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Power Of Growth and Expansion

Published January 4, 2019 by tindertender

I might change my mind. I can do that. I am capable of, able, willing and loving to do that!

For awhile I thought I’d watch a movie, it’s Friday after all. Then I remembered I’m not real fond of the ‘programming’ … the shows, or the messages, so I built a nice cozy fire in the fireplace instead. It is crackling, and beautiful to my senses.

Sometimes I’ll make a plan, drive to where it leads me and change my plan just then, before even exiting my vehicle, driving away and doing something entirely different.

I am sad the hear there are those in this world who think someone else should “Pay the Penalty”. I think to myself, penalty for what? Isn’t it apparent that humanity has been paying a penalty for decades, even centuries? Heck, this penalty paying business may have started at the beginning of our life story … just as some claim it did.

Who to blame? The women? The ones who give birth to every single human being on this earth? No … there is a hatred for humanity which knows no borders and has no barriers … in this world or beyond. It is not gender specific, although one gender seems to be more pliable. Unfortunately this thing which has such hatred is also very good at manipulating angry, self-righteous, prideful minds … these are they who are most easily fueled, and led in some sort of action which harms others.

Humanity as a whole can bend and be formed by this ‘force’, or it can be aware of it and the tactics used … how these tactics feel when being applied, and how to stop the manipulation in its tracks.

Many good people worship Diety, by many different names. They claim there are rules and stipulations to coincide with these prayerful offerings … but these are made by humans … rules passed down generation after generation. At some point progression is needed if anything is to become improved upon.

This is true with any invention … say, the lawn mower, or egg beater, or tableware, or any number of things! As any device can be improved upon, so can very old ideals. Mind you, there are those things that should never be altered (glassware vs plastic) … but when old ideals segregate and harm any other life form then it should be visited, and transformed.

It really isn’t difficult to honor each other, especially when there is no one seeking to harm anyone. There will always be (seemingly) those ones who so desperately want to horde that which is good. My hope is for a quick, relatively painless transition.

Gaining control of personal thoughts and patterns is key to retaining solid connection with free will. Angry? Transmute that energy to love, or at least kindness. Are you ready to determine what kind of emotion you will allow to dwell in your body and mind and life? This choice is no easy task, it requires conscious, constant effort. This journey of controlling self is one of the most difficult.

Too often people put all of their effort into controlling the actions of others. They think if so and so, or this gender, or that group only did what they wanted them to do, or did not do what they did not want them to do, then they would be happy … satisfied. Yet, this is never the case, for no one can control the rest of the population. Sure, there are progressions made, but at some point, inevitably, there will be rejection of the imposing will and a practicing of the people’s own will … as it should be.

As in all things that are ever spoken or written by myself, I reserve the right to modify every single one of them. Like I said, I love to change my mind … utilizing the power of growth and expansion.

“Commit to being a hunter of excellence in yourself … You must master it and thereby transform; know that you cannot transform that which you have not experienced …”

~ David Morehouse, PhD

Sweet Surprises

Published December 13, 2018 by tindertender

I love it when I’m doing laundry and find money I didn’t know I had. The surprise of an extra $32 has me dreaming of what it will buy.

Another sweet surprise is the fact that working overtime is actually a pleasure. The company I now work for is like working for extended family, family you choose. While it gets dark outside and I’m still there, I am happy, knowing that I am doing all I can toward the success for all who spend so much of their time there.

I did not have to make dinner tonight … it was made for me. All I had to do was serve myself.

I squeezed in time to wash a load of laundry. That will be one less load I have to do this weekend.

The additional DMSO cream I purchased arrived today, making cuts and scrapes disappear quicker than ever before! My tattoo is nearly healed, ready for the finishing touches.

Peace has found me … or is it I who have found peace?

I hope it lasts this time … it seems after reprieve something always comes along to stretch capacity once more. These trials … I’d like to call them blessings, but to be honest, I do not know what the outcome will be when all is said and done.

Since uncertainty is the case, I set myself to counting blessings. When I get frustrated, I try to state inwardly a list of all that I am grateful for. This is an amazing practice that can turn a foul and dark situation into light once more, rather quickly too.

