rounded, in balance.

And may all hearts be blessed with the knowing that whatever we go through, if we utilize partnership in its proper form, ALL will be well, no thing can destroy it.

May all beings be honored, endowed with grace, and trust rebuilt … beyond any doubt.

Together we are invincible.

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Path of the Ancestors

Published June 27, 2020 by tindertender
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Every year they cross at the same place, cruising through rural yards, sleeping in open meadows.

The path they use generation after generation is so well known humans post signs, alerting drivers to the potential of sighting one, maybe hitting one with a vehicle … a warning.

I think about people and their generational paths.

Were parents, grandparents, and earlier in the familial line alcoholics? Was someone a woman beater? Lazy? No job? Any number of limited behaviors that potentially infected the whole line of life, generation after generation, stuck in the same rut?

Much like the elk utilize the same paths, the same methods of hunting for food on the same grounds as their ancestors. Are they too stuck in a rut? Or do they just do what the mind tells them they should do?

It is every person’s responsibility to examine the functioning of the mind. Taking control of the output … controlling emotions, rather than being controlled by them.

Purposefully looking at habitual patterns and altering course … changing the pattern to something new, for a different experience, for a new potential of growth.

Only by being consciously aware of our mind and the thoughts therein can we master it. This requires work, continual practice.

Negative self talk should be rephrased immediately upon noticing. If it is allowed to continue, it will spew into the world, affecting relationships, causing hardship.

To change perspective and develop new ideas and outcomes, alter habitual patterns.

Now that you are an adult, it is your responsibility to perfect your character.

Be careful of your thoughts, for your thoughts become your words. Be careful of your words, for your words become your actions. Be careful of your actions, for your actions become your habits. Be careful of your habits, for your habits become your character.

Our Creation

Published June 27, 2020 by tindertender

Artists do not allow an outside influence to construct their painting, or other creation. It is born of their own accord.

Remember this when it comes to your character.

Who you are, is the masterpiece YOU create.

It is your art piece.

It is your statement to the world.

An original.

If an outside source is constantly telling you what your painting or creation should look like, what it should represent and so forth, it is no longer your perfect creation … it is tainted by outside influence and it is not 100% authentic.

Embrace YOU

You are magic, walking around spinning off pieces here and there wherever you go, affecting the world around you.

It is powerful

And when pure, authentic character and personhood blooms, it is the rarest flower (or bush, or tree, whatever analogy the masculine might like to use) and no other is quite like it … like YOU.

I had no idea Character Evolution could be so fun.

We get to choose our persona every moment. Who will we be today? Are we grouchy, happy, sad. Do we seem to fluctuate readily and often between such emotional states?

Control Your Mind

Take command of your output.

Of course there will be times when we burst open and spew that which we are attempting to leave behind, it happens. The key is in recognizing it when it happens, and making the shift … choosing your reality, not letting emotion steer the ship. It’ll crash more often than not.

Grab the reigns, ride this wild life like no body’s business!

Becoming the best version of YOU possible, through sheer Will Power!

Now that’s Strength!

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PS ~ DON’T DENY YOUR SENSITIVITY!!!!!

Oracle Reading 6-27-2020

Published June 27, 2020 by tindertender

Heed the messenger: It is easy to ignore the messengers and the signs they show you, especially when they bring a message you do not wish to hear. Now is not the time to ignore the messengers. Do not let your fear of change or discomfort silence their voices. It is time for you to stop procrastinating, to see and to hear the truth, and do what is necessary. Heed the messenger for the wisdom they offer is born of your own intuition and need.

Do not fear the unknown: The ugly is not always bad and evil, and the beautiful not always good and just. Failure is not predetermined, nor is it a given that others laugh at you if you choose to follow your dreams. It is your fear of the unknown that makes you question and judge. Do not let another’s experience be the truth that guides you. Do not allow your fear of an unknown outcome to hold you prisoner. Your own experience could be both different and rewarding. Live!

Honour Gaia: The earth upon which you dwell is more than just a rock covered in water, stone and dirt. The earth beneath your feet, the mountains, the forests, the rivers, lakes, oceans, and the air that you breathe are all part of the magical living entity that is Gaia. She is our eternal mother, our provider, and our home. Gaia gives us life. Without her, we would not be. Honour Gaia by seeing the truth of what she is. Honour Gaia by loving her as you love yourself.

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Reading from the deck “Messenger Oracle” Ted by Ravynne Phelan

Oracle Reading 6-25-2020

Published June 25, 2020 by tindertender

From the flawless patterns of your spirit, great light shines upon the world. You are a leader, a healer, an inspiration, a free spirit … unrestricted by traditional thinking. A desire to be all you can be, and a vision for positive transformation, draws you into deep exploration and clarity. Break free, reshape your destiny and follow the spiraling, intertwining pathways of peace, love and wisdom.

