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Becoming The Environment

Published November 6, 2020 by tindertender

You may have heard the phrase, “You are the company you keep”. You may have even concluded this to be a truth.

That which we fill our lives with, we mold to, we shape ourselves to fit. Whether it be a certain group of people, a certain genre of ideation, the movie styles we fill our viewing pleasures with, and any number of other habitual patterns we formulate for ourselves.

These things and situations we make ‘regular’ in our lives builds our character. (Fortunately, character is fluid, continuously evolving, morphing into successive phases of being and understanding.)

Becoming our environment can be clear, as in the company we keep. Something less obvious is the messages we ingest via broadcasting, theatricals.

Movies … ugh. The typical American movie these days has gunfire, explosions, and sex. People in the roles of abuser and victim … winners and losers. Rarely do we see promoted televised shows of unity and harmony … not on cable anyhow.

These constant showings shape our psyche, desensitizing the mind to the atrocities televised, day in and day out.

The “picture” show leaves endless snapshots in the mind for the memory complex to call up at any time, to focus on chaos and harmful situations whenever … as one has a conversation with another about the details of the film, the visions that have been seared into mind via retinal implant flash before the hidden eyes of the ‘think tank’.

Those who watch a lot of television are having their minds molded to a certain way of thinking and behaving. It’s a fact, there is a patent on this manipulative technique.

https://patents.google.com/patent/US6506148B2/en

Manipulation of the nervous system coupled with violence and other scenes from movies as well as subliminal messages “molds” the mind of the viewer, especially if alcohol or other substances are used while watching.

I look around me in wonder that so many people think they are behaving in a manner of ‘choice’, denying the notion that they are allowing themselves to be programmed. It is clear to me, from personal experience, that to admit one is not entirely in control of their reality is difficult, if not impossible, especially if the ego is sufficiently set up and validated.

To become humbled enough to see deep inside self and claim it all is risky business … it’s a given that the ego will fight it off with everything it has. It’ll feel like dying, and indeed, it will be a death, for once the inner workings of the mind and heart are seen, the truths uncovered cannot be denied.

This is a time to create a new persona, expanding character, stretching beyond the comfort zone and really figuring out what has been hiding in the depths of self. To locate anything that triggers an intense emotional response and dismantle it at its core.

The light is shining upon all things these days, nothing will remain hidden or denied much longer.

Forgiveness will need to be a focus … forgiveness of others, yes, but also forgiveness of self.

Many things will grow transparent in the coming days, weeks, and months. Be calm, and choose … from the heart … what you are going to become personally, building your own character, rather than becoming as instructed and/or implanted with via the broadcasting network.

The Afterlife

Published November 3, 2020 by tindertender

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Now it is time to question what really happens to us in the afterlife. In order to do that, you have to be already awake here on Earth, and cultivate not only your self-awareness, your insight in your own inner divine self, but most importantly you ability to discriminate who you are dealing with in those spiritual or astral worlds. Ask yourself, why would a council of spiritual guides or masters busy themselves with processing the endless stream of deceased souls through life reviews to make them aware of what they might have done wrong.

True guides and masters have better things to do. It is the same there as here on Earth. People are conditioned to believe what authorities tell them is good for them. The school and governmental systems are set up for that purpose. In the spiritual arena, churches, priests, and gurus take up that role. People end up not believing in themselves. In certain yoga systems, they will tell you that there is only one Guru, that is your own inner divine self. Listen to that and you know what is true or not. Of course, you can listen to what somebody else tells you, but then go within yourself, and feel if it has any value, if it is based on truth, and let your own inner voice to have the last word.

When it is your time to leave this physical body behind, and experience the astral dimensions, be aware of what you encounter, and question everything. Keep your awareness in your center, and from there feel what the possibilities are for you at that point. Discernment always has been a necessity, now even more than ever before.