It can be difficult at times to find anything good in life, so it is best to start out ridiculously small … as in, I am grateful to be breathing … or I am grateful to have hair … or a jacket in the rain … or a fur baby who adores me … or sight, to see the patterns in the sky, or rocks, or in anything at all … or the ability to hear, or taste, or sense that which seems to be beyond the visual.

I am grateful for the capacity to choose to be calm, when at one time I would rage. I am grateful to be at the point of recognizing myself in others … some at a stage I once was at, some at a stage where I aspire to be some day.

I am grateful for life … this blessing that is often difficult to comprehend.

This treasure …

Healing In A Corrupt World

Published December 5, 2018 by tindertender

Can corruption be repaired from the inside out? Or must it be done from the outside in? I’m thinking perhaps a combination of both. The work must be done from the inside but often requires outside assistance. All facets of this life must be able to flow together for successful change to occur.

People are purposefully raised in a corrupt system where fear and lack and constant need are reinforced in the mind and in life. This scenario steals from them the ability to see clearly, which is why it is important to believe in something, or someone, larger than self … for this is what will bring about openings, making it possible to see, and then act for change.

Confusion has been a constant in this world for as long as I can remember, and probably since the beginning of the cycles of time. The force behind it has pretty much guaranteed its continuance … but major shifts are happening now, disrupting the ‘norm’.

Those on the outside assisting matters have been portrayed to the human psyche as devils, as those who wish harm. Any time anyone hears something others do not, it is labeled as mental illness, or the presence of devils. Sometimes this may be the case, but not all times. So while people run in fear, medicating the reality of possible solution to pain away, the actual pain cycle persists.

This situation has been carefully planned, this is what must be transformed. A ‘counter’ is in store, a turning back of that which has infected minds. Will the new ‘wave’ be everything we are, but in opposite order? I hope it will be better than that.

The circle of life is not a circle at all. It is made of many segments which appear circular. If too many segments appear, does the circle disappear? Or is a corrupt segment simply removed to preserve the ‘circle’? How many segments have been removed? How many segments have been added? By whom?

How many people will choose to be kind once they realize it is beneficial to everybody? I would guess that everyone who wishes to live in a kind world would, and those who wish to destroy the world would not.

I catch myself saying, “I’m not very good at manifesting”, but perhaps I am and it comes so naturally it is imperceptible. My core belief is that all people are manifestors, awesome creators. It is also my belief that the human body and mind is the amplifier of Spirit. Yet with all of the toxic systems infecting the mind, the purposefully imposed drama and trauma in the world, that is what has been amplified.

Once this reality is understood it will be clear that the opposite must be cultivated in the mind and heart. These thought forms which have become so constant they’ve become habitual in the majority of life must be equally, and more so, purposefully changed, altered, shifted into a positive. In this way, the positive will begin to be amplified by Source energies when they meet the human body and mind.

Is it easy? That is a BIG NO. It is however necessary, should we desire true change.

People think they need to change the world all on their own, most people have no idea where to start, the task is monumental! It is much simpler than we may think it is. By growing peace in the mind, compassion in the heart, and truly seeing your own burdens carried, also being carried and experienced by someone else, on their shoulders and their life also … maybe in a different format, but a burden the same, then care shows up. The sense of aloneness begins to fade, and realization that we all share eerily similar traits and experiences becomes clear.

This then is what is grown when Spirit, when Source energy meets us. The care, the compassion, the knowledge of our similarities grows. Soon after, all of that other stuff, the ugliness that we have been trained to adopt and hold as our own is released. That crap is not ours … it never was.

My attention was nabbed by a song on the radio, the lyrics made me smile and I wrote them down, for this I feel is a message that is meant to be shared …

Take my hand. Let me take you to Love Land.

True Love Needs No Coaxing

Published December 4, 2018 by tindertender

I love many of the old love songs from the 70’s, they are my favorite. One thing I notice about them is they are singing of the need to convince someone of the love in their heart. I suppose this was the beginning (or perhaps the 60’s) of the shifting of love.

It seems the more we try to cling to love, the quicker it slips through the fingers. Love cannot be held, owned, possessed or controlled. Love must be set free, acknowledged for its power, and honored when it presents itself, in all forms, and also released when it’s purpose in our life (or the others) is complete.

