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Love & Law

Published January 5, 2022 by tindertender

Excerpts from Love & Law, The Unpublished Teachings, Ernest Holmes

We are learning that this creative process is the result of some activity of thought in Mind, whether it is God’s thought or your thought or my thought. When we think, our thought, we will say goes forth, is immediately surrounded by this Mind that immediately begins to act upon it, just like the creative power in the soil acts upon the seed.

So long as we entertain a negative attitude toward any proposition we are destroying any possibility of that thing happening. For instance, suppose I was sick and wanted to heal myself, so long as I hold thoughts of sickness within my mind I could not heal myself. It is not easy to think you are well when you think you are sick.

I have no responsibility except to create the right kind of mental receptivity. That is the truth. Thus we, who are seeking to demonstrate, we know that all we have got to do is to realize the truth, that is, use the mind in a positive formative way and the Mind, or the power which creates everything and projects it, will do the rest for us. Until we come to the point where we see that this is all we have to do, it is all thought; no matter how hard we struggle, we could not do anything else. All we have to do is to take up the attitude of the expectant receiver, realizing we are scientifically using the law.

If there is a power working this out for me, I have to prove my absolute reliance upon it, I have to let it alone. And so I went about and thought no more about it and today in the most unaccountable way that thing was made possible. Something that would never have entered my consciousness in a thousand years, and it shows that if we dare, and learn to place implicit trust, there is something that honors that faith which we give it.

The thought forms which we have created and with which we have surrounded ourselves, our mental beliefs underneath, the result of our objective thinking and receiving… is termed subjective consciousness; it is that power of attraction or repulsion which the individual mentally sets up within. It is your mind operating; that is all. Your life and mine depend upon the subjective side of our thought.

So when we come to our responsibility, it rests solely in providing the right atmosphere and nothing else. I am giving you a system of thought, and if you want to make a demonstration you can work it out. I would not do it for you if I could. I would be depriving you of a divine right. From the metaphysical standpoint, I say get your arms away from clinging on other people. Dare to be yourself. Where did you think anybody ever got so much that you could not know? Then and there you are foreswearing yourself. I am just as intelligent as anybody who ever lived. You have got to have a kind of decent idea of yourself in metaphysics. Did you ever see a person succeed in business who thought it would fail? You never did and you never will.

Begin to think of your word as the word of power going into it which shall create,. That brings you to the One. This mind makes everything. The spirit, or God, makes everything by thinking, or speaking, and then the thing appears in the visible, and since that life is in you, in your word, you do the same thing.

Here is the way to do it. You are not dealing with conditions. Overcome it. To think of disease creates it. You are dealing only with thought, thought, nothing else., thought and Spirit. Spirit is the thing that thinks in you and so you are dealing only with the activity of Spirit which is thought, and you must believe that that thought is law.

First of all, there is one power, and it is in you. Then for the sake of clear thinking, you state it definitely, say it right out. Now, this word which is spoken is the law. Realize that the law is to be a universal thing. Your word is to go to the universal power which recognizes it. This word is the law.

You have got to practice these things. Take a few moments each day in silence and recognition of Infinite life; Affirm one, It is in me now; two, I can use it, my word goes forth into mind; three, It takes my word and creates it; four, I see in my life the thing which it has created.

Love & Law

Published January 4, 2022 by tindertender

Excerpts for the book LOVE & LAW, The Unpublished Teachings by Ernest Holmes

Here is the infinite principle that there is one Mind and we begin to know the truth … and speak that truth into Mind. My responsibility begins when I begin to know the truth in myself. You must know that it can heal, you must know that no thought of another, no suggestion against it, can operate against it.

In order to help yourself the most effectively, you will have to learn to do it impersonally. There is nothing in my metaphysical work I make personal. I set the whole thing out into Mind. Suppose I get a letter from a person in San Francisco asking for a treatment. I begin immediately to declare the truth, and if a thought comes to me that this declaration of truth is not sufficient, I begin again. How many people have tried to give a treatment and felt that it was not sufficient? That is impersonal evil trying to make itself felt. As soon as that thought comes to you, turn and destroy it, erase it, get rid of it. Get it out of your consciousness and declare that this word is effective and it can produce, that it can, that it does, it is. Realize your word does it. If you do not learn to control your thought, the thought will control you.