Let`s go deeper in humans “after life”….. The “tunnel of light” as part of the “extended earth matrix”…….. Excerpts: http://www.soul-guidance.com/houseofthesun/ET/afterlife.html

…What happens in those ‘life reviews’ is cunning manipulation of your emotions in order to feel guilty based on your own morals and belief systems. In the universe there no good nor bad. Good and bad are based on conscience. Conscience is a mental construct n our own personal history of rules of behavior instilled in you by your environment, that is, parents, family, friends, school teachers, government. Then we add to that our own point of view of what we find acceptable or not. It has no bases on anything divine, or cosmic or spiritual laws. The cosmos is neutral in that regards. Anything goes. Yes, there is cause and effect. Whatever we do will result in certain effects that one has to deal with. There is nothing in the universe, nor inside yourself that says that you have to go suffer because of what you did in the past. You might want to rectify something that you are not comfortable with, but there are always ways to do this in a positive way.

The council of the ‘spiritual guides’ will never openly say that you did something wrong. They know better and they cannot force a soul to incarnate again. They show those scenes of his past life that they know will instill guilt in the soul, so eventually the soul will agree to go back into a physical body to go suffer again in an effort to dissolve his ‘sins’. When it is time to incarnate again, we find, yet again, other ‘guides’ that show the soul a selection of human lives from which he can choose, and then program certain life events that will ‘aid’ him in learning his lessons.

Shouldn’t we ask who are those ‘spiritual guides’ in the council of life review? Any authority that that makes you feel guilty, and tells you what to do is assuming control over you and makes you subject to their own wishes. Such an authority has their own agenda. Councils are OK when they work for the betterment of other souls or beings, but not if they impose something, even if it is done is a subtle or deceptive way. If you hear the word ‘contract’ that you have possible agreed to in a distant past, you should cancel it right away, because it is most often a deal in which you were tricked into.

Don’t misunderstand me, Earth is a learning school and we can reincarnate here as many times we want for whatever reason we want. The problem is that the soul between life times, is being manipulated into believing that he has done bad things, and that he must suffer again.

Now, ask yourself, if this is karma, if man has to suffer, then those suffering humans, need others who will inflict the suffering on them. For example, if you have to undergo bullying, then there needs to be a bully. So, what truly, enlightened guide or master, would make a soul incarnate and pre-destine him to go bully others. Or to go torture and kill. Or to wage wars, etc. Who makes psychopaths incarnate to make the lives of ordinary people hell on Earth? Then when these psychopaths die, they get the same story in their life reviews, and get send back to undergo suffering this time. And on and on it goes. The suffering of humanity never ends. And,…that is the point. Because all that suffering generates a lots of emotional energy that is harvested by the alien Controllers.

Temptation

Published November 2, 2020 by tindertender

It seems temptation still has its hold on me. When will I ever learn to subconsciously let go of past habitual patterns? It’s easy enough while awake, yet the ‘tests’ continue in the astral, and I find myself failing … failing myself.

There are times when I’d like to kick down a door and save those I hear being abused, yet for some reason, I don’t.

It seems those in the astral want me to know just how powerless I am. It seems I ought to meditate on personal power before nodding off at night.

Perhaps I’m not a warrior after all.

Perhaps I am merely a survivor.

Or, perhaps the time for my true test simply has not arrived yet.

Whichever way, the night is the night and the day is the day.

May this day be filled with that which brings smiles to faces and even laughter to hearts.

Be well friends.

May the best arrive for you in the coming moments.

Frank Zappa knew it 45 years ago!

Published October 18, 2020 by tindertender

None of us have the promise of tomorrow, God forbid this is my last day on this beautiful earth, it won’t be spent listening to some news person telling me how rotten we are, how rotten life is, heck no, I’m going out and seeing how beautiful life is. As humans, our time on this planet is very limited…

Turn off, tune out and turn on your life.

Peace

~ Frank Zappa

Cancer ~ Here In The Light

Published October 4, 2020 by tindertender
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Here in the light we are ALL cancer patients.

