Transformation

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Challenge Accepted

Published October 16, 2023 by tindertender

I embrace the strangeness of this new experience. Even though it challenges my beliefs about self, I open to it and expand.

I am a Sacred Being crafted by the hand of Universal Creator, and I also create.

I am exotic, unusual, and sometimes eccentric and even seen as a little bizarre. I make peace with this.

I let strange beauty happen through me in creative flow.

I release any fixed ideas I may have about the way things “should” be.

I free-fall into life. The old way is on its way out.

I accept into my life something new and beautiful, it is coming soon.

I leave my historical lessons behind, retaining only knowledge gained. I have outgrown old ways of navigating this life.

My dreams CAN become reality.

I stay grounded.

I remain patient as I contemplate new opportunities. A change for the better is taking place.

I heed the lessons offered by my shadow self. I do not deny this aspect of Me.

I know love can give rise to great destruction, and hate can inspire great acts of love.

I am not a victim. I remain humble. I forgive those who’ve harmed me.

I am open to wisdom and insights from my elders.

I know what it is like to experience unreliability. I nurture its polarity in my life. I stick to tasks until they are complete. I work to make it interesting and stave off boredom.

I allow my dreams to become reality.

I believe a new and better life is coming to me.

I am blessed as I enter this new cycle of transformation. I am on a path of self-discovery in every moment.

I stay present.

I do not construct a story around it.

I allow the experience to be “uncovered”.

Patiently I move into the new, I’m finally seeing things as a whole. A clear perspective of what is happening in my life arrives.

In my heart, I am peace. I seek the highest good.

I am a Giver of Love. I am an extension of that One, infinite Giver of Love.

The imagination is the bridge we build so that higher beings can get to us. I am not afraid to build a good one.

I am not afraid to let Infinite Love to take form according to my desires. I ask the Giver of Love to embody before me as a person with whom I can relate. I embody the Giver of Love within me.

I seek a way to manifest my souls desire for new meaning and a more nurturing and fulfilling life-style.

I am on track.

I accept the promise of future reward.

You Are the Fulcrum Point

Published October 11, 2023 by tindertender

“You are, and always have been, the fulcrum point. The point of energetic leverage between the vision of the future that they want, and the vision of the future that you want.

The hardest thing for you to right now is to
Stop being a point of leverage for them,
And start being a point of leverage for you.

If you can figure out how to do that, like we all are, then we can change the outcome.

We can amplify the field to generate the reality that WE believe is possible.

Not the one that they feed you, every single day on the tv and computer.

You are the point of energetic difference!”

https://x.com/bournebright/status/1712063451495837734?s=46&t=zsZI5mlc1igVGWFu2MUwig

Relax ~ You Can’t Stop It Anyway

Published October 11, 2023 by tindertender

The energies are getting chaotic. There is a lot of pain and fear energy in the atmosphere.

Drink a lot of water. Breathe. Do your best to transmute the energies as they enter the system. Take a salt bath if you need to. Put your feet in the dirt. Get into the wilderness, sit by a tree.

The energy isn’t yours. You are picking up on it. Be careful you don’t allow it to fuel chaotic reactions in your decisions regarding life.

Focus on your contribution to the whole.

Be balanced.

Be a blessing in the world.

Don’t let the puppet masters jerk your chain.

Dance.

Be happy.

It’s the bravest thing to do right now.

The Power of Words and Magic

Published October 9, 2023 by tindertender

Reject from your circle all who speak dark spells over your life with their words … spells of brokenness, worthlessness, whatever doesn’t lift you sinks you. Lighten your load.

Growing Into Life

Published October 6, 2023 by tindertender

Often, others feel they know best what we need in order to expand, to grow, to learn. School systems “teach” the same to all students. Students conform to a script.

Expansion only really occurs if someone is living their personal life plan, flowing along their own path.

Now that I’m older and have reformatted my life according to my ideals, I learn according to my likes. I move into that which attracts me, with knowledge of the darker aspects of experience … already did that. I know what to avoid.

Wisdom. To share.

In order to grow into our inherent, natural born gifts, we must be brave and gently push into the recesses of our mind, bringing forth that which is beneficial, and sharing into the collective for expansion of the whole.

Even if folks aren’t aware or participating, all benefit in the collective from this share.

It’s Rutting Season

Published October 6, 2023 by tindertender

I Don’t Care Anymore

Well you can tell everyone I’m a down disgrace
Drag my name all over the place
I don’t care anymore

You can tell everybody ’bout the state I’m in
You won’t catch me crying ’cause I just can’t win
I don’t care anymore
I don’t care anymore, d’you hear?

