Love

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Wholly Enough

Published July 1, 2020 by tindertender

Show Up For Yourself

Published June 30, 2020 by tindertender

I do it every day.

Sometimes I dance with myself, sing to myself, have play dates with myself, fall in love all over again with myself.

I have debates (of course I always win too!)

Mostly, I just sit with myself and think you’re the most loyal, best friend I’ve ever had!

And then I remember,

I’m never alone!

Written by Alicia Tarin

Shades of Love

Published June 30, 2020 by tindertender

One of my favorite things to do is listen to the masculine sing songs of love and pretend he’s singing to me. It makes me smile, knowing that somewhere out there, someone would love to sing to me songs of love … and so I strengthen this knowing by inviting it into my daily living.

Robert Bassett is a new find of mine, and I love his songs. I have a few favorites I’ll share here.

I hope they bring you as much pleasure as they do me.

Soul Recognition

Published June 30, 2020 by tindertender

It is easy to slip into shallow thinking and get caught up in the way things and people appear.

It is more difficult to cut through the shallow into the depths of soul … to view a situation and person as they are … on the inside.

May minds be freed from the need to inhabit the seat of judgement.

May hearts realize necessity for untethering, and release the love held there.

Bless all beings as they slip from their ‘yokes’.

May we be gentle with each other through these changes.

Coming back to Love.

Divine Lovers

Published June 29, 2020 by tindertender

When divine counterparts connect as #divinelovers, the energy flows between both aspects, merges & returns to point of creation.

The chakras align.

The womb within the feminine opens as a gateway & source of existence for the masculine to connect to deeply creative flow within.

Preferences

Published June 28, 2020 by tindertender

Many men prefer girls in their life. They are focused on the physical form, the attractiveness. They are unconcerned with her character in the beginning, for it is her physical condition that speaks to his hormones, revving up his testosterone output.

He cannot think straight.

And often times, he lacks the necessary mindset to recognize the value of a woman.

Woman, stomach stretched from child bearing, breast flattened, not as plump as they once were. Her body stretches in life, and shrinks, reshaping itself into new form.

Man …

He ridicules her belly, her weight. He tells her other women (girls) are better looking, more ‘natural’ blind to the fact that what happens to the crone is purely natural.

He accepts a portion of this reality and rejects the rest.

Never satisfied.

And consistently reminding the woman she should also never be satisfied with herself.

That she should always work specifically to regain momentum in his pants, in his lust.

Women …

We tire of playing the masculine testosterone game.

He cannot see a woman, all he sees is form.

There is no depth to him.

He is shallow.

As he uses the ‘girl’, wasting her time in his lust, time she could be available for the one who DOES see her value.

Selfish men who cannot think with anything other than their penis ought have no say in what a women should be thinking of self.

He holds no value for experience, does not see her worth, and wants to convince her she lacks merit.

Leave him behind.

He lacks the integrity needed to create harmony in this world.

And sometimes, being alone is the greatest blessing.

Fortunately, there ARE a few men who have awareness of the crone and embrace her unique strengths, only gained through living … a long time … hahahahaha.

The key is becoming aware of HIM.

Photo: https://unsplash.com/@markadriane

It’s That Time Of Year Again

Published June 26, 2020 by tindertender

THEY FIND THEIR WAY INTO OUR HOMES LOOKING FOR SAFETY

WHEN YOU FIND A BUMBLEYBEE THAT CAN’T FLY, FIRSTLY YOU CAN PICK THEM UP – THEY WILL NOT STING UNLESS YOU HURT THEM AND ARE SAFE TO HANDLE

SECONDLY, POP THEM IN A TUB IF THEY WILL LET GO OF YOUR WARM HAND

THIRDLY, MIX WARM WATER AN SUGAR TOGETHER AND HOLD SOME IN A TEASPOON INFRONT OF THEM TO THEIR FRONT LEGGIES

THEY WILL EXTEND THEIR PROBOSCIS (INBUILT CURLY STRAW) AND DRINK.

THEN TAKE THEM OUTSIDE, THEY WILL GROOM, MAYBE PEE ON YOU AND WILL FLY OFF

WHEN THEY ARE SAT UNABLE TO FLY AND STICK THEIR LEGGIES IN THE AIR IT’S BECAUSE THEY’RE VULNERABLE AND TRYING TO FLY.

THEY ARE COLD AND NEED ENERGY

DO NOT GIVE THEM HONEY

KEEP THEM WARM AN FEED THEM SUGAR WATER

THIS SAVES A LIFE

The Birth of Venus

Published June 25, 2020 by tindertender

A goddess on a mountain top
Was burning like a silver flame
The summit of beauty and love
And Venus was her name

She’s got it
Yeah baby, she’s got it
Well, I’m your Venus
I’m your fire
At your desire
Well, I’m your Venus
I’m your fire
At your desire

Her weapons were her crystal eyes
Making every man mad
Black as the dark night she was
Got what no one else had

She’s got it
Yeah baby, she’s got it
Well, I’m your Venus
I’m your fire
At your desire
Well, I’m your Venus
I’m your fire
At your desire

She’s got it
Yeah baby, she’s got it
Well, I’m your Venus
I’m your fire
At your desire
Well, I’m your Venus
I’m your fire
At your desire

Source: LyricFind
Songwriters: Robert Van Leeuwen
Venus lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Austintatious Tunes