This is true, according to my own experience, although it is divine when love makes the heart sing!
You can tell who “decides” to love, by the way they behave with their exes, or in some cases, with their many partners.
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This Cannot Be Overstated
Published June 12, 2022 by tindertender“If you give a little more than you’re asking for, your love will turn the key.” ~ Andy Gibb
Some just don’t get it, and never will, no matter the force they choose to utilize.
Love Doesn’t Hurt
Published June 2, 2022 by tindertender“Love doesn’t hurt, people who don’t know how to love hurt.”
@13StarSoul
Harmony
Published May 28, 2022 by tindertenderCompanion to Love, and quite necessary for it to Flower.
Love Strikes
Published May 9, 2022 by tindertenderNo one knows
The minute or the hour
It strikes but it will…
It is for good
It is for ever
It is beyond time
It never gets lost
It is always there
We can’t get it wrong
It gets better & better
You are love
I am love
We are all love
What we need is love
☆ LOVE VIBRATION ☆
Published April 28, 2022 by tindertender
Pure intention – Inner voice
Atomic implosion – Natural choice
Ego forsaken – Spirit engaged
Self empowered – Truly embraced
Quietly seated – Heavenly door
Eternal – Complete – Infinite core
Flower of life – Rippling kiss
No expectation – Victory’s bliss
Heart expansion – Satin lined
Breathing light – Pulsing mind
Music of life – Food of the soul
House of love – Home to us all
Awakening
Published April 16, 2022 by tindertenderKeep clearing blockages in the chakras, the energy centers. Come into alignment with the Life Force of Source. Your truest self is being birthed now. Shine, you diamond. Increase the level of light you emit.
Remember, Woman
Published March 28, 2022 by tindertender
Remember, Woman, you were born
life giver, miracle creator, magic maker.
You were born with the heart of a thousand mothers,
open and fearless and sweet.
You were born with the fire of Queens and conquerors,
warrioress blood you bleed.
You were born with the wisdom of sages and shamans,
no wound can you not heal.
You were born the teller of your own tale,
before none should you kneel.
You were born with an immeasurable soul
reaching out past infinity.
You were born to desire with passion, abandon,
and to name your own destiny.
Remember, Woman, remember
you are more than you can see.
Remember, Woman, remember
you are loved endlessly.
Remember, Woman, your power, and grace,
the depth of your deep sea heart.
Never forget you are Woman, divine,
as you have been from the start.
~ by Reese Leyv
Love Is Only Lost When We Kill It Our Self
Published March 26, 2022 by tindertender32 years ago I was in relationship with an older man. We were together for 7 years, I thought we would be married … instead he had an affair and even bought her a house, he was bored with me.
At first, I was extremely hurt, angry, betrayed. I questioned my value, once again, as it was rejected by one I loved, once again.
I had to move out, I lost my job, my dog was murdered, and I became homeless, living in my car. It was an extreme low point in my life.
Beginning: I had deep love for a man who could not love me.
Middle: I worked through my jealousy and hurt, found that love still existed in my heart for him.
Present: He is my best friend, longest known friend, once lover, now brother, and guardian.
Love does not end, unless we choose to kill it. Even through betrayal and abandonment, if we can remember the love, nurture it even when our heart is breaking, the love will transform, become something else, different, yet still powerful.
When our heart breaks, it is only expanding … and trust me, I know how it can put one into a spiritual dark well, and it can take a long time to climb out into the sun once more …. but expand, you will.
If you have been betrayed, rise above it and remember the love. Never forget the love. Perhaps this one is not meant to be lover, but is more compatible as friend. And should they choose to walk away, release them …. it brought necessary growth, in disguise.
My longest known friend? He now considers me to be his best friend. And I’m living in the house he bought for the woman who interjected herself into my relationship. And she knows I’m living here …..
It does not pay to break up relations. It does no good on the karmic trail to cause heart break for a sister, or brother. It does not do any good for self to take take take from another. It only prolongs the suffering that must come from such actions.
Be aware. Take care. Remember the love, regardless of those who bring suffering.
The controllers of this world subliminally program minds to perpetuate situations of suffering. We must not allow them to maintain this control.
Remember the love, feed its memory.
Do not attach to the suffering, for it is you who generates the energy of sadness and it is you who are feasted upon by the energetic vampires when you do.
Control the emotion, do not be controlled by it.
Self-Reflection
Published February 23, 2022 by tindertenderYou must BE yourself before you can properly perceive yourself. No masks … of any kind … no role playing to please others … just BE.
Get used to looking in the mirror, no make up, no fancy clothes, suit or tie … see what is there … and learn to love it as it is, regardless of others judgement.
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