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Pain Transmutation

Published May 6, 2020 by tindertender

My longest known friend of 30 years and I have history … a lot of history.

Yesterday, I unleashed on him. Something he wanted to talk about, kept putting it in my face, triggered a memory of pain from our past, and I lit into him. And I left, pissed.

Later, I called and came back by for a conversation.

You see, it is not his fault I carry pain. Sure, he participated in circumstances, but it is I who have yet to heal my trauma, learning how to love me, more completely.

I realized, that while I speak frequently about the “blame game” and how it does no one any good, I actually hopped on board the blame train yesterday, and I felt as tho I failed myself, and my friend.

The time to have these conversations was at least 20 years ago.

It is not my intention to cause suffering for a man who is in his final years. As I mentioned, the time for these conversations was a long time ago, and I chose not to have them then. The time for talking of the past is gone.

The time for healing trauma from the past is now. Without pointing fingers and taking the easy way out, by offloading pain into another being …. human or animal.

Too many people choose to put their pain onto another life form, regardless of their lack of participation in the original offense.

We must learn to transmute our pain, NOT spew it into the world, exacerbating and intensifying the pain already in the world. No, transmutation is the only way.

How to do this?

I cannot say for certain.

Yesterday I drove into the forest. I veered onto a road which turned off the main highway and I followed it for awhile. There were no vehicles or people there.

I pulled over to the side of the road and got my folding chair out of the car and had a seat. I began to pray.

Now, I’m not a regular praying type of gal. When young, my Prayer was done in song, and talk, into the seemingly empty forest. This is where I found myself once again. And so I began speaking.

I spoke of my feelings and how I am aware that blaming others for our pain is unacceptable. I asked earnestly to be shown how to transmute my pain so I did not leak it into the world. I prayed for a better understanding, so I could stop making assumptions based on a skewed perspective.

I asked for release, so I could offer it to my friend.

I choose to remain in love. And it isn’t always easy.

Looking for ways, asking for spiritual assistance, to shift perspective, clean up past emotional trauma, and move forward in a clean state of being, a state which only increases love with each encounter, rather than leaving behind anything that might cause doubt, anxiety, or any form of negative thought patterns in those I encounter.

https://medium.com/@paintopower7/transmuting-pain-into-power-f823087d1fe. According to Nicola, here are a few steps toward inner alchemy.

1) Face it Feel it. The first step of transmuting pain into power is to allow yourself to feel your emotions.

2) Pick up your jewels. The second step of transmuting the pain into power is recognizing that no experience should be left on the ground.

3) Don’t sit on it, share it. The final step in transmuting pain into power in my humble opinion is to share the lesson of it.

https://intuitiveartists.org/blog-posts/category/the-art-of-transmuting-pain. According to Jan, Emotional and even physical pain is the way our bodies (and hearts) tell us, “Pay attention to me. See me and understand me. Witness me and get curious about why I showed up here, and then I can be on my way.” It’s really only when we keep denying it or believing we’re truly oppressed by the pain that it shows up over and over again to teach us differently.

https://www.paintransmutation.com/. This site offers courses in transmutation. Healing from pain, trauma, sadness and energetic imbalance is a conscious choice. You have to decide that you deserve to live and feel free from pain and follow that decision through.

Will you transmute pain, sorrow, fear, loneliness and trauma with Soul Alchemy and love?
Will you break the karmic cycle with your awareness?
Will you accept your sacred path, and become what you are and always have been?
A fierce vessel of healing!
Photo: https://unsplash.com/@yoannboyer

Pain can be our gift, or it can be our ruin.

The Importance of the Soul

Published May 2, 2020 by tindertender

LOVE resides in the center of the soul. This love is what makes you, you. It is what powers your heart, and the energies you pour into the world.

According to Rabbi David A. Cooper, the Soul is a pillar upon which Creation rests upon.

Warning: If invisible people come into your psyche, requesting that you “sacrifice” your soul, do NOT entertain them! It will be difficult, for they have hooks they implant to the mind.

Your love, your soul, is what keeps you from becoming a demon.

Firm up!

Know the value of your Soul … of your Love … and the crucial necessity of you being present here with us in these times.

Retain, and maintain the light that dwells there in the Soul. Grow Love like you’ve never grown it before.