I don’t care what you say
I don’t play the same games you play

‘Cause I’ve been talking to the people
That you call your friends
And it seems to me there’s a means to an end
They don’t care anymore

And as for me I can sit here and bide my time
I got nothing to lose if I speak my mind
I don’t care anymore
I don’t care no more

I don’t care what you say
We never played by the same rules anyway

I won’t be there anymore
Get out of my way
Let me by
I got better things to do with my time
I don’t care anymore
I don’t care anymore
I don’t care anymore
I don’t care anymore

Well, I don’t care now what you say
‘Cause every day I’m feeling fine with myself
And I don’t care now what you say
Hey, I’ll do alright by myself
‘Cause I don’t

‘Cause I remember all the times I tried so hard
And you laughed in my face ’cause you held the cards
I don’t care anymore

And I really ain’t bothered what you think of me
‘Cause all I want of you is just to let me be
I don’t care anymore
Do you hear, I don’t care no more

I don’t care what you say
I never did believe you much anyway

I won’t be there no more
So get out of my way
Let me by
I got better things to do with my time
I don’t care anymore
Do you hear, I don’t care anymore
I don’t care no more
You listening? I don’t care no more
No more

Oh yeah, yeah
Oh yeah, yeah
Oh yeah, yeah

You know I don’t care no more
Don’t care no more
No more, no more, no more
Don’t care no more
No more, no more

No more, no more
No more, no more
No more, no more
No more, no more
No more, no more

Source: Musixmatch

Songwriters: Phil Collins

Golden Years

Published September 30, 2023 by tindertender

Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop

Don’t let me hear you say life’s taking you nowhere
Angel
Come get up, my baby
Look at that sky, life’s begun
Nights are warm and the days are young
Come get up, my baby

There’s my baby, lost that’s all
Once I’m begging you save her little soul
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Come get up, my baby

Last night they loved you
Opening doors and pulling some strings
Angel
Come get up, my baby
In walked luck and you looked in time
Never look back, walk tall, act fine
Come get up, my baby

I’ll stick with you, baby, for a thousand years
Nothing’s gonna touch you in these golden years
Gold
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Come get up, my baby

Some of these days, and it won’t be long
Gonna drive back down where you once belonged
In the back of a dream car twenty foot long
Don’t cry, my sweet, don’t break my heart
Doing all right, but you gotta get smart
Wish upon, wish upon, day upon day, I believe, oh Lord
I believe all the way
Come get up, my baby
Run for the shadows, run for the shadows
Run for the shadows in these golden years

There’s my baby, lost that’s all
Once I’m begging you save her little soul
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Come get up, my baby

Don’t let me hear you say life’s taking you nowhere
Angel
Come get up, my baby
Run for the shadows, run for the shadows
Run for the shadows in these golden years

I’ll stick with you, baby, for a thousand years
Nothing’s gonna touch you in these golden years
Gold

Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop
Golden years, gold whop whop whop

Source: LyricFind

Songwriters: David Bowie

Golden Years lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Royalty Network, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc

Re-Parenting Self

Published September 22, 2023 by tindertender

It’s what I had to do. I started 21 years ago. Unlearning everything taught and conditioned. Retraining myself, from a loving perspective, with my highest good in mind. @AmentiReAnkhet puts the process in words very well here.

“Re-parenting is the process of healing from childhood trauma & pain by intentionally making choices in your highest good.

In this thread are some tips to help re-parent yourself.

Discipline –
Learn to say no to what doesn’t serve you
Practice Letting Go
Build a foundation of habits/rituals that help ground & stabilize your life
Follow through on your plans & promises you make to yourself

Self-Care –
Breathwork
Meditation
Journaling
Proper Sleep
Connect with Nature
Conscious Awareness
Practice Boundaries
Focus on Nutrition
Move your body

Joy –
Listen to Music
Help someone
Do something spontaneous
Get a New Hobby
Create Human Connection
Be more childlike

Tend to your hurts & wounds. Provide words of encouraging affirmations. Provide or not deprive yourself physical affection & touch. Hold self accountability. Be kind to yourself. Honor your feelings. Creating a structure, will make life easier & help you find your center.”

Ascension

Published September 17, 2023 by tindertender

It isn’t necessarily like a “rapture”.

It’s where everything you once were is shattered and destroyed. If you survive it, you’ll be reborn as someone new.

This happened to me. Some call me broken. The one they remember, was. She no longer exists. They’d know that if they were following the journey rather than being stuck in time.

I meditated on my current momement, the sticky situation clinging to me, refusing to let go.

Spirit sent message, “One Final Push”.

I’m on my way out of darkness.

Let the darkness call me broken.

I’m growing wings.

It’s “The End”

Published September 4, 2023 by tindertender

For those not seeing clearly.

An ex president without guard. Shuffling around like any other older male.

This is a definite sign, intentionally gifted to those who are aware.

He’s got the infamous red shoes on too.

https://x.com/qthebubbles/status/1698569969364344849?s=46&t=zsZI5mlc1igVGWFu2MUwig