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Midnight Message

Published June 28, 2020 by tindertender

I woke to find that sometime during the nights rest I had written on a piece of paper “Judaism of the 18th”.

I have a feeling someone is trying to tell me something.

Puzzled, I google the phrase and this is what I find:

The Numerical Significance of Chai

In Judaism, the word “chai” is numerically significant and the number 18 is universally synonymous with this word. Numerically, the words consists of the eighth (8th) and tenth (10th) letters of the Hebrew alphabet Chet (ח) and Yud (י), adding up to eighteen the number 18, which is also the word “Chai”. According to Jewish traditions and scriptures there are prayers, including the Amidah, commonly referred to as “Shmoneh Esreh” (which translates to “the 18”) and refers to the eighteen individual prayers. There is a deep connection drawn upon the word ‘chai’, its meaning ‘life’ and the numerical value of the letters that comprise this word.

Chai (חי) is the Hebrew word for life.

Amidah

The nineteen blessings are as follows:

  1. Avot (“Ancestors”) – praises of God as the God of the Biblical patriarchs, “God of Abraham, God of Isaac and God of Jacob.
  2. Gevurot (“powers”) – praises God for His power and might. This prayer includes a mention of God’s healing of the sick and resurrection of the dead. It is called also Tehiyyat ha-Metim = “the resurrection of the dead.”
    • Rain is considered as great a manifestation of power as the resurrection of the dead; hence in winter a line recognizing God’s bestowal of rain is inserted in this benediction. Except for many Ashkenazim, most communities also insert a line recognizing dew in the summer.
  3. Kedushat ha-Shem (“the sanctification of the Name”) – praises God’s holiness.
    • During the chazzan’s repetition, a longer version of the blessing called Kedusha is chanted responsively. The Kedusha is further expanded on Shabbat and Festivals.
  4. Binah (“understanding”) – asks God to grant wisdom and understanding.
  5. Teshuvah (“return”, “repentance”) – asks God to help Jews to return to a life based on the Torah, and praises God as a God of repentance.
  6. Selichah – asks for forgiveness for all sins, and praises God as being a God of forgiveness.
  7. Geulah (“redemption”) – asks God to rescue the people Israel.
    • On fast days, the chazzan adds in the blessing Aneinu during his repetition after concluding the Geulah blessing.
  8. Refuah (“healing”) – a prayer to heal the sick.
    • An addition can ask for the healing of a specific person or more than one name. The phrasing uses the person’s Jewish name and the name of their Jewish mother (or Sara immeinu).
  9. Birkat HaShanim (“blessing for years [of good]”) – asks God to bless the produce of the earth.
  10. Galuyot (“diasporas”) – asks God to allow the ingathering of the Jewish exiles back to the land of Israel.
  11. Birkat HaDin (“Justice”) – asks God to restore righteous judges as in the days of old.
  12. Birkat HaMinim (“the sectarians, heretics”) – asks God to destroy those in heretical sects (Minuth), who slander Jews and who act as informers against Jews.
  13. Tzadikim (“righteous”) – asks God to have mercy on all who trust in Him, and asks for support for the righteous.
  14. Boneh Yerushalayim (“Builder of Jerusalem”) – asks God to rebuild Jerusalem and to restore the Kingdom of David.
  15. Birkat David (“Blessing of David”) – asks God to bring the descendant of King David, who will be the messiah.
  16. Tefillah (“prayer”) – asks God to accept our prayers, to have mercy and be compassionate.
    • On fast days, Ashkenazic Jews insert Aneinu into this blessing during Mincha. Sephardic Jews recite it during Shacharit as well.
  17. Avodah (“service”) – asks God to restore the Temple services and sacrificial services.
  18. Hoda’ah (“thanksgiving”) – thanks God for our lives, for our souls, and for God’s miracles that are with us every day.
    • When the chazzan reaches this blessing during the repetition, the congregation recites a prayer called Modim deRabbanan (“the thanksgiving of the Rabbis”).
  19. Sim Shalom (“Grant Peace”) – asks God for peace, goodness, blessings, kindness and compassion. Ashkenazim generally say a shorter version of this blessing at Minchah and Maariv, called Shalom Rav.

Prior to the final blessing for peace, the following is said:

We acknowledge to You, O Lord, that You are our God, as You were the God of our ancestors, forever and ever. Rock of our life, Shield of our help, You are immutable from age to age. We thank You and utter Your praise, for our lives that are delivered into Your hands, and for our souls that are entrusted to You; and for Your miracles that are with us every day and for your marvelously kind deeds that are of every time; evening and morning and noon-tide. Thou art good, for Thy mercies are endless: Thou art merciful, for Thy kindnesses never are complete: from everlasting we have hoped in You. And for all these things may Thy name be blessed and exalted always and forevermore. And all the living will give thanks unto Thee and praise Thy great name in truth, God, our salvation and help. Selah. Blessed be Thou, O Lord, Thy name is good, and to Thee it is meet to give thanks.

https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/judaism-numbers/

https://www.shiva.com/learning-center/commemorate/chai/

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amidah

Oracle Reading 6-28-2020

Published June 28, 2020 by tindertender

There is a quiet still place inside of you that will always be available as a sanctuary, yet finding such a space in the natural world will enhance and complement this internal place of peace. Whether it is a cave, meadow, forest, seashore, or any other setting in Nature, this is where you can see, hear, and feel the presence of the Creator in your surroundings. Let it become a temple for your heart and soul.