We have got to learn the laws of cause and effect – law. You have got to learn how to use it, and you have got to know how to use it, and then you have got to use it. I find that those who get the best results are those who know what they are doing, constantly weeding out of their consciousness everything that hinders, destroying within them their false concept, a little here and a little there, and if they fall down, in not staying down but getting up and going on, over and over again … Your final emancipation will be written by your own hand or it will never be written at all; it will be thought out by your own mind. It will govern your own consciousness as it recognizes the supremacy of Mind, the infinite impulse of Spirit, and your own divine birthright to use it.

No living soul can contribute one iota of happiness or peace or health or happiness to your life, and no living soul can take one iota away only as you allow it to flow through your consciousness.

We speak forth into Mind and Mind takes our thought and does unto us. That individual who can most implicitly believe that Mind is going to do it is the one who is going to get the biggest result. The person who sees Mind as law and through it an activity of Spirit, whose soul impulsion is God, I find that such people get remarkable results over the people who operate through a cold principle. Everybody has to, I cannot talk about my idea of God, that is my idea and my business and it could not be anybody else’s, but there is an impersonal principle of Mind which does unto the thinker what he thinks, and the sooner you know it and learn to control your thought the sooner you will be able to heal your body and control your conditions, and until you do learn it your conditions control you.

I at first always try to realize within my consciousness that I am not dealing with matter. You see? I am not struggling to overcome a condition. Everything that appears in anybody’s body is thought. There is not anything else to appear into form. I know if the thought is destroyed, the image of the thought will leave the body.

Realizing that I was not dealing with conditions, I was dealing with thought, I obliterate from my mind anything that says there is power in this false thought. I say my word has the power within itself to annul everything pertaining to this false thought.

Every living soul that lives is dealing with universal law and they cannot help it. If God knew sin, God would be a sinner. You and I must know with our thoughts. All disease is the result of wrong thinking somewhere. There is no such thing as a sinner unless it is you and me. It all comes from false thought, and you and I must know that our word is the power to annul that. Since everything is Mind in a neutral state, an impersonal, receptive, and creative state whatever is thought into Mind, Mind is going to do. If you have thought all of your life that you were so and so and could be sick, that has got to be annulled in Mind about you.

Poverty is an abnormal condition. Poverty is the result of inefficiency. Poverty is not the result of the lack of opportunity. Not in yourself, not anywhere. Poverty is the result of inefficiency, or ignorance. And if you can learn to deal with the only Mind there is, we will no longer be poor. We can attract to ourselves people and things which will obliterate that poverty. It will be a law of gravity, no other thing but principle. When you set in motion the power of mind, don’t be surprised what happens; don’t be surprised if something comes from the most unheard-of source ever dreamed of.

Everybody has got to heal themselves; there is no other way. I can tell you these things, but you have to make the application. These are pointers. Another thing, be absolutely impersonal about your work. Suppose I want to treat myself for something. I call my own name right out into Mind and treat it just the same as if it were somebody I never heard of before, just as disinterestedly as I can, so that consciousness of fear will not crowd.

Do not limit your affirmations about God. Link God up with yourself, for we see there is one life, perfect, that is God. I have got to see this life in me now. That is what made Jesus the Christ; he said, “My Father and I are one.” Be absolutely impersonal.

The bible says, “The things which are seen are not made of the things which do appear.” Now then, that is true of all life and you must know it. You must know this and it is a most important part of your treatment, that we are going forth into mind. We are not a projection of God; we are not a reflection of an image forth from God. We are at the center of God consciousness. And it could not be otherwise. There is nothing but what we call God to make you out of. Whatever there is of you is something or some part of God because there was nothing else to make you out of. So know that you are a center of God consciousness and that is why your word is infinite. Speak it forth believing and never doubt it. You know, you just believe, and then you speak forth this word knowing that it annuls everything which seems to oppose it. It annuls that so-called law of matter. Know that it is a law of harmony and adjustment. It is the law of justice, for that is what you need. It is the law of balance. It is the law of increase. It is the law of plenty. It is the law of activity. It is the law of attraction, if you need something. It is all that there is, and you realize that the word becomes; it goes forth upon this power implicitly.

