All posts tagged Connection

Is It A Karmic Relationship?

Published November 17, 2022 by tindertender

1 how do you know if your in a relationship a karmic?
2 how do you know if you’re the karmic?
3 How long do karmic cycles last?

Answer: Anyone can be a karmic. Karmic connections don’t grow or change, its a continuous cycle of pain and suffering. You’ll know if you’re experiencing no growth. Alot of times when we let go of karmics we experience an influx of abundance after cutting them off. Karmics are draining.

I also want to add that karmics will enable your toxic behaviors. The ones you need to surround yourself with are people that will push you to grow. Karmics will enable your toxic behaviors because they’re co dependent on that version of you.

Answer by @SacredWolfTarot

“A karmic relationship is one that’s filled with all-consuming passion but is extremely difficult to maintain,” explains Sanam Hafeez, PsyD, a neuropsychologist and faculty member at Columbia University. “These relationships aren’t meant to last, she says, but they’re learning experiences for those who have them.


Published November 16, 2022 by tindertender

Remain open.
Don’t draw conclusions.
You’ll miss important details if you’re too rigid in your perceptions.

I mean no disrespect.
I don’t understand this world.
I’m feeling my way through.
Thank you for your kind patience.

It’s so much easier with friends.

I do what I do.
You do what you do.
It is what it is.

So Long, Autumn

Published November 16, 2022 by tindertender

The days and nights are colder and we prepare to create a ceremony to honor the end of the Autumn Season. The leaves on trees are in full color, some are even bare as the leave have died off in acceptance of winter coming. Bring items of fall to a circle, light a candle or a warming fire, give gratitude for the Autumn you have enjoyed. We say a respectful “good-bye” to everything including the seasons. Do this anytime in the next few weeks. This is also a cool Thanksgiving event for the family.

(Art by Sharon Lyn Shepherd)

This is Sovereignty – this is enlightenment – this is Mastery – this is Ascension.

Published November 16, 2022 by tindertender

With each degree of expanded awareness, you move away from the world you once lived in. Your awakening has meant that you are no longer in the same dimensional space that you used to occupy. Your expanded awareness has started to reveal more of the world around you as you feel and see and become to know a world that you have never experienced before. ​

Your family and friends will appear identical for they are indeed a version of themselves but you are not the same version of yourself that you were before your journey started. Your version will be present in a greater level of dimensions then they will experience themselves. You will see a world that they do not – you will feel and experience energies that they do not.

To expand your awareness, you must be prepared to severe all the lower vibrational ties that bind you to the lower versions of yourself. In time you become a higher energised, higher dimensional being that will replace the third dimensional version that used to fill the same space. People who knew the previous version will begin to wonder where on Earth YOU came from. Your ‘friends’ will no longer have the same vibration – they will not be able to relate to you or you to them unless they too are prepared to change.

All the day to day worries that occupy so much of your time WILL eventually fall away from your thoughts. Conversations that you once joined in with will sound like the twittering of birds – you will dismiss them as irrelevant, you will ‘literally’ alienate yourself from them, you will not relate to them for indeed you are no longer related to their versions.

The higher energies create larger aura’s – your vibrations will be recognised by those that are similar – you will attract far more to you that is conducive to your advancement.

All that annoys you, worries you, scares you, angers you and upsets you – must be accepted and its control released by you. You cannot take these with you or advance with these present within your Light Body. These are the weights of your beliefs that you have chosen to carry, to keep you heavily anchored to the Earth that you love so much. These are the sacrifices that have to be made for you to advance. This cannot happen if you do not accept their power over you.

Be happy to send Love and Light to those that shout at you.
Be happy to recognize those that believe that you should act the way that THEY see fit.
Be happy to act subordinately to those who feel the need to show domination.
Be happy to understand a bad situation that someone else has put you in to make them feel better about themselves.
Be happy to choose to lose to those who only settle for winning.
These are all choices which demonstrate awareness of YOU.

Now, choose whether you want THESE people to remain in your life, for they will continue to present their version until your version no longer allows a resonating match for them.

This is Sovereignty – this is enlightenment – this is Mastery – this is Ascension.

Loving Blessings 💜

Paul Dobree-Carey / Polaris AB

Collective and Individual Expansion

Published November 16, 2022 by tindertender

You have a piece of knowledge I need in this world…
And so do you,
And you, and you, and you.
My perception expands every time one of you share your ideas, thoughts, and feelings about situations and circumstance.
Because of you, I expand as an individual.
Which then allows me to share from this new space,
Assisting others in their expansion also.
We don’t have to agree on everything.
We simply BE together in the best way possible, keeping peace at the forefront of the collective.
This does not mean “counseling” every person we meet from a lofty position.
We know who is with us by who supports us in our efforts of unity and grace.
We know who doesn’t because they’d rather us change ourselves to be more pleasing for them.
My love goes out to all the unhealed hearts and minds.
I cannot heal you.
My only responsibility is my own health ~ mental, energetic and physical.
That is challenging enough as it is.
So I look after me,
In the best way I am able,
With the tools and awareness I collect in every progressive moment.
I remain grateful for all who have crossed my path and contributed what they had to offer.
This collective WILL rise,
Despite those who continue to drag the energy downward.
I seek that which is good.
I leave the rest.