Rather than having your computer, television, or any other human-made device or activity be your sanctuary, allow yourself to discover the perfect place in Nature where you can simply be and breathe. Doing so bridges the connection between the internal and external, facilitating a spiritual communion that allows your being to be aligned in dramatic and quiet reverie with All That Is. In today’s busy world, it becomes even more critical to set aside time for sanctuary – even if you have to schedule it!

It is time to take a break! Not just a coffee break, but a respite from the usual environment you find yourself in. That trip you wanted to take? Go for it. Tired of being indoors? Make it a point to get outside. Have become so attached to your surroundings that you have created within them an illusion of safety, yet it is not these things that make you feel safe. Rather, the familiarity you have imbued in your surroundings have generated this false sense of security.

Taking time away from the familiar is literally about changing your external environment in a significant way, such as doing something unusual or perhaps something you have always wanted to experience. Another perspective is breaking through the barrier of beliefs that have constricted you in any way from being who you truly are. This is your opportunity to do some intentional breaching of these thought patterns, which will open you to different worlds and perspectives.

This is a time of considerable harmony for you, one where the various elements in your life are flowing together smoothly. Just as in musical harmony, it is the interface of these elements that merge into a cycle of symmetry and balance that evokes feelings of harmony. The challenge is to sustain this inner accord even when there is considerable dissonance outside of your own mind, heart, and body.

Note the sensations, emotions, and thoughts you experience when everything seems to be moving along well. Take three deep breaths, and let your breathing be the anchor that reminds you of this state of consciousness. Whenever you perceive chaos around you, know that it is a mirror for your inner turmoil. When you recognize this, take three or more breaths to bring forth the memory of those moments when your life was like a symphony. Then every time you exhale, you are releasing the energy of your internal state of harmony into the world, and it will have amazing effects.

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Relationship

Published June 28, 2020 by tindertender

Men … so ready to “defend”. Bless them. I cannot fathom what it must be like to dwell constantly with the knowing that at any time, the inner defender may need to be unleashed.

To see them in action … ooohhhhh …..

To know of the safety they provide their families.

The security they bring to their wives, to their children.

It is a heavy load. One I’ve never really thought about before.

What do they go through when their protection efforts have failed? What happens to their hearts, their minds?

Who will defend their inner being when that time comes?

The woman.

The nurturer.

This is why partnership is imperative. We balance each other in the flow of life.

If one half is suppressed, the functioning of the whole suffers.

May the masculine be recognized for his efforts.

May the value of woman be realized as the important aspect of life that she is.

May partnership become full and well rounded, in balance.

And may all hearts be blessed with the knowing that whatever we go through, if we utilize partnership in its proper form, ALL will be well, no thing can destroy it.

May all beings be honored, endowed with grace, and trust rebuilt … beyond any doubt.

Together we are invincible.

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Oracle Reading 6-27-2020

Published June 27, 2020 by tindertender

Heed the messenger: It is easy to ignore the messengers and the signs they show you, especially when they bring a message you do not wish to hear. Now is not the time to ignore the messengers. Do not let your fear of change or discomfort silence their voices. It is time for you to stop procrastinating, to see and to hear the truth, and do what is necessary. Heed the messenger for the wisdom they offer is born of your own intuition and need.

Do not fear the unknown: The ugly is not always bad and evil, and the beautiful not always good and just. Failure is not predetermined, nor is it a given that others laugh at you if you choose to follow your dreams. It is your fear of the unknown that makes you question and judge. Do not let another’s experience be the truth that guides you. Do not allow your fear of an unknown outcome to hold you prisoner. Your own experience could be both different and rewarding. Live!

Honour Gaia: The earth upon which you dwell is more than just a rock covered in water, stone and dirt. The earth beneath your feet, the mountains, the forests, the rivers, lakes, oceans, and the air that you breathe are all part of the magical living entity that is Gaia. She is our eternal mother, our provider, and our home. Gaia gives us life. Without her, we would not be. Honour Gaia by seeing the truth of what she is. Honour Gaia by loving her as you love yourself.

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Reading from the deck “Messenger Oracle” Ted by Ravynne Phelan

Teaching of Superior Spirits

Published June 26, 2020 by tindertender

Question: “Does man have the right to retire in old age?”

Answer: “Yes. No one is required to labor beyond his capacity.”

Question: “But what options so senior people have available when they must earn a living while not being able to do so?”

Answer: “The strong should work for the weak. In the absence of a family to provide for them, society should take its place. That is the Law of Charity.”