May blessing, courage, and inner-fortitude be yours.

We Are Connected

Published April 27, 2020 by tindertender

‪Last night as I was in a state between sleep and waking, I started asking where my peace was. Agitated, I asked the wind where it had carried it off to. ‬

I started walking, stomping through the wilderness on a trail, flailing my arms, demanding the wind show me where it had taken my peace.

I came upon a small creek. And I discovered the wind had dropped my peace into the waters. I saw the salamander there, and the tad poles and the water skippers.

They were swimming in the waters that the wind had blessed with the peace generated by my being.

I relaxed.

I watched them there in the creek. I thought of the two legged tad pole and how it would morph into a frog. Not unlike the caterpillars transformation … the tad pole must transform fully exposed to the elements… which is why the waters needed my peace, and all other life within it.

I looked at the moist soil along the banks and noted they were absorbing the waters. My peace was in the soil.

The trees and plant life, they absorbed this water from the moist earth, also being blessed by the peace I had generated and then lost. But in losing, realize it is truly a significant gain.

I discovered that my Love lives within my Soul. And that like a well in the forested home of a dwelling, it replenishes itself, and the more that is shared from the well, the purer the waters become, the more pure becomes the peace which is generated.

Interconnected we are. Every crawling and flying thing that drinks of the waters, drinks of the peace we have gifted to them on the wind. And they carry it further into life, adding their own abundance to it.

Let us recognize our self in all things, partners of the wind, growers of a beautiful love garden which all living things participate in nurturing, bringing to fruition to benefit all connectedness.

Image from Pond Plants online. https://www.pondplantsonline.com/products/tadpoles

Perfect Love

Published April 27, 2020 by tindertender

Fear just means you’ve forgotten how deeply you’re loved, how safe you are, and that happiness will return, like you’ve never known it before.

Tallyho,

~ The Universe

Thoughts become things… choose the good ones! ® © www.tut.com ®

What Is Death?

Published April 23, 2020 by tindertender

… But a rebirth.

Please leave fear where it belongs.

Somewhere other than your heart.

Flow

Published April 11, 2020 by tindertender

Written by: https://twitter.com/Angel171614

Flow is understanding that there is a time to plant seeds and a time to reap the harvest. Most people get that. But in between those times comes growth. In fact it’s all about life and the ongoing, unfolding journey onward.

Saint Corona

Published April 5, 2020 by tindertender

According to Catholic Online, it’s believed that she lived during the second century, in Roman-occupied Syria, where Christianity was outlawed. When a Roman soldier named Victor was tortured after the discovery of his secret Christian faith, Corona decided to publicly profess her Christianity in an act of solidarity. In this telling, the Roman judge Sebastian ultimately had both of them executed. Catholic Online suggests that their remains may lie in Anzù, in northern Italy, at the 11th-century Basilica Sanctuary of Saints Victor and Corona (not far from one of the areas hit hardest by the pandemic).

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victor_and_Corona

https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/saint-corona-epidemics

According to the New York Times, Corona’s relics were brought to Aachen by King Otto III in 997. They were held in a tomb in the Roman Catholic cathedral, built by Emperor Charlemagne in 803 and one of Europe’s oldest, before they were stored in the elaborate shrine in the 20th century.

https://hyperallergic.com/549630/saint-corona/

There are only two kinds of people who seem to relish a national emergency: busybodies and buzzkills. Both take it as their life’s work to prove they know better than the poor hayseed who lives next door.

https://www.crisismagazine.com/2020/in-defense-of-saint-corona

‘Shine’ Your Soul

Published March 23, 2020 by tindertender

Shared by: https://twitter.com/KarmaRecycled81

Shine your Soul
with the same egoless humility
as the Rainbow
and no matter where you go
in this world or the next,
Love will find you,
attend you, and Bless you.

Those Who Steal The Light Of Innocence

Published March 18, 2020 by tindertender

They’ve been doing it for decades. This is how they become powerful. The more light they steal… we’ll, you get it. It must be retrieved and returned to the children trapped on another frequency level. Thieves have it figured out … but they are being uncovered.

Meditate on bringing the truth to light, the retrieval of, and return of stolen kryst light to original holders, the children and all others tortured and brutalized for a ‘few’ to maintain power.