An Anointing Pours Forth

Published January 3, 2022 by tindertender

Oooohhh the Spirit GAVE ME the TEA ON SOME OF YOU!!!

An anointing is about to pour forth on you… Spirit is about to come through AND kick down them doors and obstacles in your way and that Midas touch is gonna hit like GOLD IS THE NEW WAVE! 🌊 …

Some of you are about to face STRAIGHT IN THE FACE of that hurt inner child and healing is gonna come like a new set of clothes. Fresh out the Box. The God Child in you is about to GLOW UP! LIKE WOAH …

Some of you have been struggling with addiction, self esteem, low energies … Y’all about to be shaken the fuck awake cause Spirit isn’t coming to play… He wants ALL HIS CHILDREN and if you ain’t getting RIGHT ..THEN YOU GETTING LEFT.

New Star seeds and Hybrids are about to EXPLODE on the scene like the NEW KIDS ON THE BLOCK. All you older ones are gonna have to remember that every baby has to crawl before they walk. So be patient cause they’re gonna work your nerves but they’ll pick up quickly.

New colonies are going to be formed. Borders and boundaries that once were separating are going to be crumbling like the Berlin Wall. And a REMEMBERING is about to slap some of you straight in to 5D.

Technology is going to be like WOAH this year. But what THEY wanted to use against us, it’s about to flip because their Story plot got trashed like a shit screenplay. WE’RE THE NEW SCRIPT WRITERS NOW.

2022 is NOT THE YEAR to doubt yourself. It’s not the time to SECOND GUESS YOURSELF. Spirit is saying IT’S TIME TO BE THE ROYALTY YOU ARE AND STOP PLAYING GAMES WITH YOURSELF. Head Up…Chest Out…Shoulders Back! TAKE THIS YEAR BY AIMING HIGH.

Self Care is A MUST. Get your Vision Boards together. Get your meditations done. Move in SILENCE. Stop telling your plans to people who are too small to handle YOUR GREATNESS! LET’S GO!!!!

Spirit is saying … STEP ASIDE AND WATCH ME MOVE! Things you been praying for is about to come to like Magnets. Vibe High. Don’t look down.

Understand that the Shadow is just you. It’s the parts of you that need the most healing and love. Who deserves your love more than YOU? You can do this!

You have another BIG shift about to happen. This one is going to play you in total alignment fully in heart, mind, soul. Instant manifestations will come. At first it’s going to surprise you, then it’s going to become almost like a comedy or game how easy you’ll flow.

It’s beautiful the vibe and aura I feel coming from you. It’s like a frequency turned up from the heart chakra and the beaming from the Crown Chakra. There’s a presence that is going to just simply command respect without opening your mouth.

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We’re All Mad Here

Published January 2, 2022 by tindertender

“But I don’t want to go among mad people,” Alice remarked.

“Oh, you can’t help that,” said the Cat, “We’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad.”

“How do you know I’m mad?” said Alice.

“You must be,” said the Cat, “or you wouldn’t have come here.”

Most people like to fit in. Most people like to feel that all the other people feel that they are quite normal. And other people like to be around people who are very safe, predictable, and well, ordinary. Only, as Alice is told by the Cheshire Cat, we are all mad. There is not a person on this planet that does not have a little secret, or a strange little something they have done, or do. And yet, on and on we go, all the time attempting to be normal.

And ‘normal’ changes all the time. Mostly, people just want to fit in, to blend in with others, to feel that they do not stand out in any way. Standing out can make us vulnerable. It can make us conspicuous. Although our culture adores its iconic people, we do not generally tolerate difference very well. The truth is, we all have our little oddities, and we can exhaust ourselves trying to erase their visibility.