Published November 15, 2022 by tindertender

Written by Susan Marie

In the remembrance that all are One, the heart field of separation is lifted from our experience and we are brought into the awareness of the quantum field of Infinite love ❤️ where all is created.

In the lower energy field of the known earth, we can now recognize the power of the entanglement of energies in all that we are witnessing in the world.

We simply entangled energies and created from a lower vibration field as part of our experience in contrast.

All are gifted with the choice to lift beyond that field of creation in limitation, to the unlimited quantum field.

What is also true, is the interaction in the quantum field beyond the known between entangled quantum particles IS faster than the speed of light.

This is why some are experiencing a quickening as you let go of the lower world.

In the convergence of One heart, as all create together in the quantum realm, a great and powerful entanglement occurs in the infinite streams of Light.

This convergence is a pulsing flow of magnetic photon light that expands within Oneness that we feel within and all around us.

One can feel the strength and power of this magnetic Light of God in Christ Consciousness.

This is Sovereignty.

It is not a power in Sovereignty that the small self can achieve.

It is realized as One Sovereign Creator.

The place of creation in a united quantum field of love where “ALL IS POSSIBLE”.

Unlimited field of dreams.

When two or more are surrendered to this realm of photon light, the field of One Creator amplifies everything as itSELF in perfection, and “we” witness what have been called miracles or supernatural occurrences.

In this, it is God Consciousness creating as itSELF aware in the expression of “you”.

Leaving all created in the old vibration in limitation to allow the expression of love gifting itself in “your” experience on earth.

A substantial increase in the magnetic field and flow is then known. Seen.

Clarity abounds. Joy is felt. Movement in something magnificent is now here.

This energy of One united can move mountains as we “speak” (living Word) all into existence, trusting in its appearance.

It shall be done.

It is God Consciousness as “you” speaking life “through you” and “for you” in this quantum entanglement of adamantine particles.

Thy will be done, as it is in the heavens so shall it be on earth now, for us.


“Our mission… should you choose to accept it”…… to simply follow the instructions heard/known within, and align with that and know it shall be done.

Mission achieved.

Much love ❤️ to All that IS


New paradigm friendships vs old paradigm friendships

Published November 15, 2022 by tindertender

Written by Kathryn Dworkin

It’s a different experience isn’t it?

When we were sourcing our sense of ourselves thru others perceptions, we felt these obligations to appear a certain way. We held ourselves in the energy of people pleasing to some degree. Being permanently available at the drop of a dime, to those who needed us.

Now, we reserve that commitment to ourselves. We share the overflow, but never to our own detriment. We value our own needs to maintain our energy FIRST. As it should be.

But that old way of being can creep in, can’t it. Those old beliefs that if we aren’t immediately responding to another’s call, we’re somehow not being a good friend.

This is a false belief.

And those who cannot maintain THEIR OWN energy, while waiting for you, have their own healing to address in this respect.

So you could view this little dance, as assisting them w their triggers. Allowing them to face that insecurity, to finally heal it. Whether they dive into that need is their choice.

New paradigm friendships, allow the ebb and flow of time together. The expectations are dropped and they’re appreciated as whatever they are. Whenever they are.

I know in my own experience, there are many people I’ve just had to step away from. For one reason or another. That has not changed my love for them, I’ve simply needed to draw my circle in to some degree. And I allow myself this, without guilt.

When one of these friends who I’ve been on pause w comes forward w a need or an inquiry, I respond at my convenience, w my energetic overflow. Where BEFORE, I was depleting myself to be available to others. I was still failing to understand the way that kind of people pleasing was self detrimental. It was really stemming from my own false understanding of my value.

New paradigm friendships don’t hold this kind of keeping score system. We know we are loved, so nothing needs to be proven. We can appreciate and support one another, without obligation. We can step away when needed, and re-enter in our own timing. Without loss. Without injury.

It’s beautiful.

The Same, Yet Different

Published November 15, 2022 by tindertender

We all live on this wonderful planet we get to call Mother Earth. We all want happiness for ourselves and our families. We all want good health and a healthy community. We are different in our looks, the coloring of our skin, the beliefs we hold dear, our preferences and how we choose to live our life. If we were all the same, life would be boring and mundane. Differences challenge us as well as teach us tolerance and understanding of others. 💜

(Art by Phyllis Ann Taylor Pennet)
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