Whether the physical body has developed the cancer yet is really of no great bearing on this reality, it is simply an outward manifestation of our spiritual health.

You see, we’ve all been leeched on to by a force we cannot see. It sends dark tendrils through our energetic and spiritual form. It causes mood swings, depression, and funky funks we find it difficult to climb out of.

It’s a double whammy really, because it uses others who are also in a funky funk to increase our own … it feeds on us, and then uses us to feed on each other.

A woman in the astral gave a talk last night about how she pulled the tendrils from her form. All of us there wore the typical head scarf the cancer ridden female wears.

She let us know it is possible to heal ourself.

She suggested we utilize whatever visualizations and thought forms we need to to pull out these tendrils, these pipes that inject our form with poison.

I woke at 3am after listening to her speech. She rose when she finished, showing her flesh and she was brilliant, so bright.

She is proof that healing self is not only a possibility, but with consistent effort and formatted technique, a probability.

When we train ourself to help ourself, we can then help others.

So I thank the one who helped me … and then regretted it and took the help away.

I thank all those who send me trials, for without them I would not have opportunity to overcome … to rise.

Of course I am grateful to all the helpers, here, and in the astral … friends. Some who know it, others who deny it.

Someday we’ll be together again in the light, strong and healthy once more.

I’m looking forward to seeing you … in joy.

Experts at Reality

Published September 30, 2020 by tindertender

As most of us are busy trying to create a reality for ourselves that is healthy, happy and whole, there are others working against us.

You see, their goal is to manipulate the reality of everyone around them … in this way, they manipulate their own.

Two kinds of players …

The honest, who keep to themselves,

And the greedy, who get a kick out of disrupting the lives of others. This gives them a sense of power … and it may even be rewarded by those higher up in the game, doing the same.

The question is …

Are we aware of this fact? Or are we being pulled here and there, at the whim of another, or others.

It is easy to tell ourself we will not be manipulated, but are we telling ourself the truth? How can this be truth when we cannot see the bigger picture? The game … the hoopla … the hoops we continuously jump through at the guidance of others?

Reality …. it’s tough, especially when we cannot see it.

I did not watch the debate more than 15 minutes last night. Two grown men, calling each other liars …. like arguing children. And people are caught up in it as if it is the most important thing in this world.

Who is creating reality? Arguing children, or you?

It’s plain to see should one step back and simply observe without getting emotionally entangled. It takes practice … and time is short.

Stepping back now would be the wise thing to do.

Stop the drink, the drug, the mind altering substances which inhibit clear thinking.

Unless of course you enjoy being played ….

Then by all miens, continue.

Realities are being designed, right now. The one you buy in to will be yours for some time.

Choose wisely.

I say these things for my benefit, as much as yours.

What you choose now will be your reality for years to come.

Step away from the players, be the Creator.

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Words

Published August 29, 2020 by tindertender

Words are tiny hooks for the mind.

Digital freeway signs telling you to “mask up” and “save lives” … fear porn.

Words programming minds into a state of lack perception.

Subliminal messaging in the television programs and commercials … buy this, you must have that (as with the toilet paper fiasco the world over).

Some have become so addicted to these hooks they cannot pull themselves away from that which places them in the mind … they have been “programmed” to absorb more and more of these barbs … that which keeps the mind caught.

They are compelled to turn on the television as soon as they arrive home, some saying they don’t watch it, they simply have it on for the noise it provides. Noise is right. Noise filled with barbs for the mind.

Cannabis, beneficial when used properly, a detriment when not. Keeping the mind at surface level limbo. Unable to delve into the deep waters of the snare. Unable to see the snare, let alone comprehend its magnitude.

Alcohol, which totally obliterates conscious usage of words and intention.

Be mindful of what hooks you allow to be implanted in the psyche.