Chapter 3: The Law of Labor, # 685, “The Spirits’ Book” written by Allan Kardac

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Someone Told Me To ‘Stay Safe’

Published June 26, 2020 by tindertender

And I thought, “Okay, I think I’ll go sing by the river and dance through a cemetery.

The dead probably won’t mind me being ‘too close’ …

Or will they?

One simply never knows these days.

It’ll be what it’ll be.

Control Your Mind

Published June 26, 2020 by tindertender

It’s about Peace, Man!

Many things we do, or do not do, affect our mind and our ability to ‘properly’ process information.

Some believe that if they spend their effort in various energies, they might be left vulnerable … open to attack.

So they shrink.

They hide.

Limiting their Power and sense of Connection.

Open yourself …

Open, and learn to withstand what some throw your way.

During these processes, with effort, you will learn to respond to all situations with grace.

No one starts at the top, not even the very rich. They still have to hone their ability to influence thought of the whole.

Remember …

Our task is to ‘stretch’ our abilities, in BOTH directions, for balance.

Yet never with a loss of control …

Be aware at all times of your output,

And your intake.

Act accordingly.

Kindness ~ Pass It On

Published June 25, 2020 by tindertender
Baseball fan holding umbrella over JROTC member on Memorial Day.
Pararescueman Sgt. Mike Maroney reunited with a Girl he saved 15 years ago during hurricane Katrina
Waiter helping to feed disabled lady so her husband can finish his meal. Good job good man.
Man in red needed help with son’s math homework and got it from a stranger on the subway.
This is my Uber driver Beni, he took me to the hospital and is keeping me company since most of my family lives out of the state.
A stranger helping out another stranger struggling with his tie.
Kids do what they feel. These two strangers just hugged in a fast food restaurant.
She took me in 15 years ago and no one makes me as happy. We had the best Christmas. I love my Grandma so much.
There is a local group that cuts lawns for the elderly, disabled, and single parent mothers for free. Here they are with my Grandma.
Officer talks man out of committing suicide. Eight years later, the now-father-of-two gives the officer an award at the American Foundation of Suicide.
This is Anthony Borges, 15. He used his body to hold a classroom door shut, protecting 20 other students inside ss the gunman fired through the door, hitting him five times. May he have a speedy recovery
A couple of months ago, an elderly lady asked me to walk her home because she was scared She was going to slip on the ice. We’ve become friends and now I walk her home almost everyday.
Volunteers helping flood victims evacuate in Houston.
Kindness
Young man helping an older man down an escalator.
This man reads everyday at lunch to a man who cannot.
“A girl in my geography class had to bring her newborn to class today. The baby started crying in the middle of our quiz. When she took him out to hold him, my professor insisted that he wouldn’t mind feeding the baby and rocking his car seat until she was done. This is my so so awesome, sweet professor, on his knees.”
Love. That is all.

Jekyll and Hyde

Published June 25, 2020 by tindertender

We all have them.

We embody polarity. It is impossible to get away from the fact all things dwell within us.

The good guy gets to stay out during the day … at work, on a date … yet as soon as the alcohol starts (or other substance) the alter ego comes out.

Some say it is spirits, taking advantage of our lowering of the guard, and it could very well be.

YOU are the gate keeper.

YOU determine on whether to lower your guard.

YOU decide to share your form with others, seen, unseen … permission is granted as soon as the guard slips.

As soon as you surrender control.

I used to think that surrender only came via the use of alcohol. I was mistaken, it is ALL things that affect our guard.

Whether lowering it and thinking negative thoughts, or opening it wide, making self vulnerable to outside influences, which in turn affect the mind, as well as energetic contributions and all other output.

We all have Choice.

Choice is where Power is.

Power dwells within Love.

Love resides in the Soul.

Will you ‘release’ the dragon?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strange_Case_of_Dr_Jekyll_and_Mr_Hyde

Oracle Reading 6-25-2020

Published June 25, 2020 by tindertender

From the flawless patterns of your spirit, great light shines upon the world. You are a leader, a healer, an inspiration, a free spirit … unrestricted by traditional thinking. A desire to be all you can be, and a vision for positive transformation, draws you into deep exploration and clarity. Break free, reshape your destiny and follow the spiraling, intertwining pathways of peace, love and wisdom.

There is a higher purpose to everything, but currently it is not clear. Something in your life is changing, and it is unsettling. Soon, the pieces of the puzzle will start falling into place, and you will begin to find meaning in it. For now, trust the refinement process, hone your ability for love and develop your capacity for compassion. As taints fall away, the truth becomes clearer.

From the calm, neutral perspective of love, and free from the fear, guilt and judgement of this world, your higher self looks through the conflict and drama of the physical world and sees hidden meaning and purpose. From a distance, present chaos looks perfectly ordered. Seek greater awareness. Tune into the depths of your heart to find heavenly peace.

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Reading from the deck “Sacred Earth Oracle” Ted by Toni Carmine Salerno and Leela J. Williams