Manipulation

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You Aren’t What Others Tried to Create in You

Published April 26, 2024 by tindertender

When I was 5, I wanted to be like mama. Mama smoked. I used to get the buts out of the ash tray and pretend. By 7, I was taught how to properly inhale by a babysitter. By 11 I had mother approval, was given allowances, and notes of approval for purchase of the cigarettes at the store.

At 16 my mother bought an exorbitant amount of alcohol for self and friends, a party in the woods! Alcohol use approved, and supplied.

In life, people have tried to label me as addict. I would never accept that.

I experienced a pattern of excess, then I stopped. Those historical experiences don’t determine who I am today … or even then …

Some use cannabis, or hemp, and are labeled as an addict.

Some drink to excess and are seen as sophisticated … or a lush, depending on social status.

We as humans have experiences. Sometimes these experiences destroy us. Sometimes we physically perish, sometimes spiritually. If the bioform survives, the Spirit advances, expands, elevates …

While others get so angry at your rising, overcoming, gaining resilience and knowledge that could help others avoid such paths …

An experience isn’t an addiction.

Doing something repeatedly isn’t addiction.

It isn’t addiction unless there is craving.

Cigarettes have an addictive substance added to ensure this, so does alcohol, and junk food …

Addiction is allowed by governmental allowances of addictive substances added to natural products and foods. Many things are advertised as helpful and healthy. Of course “addiction” has grown into a complex money-maker for governing systems.

I never did the 12 steps.

I simply decided not to overindulge anymore.

And with flow, experiences come and go.

Mostly it is Man who judges harshly.

Spirit is happy for the wisdom, resilience, and inner fortitude manifested within.

Challenges are to be overcome.

Challenges aren’t meant to be a lifetime shadow of self-perceived weakness.

See yourself as “at risk” of falling and failing,

Or see yourself as an Achiever of whatever the mind desires.

Man’s judgements inhibit flow, and interfere with the lesson.

Especially knowing about all the interferences meant to manipulate this flow … or stagnancy.

Rise, beautiful mighty one.

Those challenges meant to drown you or bury you in suffering and shame were only fuel for your Soul Flight. Soar.

Leave the manipulations behind.

You aren’t what others tried to create in you.

Cloud Seeding – Hold On!!!!!

Published April 22, 2024 by tindertender

I thought this was a “conspiracy theory”?!?!

Are they flooding their own selves … clearing the way for their future?

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How to Deal with Mental Health Issues and What Causes Mental Illness

Published April 21, 2024 by tindertender

This is important.

Mind Warp

Published April 21, 2024 by tindertender

Sanity is a beautiful blessing.
You don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone.
And you’ll be ever so grateful when it is returned to you.
Just make sure you stay alive.
It’ll get better.

Everyone seems to be “using” humanity.
We must affect change.

Trauma Bonding

Published April 18, 2024 by tindertender

Someone with noble intent wouldn’t start a relationship by chit chatting about old wounds. (That’s called Trauma bonding). The shadow work, the healing hasn’t occurred, and will bring trouble in the connection.

Stages of Trauma Bonding

The seven stages of trauma bonding are:
1) Love bombing – the sudden, intense attempt to create a “we” in a relationship through high praise and excessive flattery
2) Trust & Dependency
3) Criticism
4) Manipulation & Gaslighting
5) Resignation & Giving up
6) Loss of Self
7) Addiction to the Cycle

Because the love-bombing first stage of trauma bonding is so intense, it quickly leads to the trust and dependency in the second stage. That foundation leads you to begin to agree with the abusive person in just about everything – including the abuser’s reasons for treating you badly. It’s like a type of brainwashing, where you don’t even realize that your beliefs about how you’re being treated are distorted.

Did You Know?

Published April 17, 2024 by tindertender
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Dream Lover

Published April 17, 2024 by tindertender

“Dream Lovers” tag the vaginal cavity and womb, or the phallus of the Divine. It’s the cord they use to yank back on them as they elevate, ascending into higher realms. Their pretend divine fems/masc use seggs magic together against the divine to assist in this cording. They “dirty” the divine by pushing the foul orgy magic, making them look like whores. They think they’ll elevate and rise into the kingdom, while the true divine get yanked back. They need you to remain so they can continue to drain your root and sacral chakras, your God-like Lifeforce.

Truth About Jesus, The Holy Books & Time Travel

Published April 12, 2024 by tindertender

The topics he touches on are important.

Dense Energies

Published March 27, 2024 by tindertender

Flush the body,
Flush the energy.

Water holds memory.
Water holds energy.
If the energy of the body has been disrupted, or interfered with by some technology, it can become dense, dark, or chaotic.
The body is mostly water.
It affects to mental body, the emotional body.
To clear, the waters of the body need to be flushed, replaced.
Pour it in, until it pours out of you.
Don’t complain about bathroom breaks.
Water is our friend.
I have found that after pouring in (and out) 2-3, 20 oz waters, the energies begin to clear.

Sometimes while sleeping, energies from an unknown source are planted into the bioform. It comes into the armpits, the heart, solar plexus and root chakras. These energies are not yours. It’s a “dressing” someone wishes you to be seen as.