Often when someone professes love they are laughed at, or outright attacked. Love is gentle, it is kind, it is open and free. There IS a force influencing this world to tear it down. The unconscious person flows with this attempt and acts upon it. It is no surprise that barriers have been erected to protect the heart.

I have been fortunate to love deeply four times in this life. Every time when it came to end, I was crushed … absolutely crushed. The final two times rendered me useless for the world for a time. The last especially … my mind disintegrated.

Rebuilding self I understand now that love flows, just as the shadow forms around everything, love is also intertwined there. It is a dance many call heartache. The heart aches with pure joy, and it aches when that joy decreases, or morphs into a new appearance. It is our concept of what love should be that causes this, for when it does not match our ideals, this is when the pain comes.

Love can last for short, or long times. When it stops flowing for us we tend to cling to it. The fact that love cannot be bound, is free, and moves whether we wish for it to or not often leads to pain. People have this habit of trying to force things, only making the pain worse. They forget why they loved, and it becomes anger, even hate. Rather than honoring loves flow they lay claim to it and retaliate when it is discovered to have grown wings.

It is thought that love is obligated to oblige the heart of others. Love is not obligated to anything but flow, to giving freely. I am not talking about being promiscuous or loosey goosey, but becoming part of this flow which is free.

It is a pity that love has actually come down to the physical involvement: sex. Sex is not love, it is something that accompanies it. Yet love exists even when sex is not involved. Love is so simple it is hard to understand. Humanity has complicated it with rules and stipulations. This is another one of those things that has become bastardized in this time.

There is coming a return to love, true love. Love owes us nothing, love is something we grow in our hearts until over flowing … this is how it enters the world, yet many people are looking to fill their cups from outside sources and are left wanting, every time.

Loosen up. You will begin to see the flow and a gratefulness will fill your heart when it flows your way, and you will be grateful for the next person who experiences that love which has touched you, knowing what a blessing it truly is. You will be happy for them, you will be happy you’ve had the experience, and you will be happy for the person who is sharing love with the world.

You will recognize that because love is no longer being poured into you from an outside source does not mean you are empty of love. The love within you is amplified by these gifts, and you can continue to grow your sweet garden of love yourself. Someone will come along that joins you again, and again, and again … it does not mean there will be sex involved, it means you will know what true love is, and participate in its advancement in the world.

Beautiful, whole, and free.

Going Deep

Published November 25, 2018 by tindertender

The mind expands, so full of, seemingly … everything. Awareness embraces the elements ~ water, air, earth, fire … it embraces possibilities as they enter the field of thought.

The effort to purposefully open consciousness in order to receive information can be a tricky balance between sanity and ultimate confusion. Doing so will provide access to those “aha” moments as well as those who despise the blessing of the “aha” onto humanity. One must be prepared for this and remain strong while the fingertips of the unseen play with the mind.

Discernment … how does one become good at it? Often the senses, those inner strings which are toyed with, allow a trigger to be activated … flight, strong stance or fight, a going to, and a turning from … these ‘skills’ can only be honed in the midst of experience.

Often life gives us things which we deem as unpleasant, yet these very things work out to be our greatest blessings … in hind-sight … although we’d swear the opposite during the most intense moments.

That which has kept the innermost portion of a man, a woman, separate from each other is breaking down. We find that our attention is being focused in many areas at once, aware of so much more that what is within the four outer walls … of the flesh, of the house, of the country.

Our emotions are amplified as we take note of the hidden, as we realize life as we’ve known it has been but an illusion.

The question then is how do we undo the training received and actually help one another? How do we release the need to safeguard our personal spaces and open up to facilitate healing?

While those intent on harming life will be successful, causing pain, the balance will be shifting, and when balance is met, even tipping to the opposite of what we’ve known, the harm will begin to decrease and peace will begin to grow, quickly becoming normalized.

Those brave souls who do this work are the most courageous of humans, for they risk everything in order to gain this balance … for the benefit of all life.

As you sit in meditation, or simply in a still space, in silence, absorb the thoughts which pass by, have the aha moment, go deep into this world and pull forth from it the things which will assist in expansion … of thought, of understanding, of compassion, of care and of love.