We hide who we truly are. We do not speak of who we are, and we try to convince others that we are just like them. Consider why you would hide any of your own strangeness, when as the Cheshire Cat says, we are all mad here. And we must all be mad – otherwise we would not be here, living another lifetime, brave enough, mad enough, to learn more on this journey of the soul.

Beginning to realize that everyone is interesting, a little bit different and full of secrets, good and bad. Understanding that hiding what makes you your very own self is not only exhausting, but it is robbing the world of your unique wonder. Discovering that you are a little mad – and so, in truth, is everyone else. Embrace your eccentricities and your own peculiar genius.

Artwork by Jasmine Becket-Griffith

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish

Warbonnet ~ Advance

Published January 2, 2022 by tindertender

It is time to advance. Don’t waste energy on going backward or staying in the doldrums. You are now able to move to the next step on the Sacred Path. Like a Warbonneted Chief, you have earned the right to learn the next set of life’s mysteries. Take your Medicine Bundle and all of the strengths it represents and charge forward.

The advance can be on any level. Your spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional healings are understood through life’s experiences. You can now approach your destiny with every feather you have earned marking your past victories and see the destiny you have chosen emerging before you. Your Medicine is strong and will allow the advancement you need at this time.

~ Sacred Path Cards – The Discovery of Self Through Native Teachings by Jamie Sams

Affirmations ~ January 1, 2021

Published January 1, 2022 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

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I delight in love.

Welcome change is on the horizon.

I accept uncertainties as part of the process of change.

Life is a great adventure.

I anchor myself firmly in the present moment.

I step out of my comfort zone.

A new beginning is upon me now.

I rise above adversity.

An infinite source of love is being provided by the Universe.

There are no demands, requirements or conditions that affect my ability to access this supply.

I allow this abundance to flow into my life.

I am lucky and blessed.

The old has been destroyed.

I learn to rely on instinct, ability and talents.

I embrace all that I am becoming.

My needs are met abundantly.

I become the watcher.

I listen without attachment.

I welcome opportunities to give and receive love.

I open my heart.

I move in a new direction.

The blessing of joy and togetherness comes near.

Affirmations ~ December 31, 2021

Published December 31, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

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I am filled with a vision of what I want in my life to be, do, have …

I give thanks in advance for all the blessings on their way.

Conflicts are healed and cherished dreams become reality.

Compassion nurtures my soul, I am whole.

I achieve greater control over my subconscious.

I harness my energies constructively.

I am protected.

I make choices based on love.

I experience the union of Divine Consciousness.

I go forward in peace, knowing a greater understanding is ahead.

I trust the flow of life.

I set my sights higher.

I cast away doubt.

False ideas come to an end.

The old forms shatter.

I live a quality life.

All is happening according to a perfect higher order.

This cosmic, spiritual storm is clearing things out.

The creative genius of the Universe is unfolding.

I am thought of kindly, and found worthy.

I accept the blessings coming my way.

“I give thanks for the higher order of my life, which I trust implicitly as it guides me into wholeness and love. From that which appears as chaos, new order is rising. I trust and receive the gift of higher order in my life now. Through grace and mercy, so be it.”


Published December 31, 2021 by tindertender

You have seen and unseen allies.
Draw upon their strength.
Join forces with friends and flourish.

Today I focus on the good and happy Spirits in my life. The ones that build me up instead of tearing me down. I am rich with the joy and beauty brought to me by my friends.

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Beware of false prophets
Individual expression is stirring
Good news and abundant energy
Look within and choose your path, avoid fanciful choices
Harness the power of the unconscious mind to affect change and healing
Intuition is more reliable than intellect at this time
Temporary withdrawal brings peace and gives time for planning next move
Completed cycle, well done
You have come to know and be at peace with yourself
Using skills within a group to achieve a goal
Inner work and self reflection
You know what you want from the situation you are in
Do not exclude those with a genuine interest in you
Strength in reserve
Stored energy is now released for healing
Embracing a new vision with compassion

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