There is a higher purpose to everything, but currently it is not clear. Something in your life is changing, and it is unsettling. Soon, the pieces of the puzzle will start falling into place, and you will begin to find meaning in it. For now, trust the refinement process, hone your ability for love and develop your capacity for compassion. As taints fall away, the truth becomes clearer.

From the calm, neutral perspective of love, and free from the fear, guilt and judgement of this world, your higher self looks through the conflict and drama of the physical world and sees hidden meaning and purpose. From a distance, present chaos looks perfectly ordered. Seek greater awareness. Tune into the depths of your heart to find heavenly peace.

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Reading from the deck “Sacred Earth Oracle” Ted by Toni Carmine Salerno and Leela J. Williams

Oracle Reading 6-23-2020

Published June 23, 2020 by tindertender

You are continually moving, evolving and going through cycles in your life. Attune and align yourself with the rhythms of nature around you. This is an exciting time with new beginnings, growth and changes. There are many settings that will provide for inner development and expansion. Pay attention to everything that is going on around you and the effect it is having on you. Consider environmental issues or use this as an opportunity for new studies. It is a good idea to recognize the need for extra rest and personal care while integrating new energies, so you are ready for important messages and opportunities. Just as in nature, you too have seasons of growth and maturity.

There is a ripple effect of energy flowing from you. Be positive. Simply staying happy and sending that happiness out from your heart will benefit those around you. As you adjust your motives and attitudes, this energy flows from you in concentric circles affecting all of your desires and beliefs. There is a chance to bring good fortune and influences to all of the events in your life. As circles also represent cycles, know that you are continually going in and out of cycles, growing and changing. With every ending comes a new beginning. Trust that the positive energy you radiate will attract what you wish for.

Move your thoughts, emotions and outlook to new perspective. Take an overview of what is going on. Just through shifting your perspective you will see the whole situation in clearer light. A different course may become apparent. You will be able to focus on what is most important to you. Make a conscious effort to get above the situation. If there is nothing pressing in your life at the moment, consider something that may be unresolved from the past. Use the same idea of climbing above it with the intention of healing it. Once you achieve the higher ground perspective, you may find yourself filled with peace – a beautiful outcome!

Reading from the deck “Nature’s Whispers” created by Angela Hartfield and Josephine Wall

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What Is The Next Step?

Published June 22, 2020 by tindertender

In these days we can sometimes feel overwhelmed by the chaotic movements and energies around us.

We may become so overwhelmed that it is difficult to know which direction to turn, which project to tackle first, or be completely at a loss as to how to begin lifting the pile of worries from atop our heads.

Breathe.

In times of stress it is typical for us to lose our rhythm. Our muscles contract, our breathing becomes shallow or labored, and may include any form of release … outbursts, tears, fights.

If this is your current experience, stop.

Check in with your heart, your muscles, your breath, NOT the mind. Examine the tensions dwelling within your person. Focus on relaxing them, and releasing them.

Take time every morning to make a vow as to the efforts you will apply to the day.

What will you create? Where and how will you apply your energies to affect a benefit for the whole?

Our energies influence all others, just as ours is influenced by those we encounter.

Distinguish the subtle differences between your energy and that of those you have relationship throughout the day. Become familiar with what belongs to you, and that which you pick up on and absorb.

Reject any energies which are not yours if they are dark. There are many methods of this and I have found the best is to move, breathe and gently push the negative away.

As with all delicate energy work, we must be tuned in order to recognize the varying degrees of flow.

With time and practice, you will easily remove the energetic imprints people add in your experience. You will maintain balance. You will stop ‘reacting’ and will start ‘responding’. You will become an expert at energetic transmutation.

Control your emotions.

Do not be controlled by them.

In all instances, keep humility in mind.

None of us know it all.

Everyone has a lesson to teach.

Everyone has a lesson to learn.

It truly is a team effort, and the more of us who are aware and practicing, the quicker the transmutation process becomes, not only for self and personal relationships, but the flow of the entire world will begin to shift.

LOVE

Keep going.

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There are some wonderful suggestions on shifting energy here: https://www.consciouslifestylemag.com/energy-clearing-techniques/

Oracle Reading 6-22-2020 p.m.

Published June 22, 2020 by tindertender

Highlighted is shared wisdom, and the ability to give freely.

You’re able to share life’s wisdom with others without embarrassment. You’re free of outmoded conventions, unconcerned about other people’s opinions of you. You have the courage of your convictions and inspire many people to loosen the grip on their ego.

The Guardian King of the East is in support now. He guards the Water. He soothes an angry mind and brings calm to the world.

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You have the potential to develop insight into the flow of emotions and the irritations that may anger you as they come to the surface of your mind.

You have a new understanding of the deep-seated unconscious patterns that have affected your daily life. With this understanding comes the ability to go with the flow of life without the turmoil of negative reactions. You’re beginning to realize your potential in dealing with your emotions.