When we see that our emotions are the same as others, when we understand that all of humanity wishes to be recognized, understood, loved, and blessed with a sense of honor for that which they contribute, no matter how detailed, then we begin to know fully how alike we truly are. When this happens, we can look at someone and see their argument, their frustration, their joy … it is exactly as we have experienced during life, at differing times.

Fear, pain and the shriveling of self they cause are similar for all as well. Some are able to fortify and pull up, while others are more vulnerable (children and those who have suffered since the dawn of innocence). Rather than saying to those they should buck up, man up, woman up, it is imperative that we instead assist in the healing … especially if we are some of those who are among the first who are able to firm up.

The depths of our being are intertwined. It is quite truthful in that when one suffers, we all suffer. It may not be apparent in the visual, but it will affect all life as the ripples of the situation will forever expand and mesh with all other experiences.

Why does it seem the negatives are so much more powerful that the positives? Why does fear and pain seem to override joy and love? Why does war seem to overtake peace?

The reason behind the imbalance is quite simple … the negatives in life are promoted. They are promoted by governments, by television programs (movies and news), and by those who follow through with the ‘programming’.

Those who are awakening to the larger reality are often drugged and labeled as having a ‘mental’ issue, simply because our health care system is not equipped with knowledge or understanding. They are trained in symptom management only. Thankfully they are, and my hope is that they will rise to take their knowledge one step further, into that of true understanding of the union between the seen and the unseen.

Truth can cause anxiety and/or depression … once the workings of our current system are seen and understood, they cannot be forgotten.

The more we choose to ‘fight’ something, the greater energy needed to maintain the fight, for the energy dumped into it only makes it stronger. I am surprised more people do not understand this.

“It takes a strong man to go into battle, it takes an even stronger man to walk away from one.” The one who decides to stay and fight is doing their perceived duty, protecting that which is seen in need of protection. The one who walks away sees that the energy is being harvested, manipulated, and utilized to increase the warring. And while they walk away from the fight, they are attacked by their fellows because of it, so they are inwardly fighting a resistance to those who would manipulate them, and to those who have been convinced that fighting is the only way to be, the only way to survive.

It’s a double whammy for certain. Many folks in this world are battling two enemies, in fact, we all are. We struggle against peers who would steer us, we battle against the unseen manipulator who would have us destroy each other, and our self. We work diligently to manage our thoughts, to maintain control of the emotions rather that letting the emotions control us.

This life is indeed a battle, a battle for our sanity, for our ability to love our self and others, for control. In this control wars are fought, lives are lost, people starve … for food, for love, for acceptance, for encouragement, for recognition.

Stop the fight. BE you, BE whole, it is yours already. Stop allowing others into your mind, shut the door on their permissions for manipulating your thoughts and actions. It is but a game, a dangerous game … step out from it into the freedom inherently yours.

As you step away from the perpetrated drama, you will begin to see more clearly, from the outside. You will view the world as those who remain fighting crush each other, mentally, physically. You will see how they manipulate situations in their ability to live, and to thrive. You will see how they take … and only give when there is something greater to be gained. You will watch them as they destroy each other.

Being part of the destruction will not stop it. The only thing which will stop it is a non-participation in it.

Do you foresee a future where people will take note of it and act upon it? Do you think humanity is strong enough to withstand those who would destroy them? Do you think those who wage destruction will eliminate each other rather than eliminating the whole?

Are we willing to do our part, stepping back and preparing the tools (inner and outer) which will be needed to assist in bringing healing to those who leave the fight?

It is unfortunate that so many in this world make a game of war. It IS a game, one in which they are paid handsomely for … with money, washed in blood, while those who give the orders feast on warriors death and stolen power.

Who better to teach them than those who have already walked the path and are now in the unseen worlds providing influence for continuation? Continuation of death, and pain, and destruction which fuels their energy collection, and therefore their continued life … vicariously through our own, and the collective suffering of the world.

It has become quite clear humans are very good at destroying each other … mentally, emotionally, physically. Are we just as good at promoting health and care and wellbeing? Only WE can answer that question, should we wish to know the answer well enough.

These negative influences must be ended, they must be denied should humanity and all other life have a chance at true love and gracious living.

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