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We Are Called to Rise

Published March 27, 2023 by tindertender

It all matters.
That someone turns out the lamp,
picks up the windblown wrapper,
says hello to the invalid,
pays at the unattended lot,
listens to the repeated tale,
folds the abandoned laundry,
plays the game fairly,
tells the story honestly,
acknowledges help,
gives credit,
says good night,
resists temptation,
wipes the counter,
waits at the yellow,
makes the bed,
tips the maid,
remembers the illness,
congratulates the victor,
accepts the consequences,
takes a stand,
steps up,
offers a hand,
goes first,
goes last,
chooses the small portion,
teaches the child,
tends to the dying,
comforts the grieving,
removes the splinter,
wipes the tear,
directs the lost,
touches the lonely,
is the whole thing.

What is most beautiful,
is least acknowledged.

What is worth dying for is barely noticed.

  • Laura McBride

Artist: Axel van Zyl

https://www.facebook.com/coastalwomenscounselling?mibextid=LQQJ4d

15 REMINDERS FROM THE ELDERS

Published March 26, 2023 by tindertender
  1. Get up with the sun to pray. Pray alone.
  2. Be tolerant of those who have lost their way. Ignorance, presumption, anger, jealousy and greed come from a lost soul. Pray for them to find guidance.
  3. Find yourself, by your own means. Do not let others make your path for you. It is your path, and only yours. Others may walk with you, but no one can make your way (or walk your path) for you.
  4. Treat guests in your home with great consideration. Serve them the best food, give them the best bed and treat them with respect and honor.
  5. Do not take what is not yours, whether from a person, a community, from the jungle or from a culture. It was not given or won. It is not yours.
  6. Respect all the things that are on this earth, be they people, plants and animals.
  7. Honor the thoughts, desires and words of all people. Never break them in, or make fun of them, or imitate them rudely. It gives each person the right to their personal expression.
  8. Never talk about others in a bad way. The negative energy you put into the universe will multiply when it returns to you.
  9. All people make mistakes. And all the mistakes can be forgiven.
  10. Bad thoughts cause illness to the mind, body and spirit. Practice optimism.
  11. Nature is not FOR us. It is PART of us. She’s part of your family in the world.
  12. Children are the seeds of our future. Sow love in your hearts and water them with wisdom and life lessons. When they grow up, just give them space to grow up.
  13. Avoid hurting the hearts of others. The poison of their suffering will return to you.
  14. Be true (transparent ) all the time. Honesty is the test of one’s will in this universe.
  15. Keep yourself balanced. Your Mental person, your Spiritual person, your Emotional person, and your Physical person: they all have the need to be strong, pure and healthy.

Sleeping Dream Realms

Published March 22, 2023 by tindertender

Sleep aides such as zzz quill or any other put the sleeping subconscious into a lower state, a lower realm, where beings plant seeds into the consciousness. These seeds affect the waking mind, knowingly or unknowingly.

Drinking tea before bed can put one into a higher realm, but know this, the boogie man gets bigger the higher you go, so to do this on a regular basis can be dangerous as well.

It is best to go to sleep without these things, working consciously to raise one’s state of mind while awake so the sleep pattern is level, balanced between the higher and lower realms. This is where we are meant to be, in balance.

Pharmaceuticals and OTC sleep aides, alcohol and illegal drugs throw this balance off, affecting the waking state, and therefore affect the balance of the seen realm we walk in during our waking hours.

At First I Felt Something Was Wrong

Published March 15, 2023 by tindertender

Then I remembered the dream space (astral 4D) when I was surrounded by people screaming vile hatred at me. I calmly stood there and absorbed it.

It’s no wonder I’m feeling sensitive this morning. That was a lot of anger!! Time to shake it off, transmute it.

Bringing light to dark and dense spaces is a challenge to the system, for certain. Not the most pleasant thing.

I imagine many of you who wake with emotional sensitivity are doing the same. Thank you for being there/here. Much love to you.

Be gentle with yourself. Don’t spew the anger you’ve received back into the world upon rising.

Transmute it in love.

Want To Know About Your Dreams?

Published March 7, 2023 by tindertender

By @Akashicel

Do you know the Oneiric portals?

Everything is a portal that takes you back to your unconscious,

You probably entered one of them last night.

Do you remember?

How do you know that what you dream are your dreams and not given by a third party?

Let’s start by talking about dreams…

Dreams are the main mystical door that evokes, links and channels us with our essence and our true home, they are vehicles and coarse channels of creation that interact with memory/consciousness fields (conscious and unconscious) through different planes of existence.

https://twitter.com/akashicel/status/1595592383852322816?s=46&t=zsZI5mlc1igVGWFu2MUwig

You may wonder why do we not always experience freedom when we dream?
Why do we keep remembering the conditioning exerted by the system?
Why do we sometimes feel imprisoned, attacked, deceived?
Why do we feel that we have no control over ourselves, over our DREAMS?

https://twitter.com/akashicel/status/1595592892537786369?s=46&t=zsZI5mlc1igVGWFu2MUwig

Fear creates illusory limits that shape our unconscious, limits represented in archetypes of power, languages, symbols with which we identify ourselves.