If they are anything other than love, peace, compassion, harmony and such related concepts, you can be certain it is not for benefit, but a steering toward another’s agenda.

Indeed, even the wolf masquerades as a light worker. Steering minds into lack perception. A weakness implant, drawing the mind into believing only they can help you out of a situation or set way of thinking. Stripping spirit of its own authentic power.

Trials are here for a reason. They build our capacity to withstand chaos. The lessons we learn through process allows compassion for others experiencing same and similar circumstances, growing our heart, our center, our connection should we choose not to shrink.

This is why many times another simply isn’t able to help us. We must endure, gather the lesson, before it can be released.

Be mindful of the words you absorb, and the words you use upon another.

They can be of benefit, or add to the snare.

Use experience to benefit self and others, not tear everything down.

Words … being used by the media now for separation and control … creating divide like never before, and politicians are pushing all the buttons in alignment with the message.

Reject it.

Sub-Thoughts in Mind

Published August 23, 2020 by tindertender

What does it sound like in your head? Do you talk to yourself a lot? Thinking on overload?

You’ve heard, most likely by now, of the “angel on one shoulder and the devil on the other” saying do this, or no, don’t do that.

Are you aware tho, that the many who would have you commit error are also using your own voice? They mimic your voice and implant thoughts into your mind. You think it is your own thought, but it is not.

You have these implants, these thought forms, and you feel shame that they would even be in your mind, certain they are your own thoughts … after all, it sounds like your voice.

You may carry out a deed, thinking it your own desire. Most often it is not you … it is the tempter … swaying you. They have millennia of practice, they are very good at what they do. Hooking minds.

Personally, I have caught on to this bullshit. When I have a thought form that does not align with my heart, I reject it, knowing bullshit artists are working magic, hoping to get lucky.

The key here is knowing what is in your heart. The innermost portions of your soul. Your intuition speaks quite clearly should you listen … it’s the center, your solar plexus, your heart space … the seat of you.

The inner work must be done, investigating the tiniest details of your triggers, what is making you tick, finding out why you feel this or that way, removing blockages, visiting past hurts, forgiving others … controlling your emotions rather than being controlled by them. It starts with the inner knowing.

When you begin rejecting thought forms that are not in alignment with who you believe yourself to be, the attack will increase, it will be tough to continue rejecting the thought form. Hold sway … this is your life. Command it.

People in body will be influenced to certify the implant, they will goad you, coax you … know they are being manipulated by those who are out of body, or those who inhabit the aethers. Those closest to you are not actually the ones who hurt you most … they are being manipulated, unknowingly by those working hard, doing shady deals in the unseen … the occult, if you will.

This does not mean you stay and take it, for they will use the situation to wear you down … you see, it is you they want to stop, for it is you who carry true power.

You will be told to “be careful of what you say” to shrink, because others will be triggered by you. You will be coaxed into disrespecting your own voice, to stifle the stream of thought forms you do generate on your own. To stop the progress of standing in your own authority. To slow the flow that brings you into your true self … the desire by the unseen is to manipulate you through any miens necessary, and that includes manipulating those closest to you, using them to enforce the implant … the implant they too have received.

Once you recognize this truth, the dreams will start. Nightmares even. Threatening. You may even become telepathic, and be told you’re going to hell for being a bad person by someone claiming to be god.

Fear tactics … the greatest tool of a manipulator.

I’ve been told by a few of my closest relations that they have to hang up the phone or end a conversation because I “hurt their head” … they’ll tell me I’m not thinking right, that I’m wrong … they are being manipulated into trying to stifle my flow, to cause me to shrink and become unsure of self. It is sad, for when I put my foot down and say they do not have the authority to tell me what is right or wrong for me, I see the confusion on their faces …. a tell tale sign that they are manipulated.

I will not have any of the manipulations. There are those who choose to remain distant from me now that they know they are not able to control my output, my thought processes, and this is fine.