For example, do you know what the true meaning of the cross is?

https://twitter.com/akashicel/status/1595593235652657153?s=46&t=zsZI5mlc1igVGWFu2MUwig

Archetypes rooted in the collective consciousness.

Remember, culture is just rituals in disguise.

Your energy, the resonance of your electromagnetic field have visible weak points where parasites can anchor, because you consented to it, by forgetting your power.

https://twitter.com/akashicel/status/1595593874663161857?s=46&t=zsZI5mlc1igVGWFu2MUwig

Your recurring dreams may be prefabricated dreams, simulations created to extract your vital energy, or dream spaces that you kept after the attack to understand more about your fears, and dissolve them.

Most nightmares are prefabricated dreams, scenarios that interrupt organic dreams and lead us to another one.

The interruption of dreams is a sign of an attack.

Sleep paralysis often communicates a lack of control and connection with our human body.

https://twitter.com/akashicel/status/1595594346744741888?s=46&t=zsZI5mlc1igVGWFu2MUwig
https://twitter.com/akashicel/status/1595594818335408128?s=46&t=zsZI5mlc1igVGWFu2MUwig

Looking at the Stars

Published March 4, 2023 by tindertender

“We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.”✨

– Oscar Wilde

Fascinating Timelines

Published February 25, 2023 by tindertender

Ain’t Nobody Got Time for This Sh!t

Published February 24, 2023 by tindertender

The original here:

https://youtu.be/GGJg4TUOmds

They Don’t Know

Published February 18, 2023 by tindertender

The man doesn’t know that there is a snake underneath.

The woman doesn’t know that there is a stone crushing the man.

The woman thinks: “I am going to fall! And I can’t climb because the snake is going to bite me! Why can’t the man use a little more strength and pull me up!”

The man thinks: “I am in so much pain! Yet I’m still pulling you as much as I can! Why don’t you try and climb a little harder!?”

The moral is— you can’t see the pressure the other person is under, and the other person can’t see the pain you’re in.

This is life, whether it’s with work, family, feelings or friends, we should try to understand each other.

Learn to think differently, perhaps more clearly and communicate better. A little thought and patience goes a long way.

~ Author Unknown

🌀🌀🌀🌀LET GO🌀🌀🌀🌀

Published February 16, 2023 by tindertender

Let go of the people who are not ready to love you. This is the hardest thing you will ever have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing.
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Stop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change. Stop showing up for people who are not interested in your presence. I know your goal is to do everything to gain the admiration of those around you, but that is an impulse that only steals your time, your energy, your mental and physical health.
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When you start looking for a life with more joy, interest and commitment, not everyone will be ready to follow you in that place. This does not mean that you need to change who you are, it just means that you have to let go of the people who are not ready to accompany you on that path.
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If you are excluded, insulted, forgotten or ignored by the people you devote your time to, it is not healthy to continue offering your energy and your life to those people.
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The truth is, you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you. And that’s what makes the moment so special when you finally meet people with whom you have matching friendship and love. You will know how precious this is because before you experienced what it is not.
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The more time you spend trying to be loved by someone who is unable to love you back, the more time you waste depriving yourself of the possibility of having that true connection with someone else.
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There are billions of people on this planet, and many of them will match the same level of interest and commitment as you.
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The more you stay involved with people who use you as a pillow or as a background option, the longer you distance yourself from the true love you desire.
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Maybe if you stop showing up, you won’t be wanted. Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship ends. Maybe if you stop texting, your phone will go without ringing for weeks. It doesn’t mean that you ruined your relationship, it just means that the only thing holding that relationship together was the energy that only you gave to keep it.
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Its not love, its attachment. This is wanting to give a chance to those who don’t deserve it! You deserve so much more. There are people who are not meant to be in your life, and you’ll realize that with time.
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The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and your energy, as both are limited. What you put your time and energy into will define your life.
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When you finally realize this you then start to understand why you get so anxious or tired when you spend time with people in places and situations doing things that don’t suit you. You are literally energy “stolen”
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You will also start to learn from this that the most important thing you can do for yourself and everyone around you is to take more care of your energy.
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Make your life a safe haven, in which only people ′’compatible” with you will be allowed to enter.
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Remember, you are not responsible for saving anyone. You are not responsible for persuading them to improve or change their way of being. It’s not your job to do everything for people or give your life for them. Your only obligation is to realize that you are the master of your destiny and that it is your responsibility to make yourself happy.
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Starting today, decide that you deserve to receive true friendships, true commitment and complete love with healthy and prosperous people. Then wait and see how everything will start to change in your life. You will then go on to meet more positive and good energy people in your path.
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Don’t waste your time with people who are not worth it, change will bring you the love, joy, confidence and happiness you deserve and so desire.

🖊Brianna Wiest