Feel for them. Love them … from a distance if you need to … I do … I greatly do love them all … but I will not allow a constant barrage of degradation against my own person, and I will not allow another to tell me what I should or should not think … not unless I personally invite the lessons, asking for the truth, desiring a teaching.

I think a lot. I always have. There are many in the aethers who listen and attempt to interject conversation, as tho I was actually speaking to them in the first place.

I have conversations with self. I have great epiphanies, logic comes to play, common sense intrudes in the manipulators story … through my memory of ‘its’ presence.

Love is the root of fear. Yes, love can be manipulated, turned into fear or anger or pain … it can become love degraded … it is still love nonetheless.

I laughed a little at this, for those who want power and control must dirty love in order to attain it. They decrease its potency in order to control it. They are still absorbing love, however, simply a less powerful form of it. The control aspect comes by making love believe it is less than it actually is.

… Back to the invisibles implanting thought forms, using your own voice, and manipulating other people to make solid that thought form.

Do not be quiet. Let your voice, your thoughts be heard. If no one wants to listen to “deep thoughts by you” let them walk away, don’t allow them to change your thought … let them offer different perspectives, but your mind is your mind and it should be programmed by you, and you alone.

Know thyself … know what is yours, and what is manipulation … it is a very sensitive space and barely visible line between the two.

We’ve been trained into it from birth.

Untrain … and then retrain your mind and being, into that which you can have respect for, into that which you can love not just surface level, but deep, deep self-love.

You are worthy of your time and attention … attention is the most valuable currency known to ALL life … pay yourself first … if you’re ‘wallet’ isn’t full, you cannot properly pay it to anyone else.

My hope is that once you find your peace, you will also let it be heard, spreading across the land like rain.

Here are a couple references explaining certain mind control technologies, it is very real, and the unsuspecting are the test subjects.

THE VOICE OF GOD (DR. ROBERT DUNCAN)

https://www.history.com/mkultra-operation-midnight-climax-cia-lsd-experiments

Unity

Published August 22, 2020 by tindertender

Unity has many different meanings, the most common is a union between cultures, countries, peoples.

There are the base four bodies, possessed and worn by all individuals. The Physical, the Mental, the Emotional, and the Etheric.

It is important to ponder these four bodies, meditate on them, or in other words, relax the mind and allow the meaning for each to come through for you.

What is the foundation for the Physical body?

What is the foundation for the Mental body?

What is the foundation for the Emotional body?

What is the foundation for the Etheric body?

Once you have got this, written it down, and solidified it in mind … consider Unity … uniting the elements of these four bodies.

This is where union begins.

Alignment.

The work you put in, you get out.

Effort made toward wholeness cannot, and will not, be overlooked.

Your higher self, in combo with your guides, the angels who watch over you, and the elementals of this world will assist you in process.

All you need do is ask, relax, and let it flow.

I am currently in student mode, and I share my ‘lessons’ with you, so that we may grow into it together.

Peace is the goal, and it begins on the inside of each individual.

As you can see, the outside layer is the Mental body, the most commonly afflicted body. The easiest target by anyone who wishes to manipulate form.

Strengthen the bodies, understand the foundations for each, unite them into a cohesive whole, and it will be easier to walk in this world and bring about positive adjustment, to create the Peace you wish to enjoy.

Gratitude

Published August 21, 2020 by tindertender

There is power in gratitude.

When you’re feeling down … depressed, fearful, angry … create a list of gratitude, and begin with being thankful for what you perceive is causing these emotions in you.

Be grateful to feel the powerful emotions, be grateful that whomever Or whatever is the source of this for you is present, and allowing you the opportunity to work through emotional blockages.

You may find that as your list grows, as you find the tiniest details of things to be grateful for in the moment, this conscious creation will take that powerful emotion and flip it into love and happiness.

There is great power in gratitude.

Use it to your advantage, and you will control your mind, your emotion, and your life.

As with all things, the more you practice, the greater control you will harness and wield.

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