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Words of Wisdom

Published November 12, 2023 by tindertender

Nobody watches you harder than the people who can’t stand you.

You will reach a point on your path where you do not require a single person to understand or relate to you.

You become a more positive, peaceful & harmonic person when you don’t react to people who use you as a mirror for their own insecurities & self hate.

When people say “you’ve changed” – there’s a 99% chance that you just stopped tolerating their bullshit.

Apologize to yourself for letting someone get comfortable with treating you like you’re average.

No longer responding or reacting to people who trigger you is one of the ways to strengthen your spiritual muscles.

No matter what’s going on in your life – always prioritize self-care.
Some people may not like you because your light illuminates the shadow work they refuse to do.

Being happy is a very personal thing & it really has nothing to do with anyone else.

The key to breaking a pattern is to respond differently.

You know you’ve grown when the old you would’ve reached out by now & the new you never will.

What’s for you won’t lower your vibration – that’s how you’ll know.
Any time you find yourself giving more energy than you receive – fall back.

Before clarity – there is confusion. Before healing – there is hurt. After pain – there is purpose.
You’d be surprised how many things fall into place when you learn to follow your spirit & speak with your soul.

We can only share worlds if our vibrations meet at a common state of honesty & love.

Find your equal – not your whole.

Grace over grudges.

To fully heal you must understand why your subconscious prioritized their manipulation over your self respect.

Trust the process – even when it seems like it’s not processing.

The heartbreak that comes from leaving a one-sided relationship is never as painful as the loneliness that comes from abandoning yourself in order to stay.

A big fuck you to anyone who used you to make them “feel good” until they didn’t need you anymore & then left you wondering where you went wrong.

The ego wants more – the soul needs less.

When someone ghosts you – respect the dead & never disturb them again.

Any relationship that requires you to be quiet or a watered down version of yourself for it to “work out” – is not the relationship for you. Never allow someone to control your narrative. Feed your soul – not play a role. The journey of freedom awaits you.

Love does not leave someone traumatized. Whatever happened – it was not love.

Sometimes the Universe will hold you back temporarily until the road is safe & clear to continue. Be thankful for the stall.

“We’ll figure it out together” is a love language.

Trust what you feel – not what you hear.

Never let irrelevant people control your mind, feelings & emotions.
Peace of mind is the real bag. Secure it.

Never be so loyal that you betray yourself.

Seeking validation from others is a reflection of lack of self-love – accept yourself in order to be your authentic self. Your soul doesn’t give a shit about impressing others – it seeks fulfillment over validation.

The more healing you do – the more sensitive your body is to recognizing bad energy.

A person who finds peace instead of revenge can never be bothered.

You know you’ve mastered a soul lesson when the circumstance has not changed but the way you respond has – that’s true energy self mastery.

Stop chasing what your mind wants & you’ll get what your soul needs.

Obstacles and Change

Published November 1, 2023 by tindertender

On the way to work it was dark. Someone squeezed in front of me, then hit their brakes.

I thought, “At this point, you’re no longer a person. You’re an obstacle.”

And now I’m wondering how this statement fits the other areas of my life.

Common Aura Problems

Published October 30, 2023 by tindertender

Divinity in Disguise

Published October 30, 2023 by tindertender

“Every man is a Divinity in disguise, a god playing a fool.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emmerson

“I have been a seeker and I still am, but I stopped asking the books and the stars. I started listening to the teaching of my soul.” ~ Rumi

“In other words, the sum-total of all the outward guidance of the world doesn’t hold a candle to the wisdom of the guiding force within you. Remember you’re at one with the One. Open your heart to the divine within you. When you open your mouth to speak, allow this higher perspective to express through you.” ~ The Hero’s Journey, Dream Oracle

Mantra ::
I trust the wisdom of my higher self, and follow it, step by step, toward higher ground.

Morning Mantra’s

Published October 27, 2023 by tindertender
I Am the Palace
Any Energy I do not need may leave
Love always wins
I Am Grateful
I Am Sacred
Ready for our unity
Joy is my guide

Breaking Every Chain That You Put Upon Me

Published October 26, 2023 by tindertender

You try to hold me down so I became a soldier
Built up all theses walls and now I’m climbing over
Those nasty bees are tempting me
Oh Lord! but I ain’t going back

You take me for a fool (fool), that doesn’t make me foolish
Told me I was wrong (wrong), passion made you ruthless
Manipulate, It’s just too late
Oh lord! ’cause I ain’t going back no more

Your fueling of the flames gonna show you what I’m made of

Breakin’ every chain that you put on me
You thought I wouldn’t change but I grew on you
‘Cause I will never be what you wanted
This fire (this fire), this fire
Is keeping me alive
Making me believe I couldn’t do without you
Make it hard to leave you think It’s all about you
You know I’ll never be what you wanted
This fire (this fire), this fire

I tried to get this weight off of my shoulders
Built up all my strength I’m finally taking over
Complicate, I don’t appreciate
Oh lord! ’cause I ain’t going back no more

Your fueling of the flames gonna show you what I’m made of

Breakin’ every chain that you put on me
You thought I wouldn’t change but I grew on you
‘Cause I will never be what you wanted
This fire (this fire), this fire
Is keeping me alive

Making me believe I couldn’t do without you
Make it hard to leave you think It’s all about you
You know I’ll never be what you wanted
This fire (this fire), this fire

Is keeping me alive
Keeping me alive
Keeping me alive
This fire (this fire), this fire (Is keeping me alive)

Breakin’ me, shakin’ me, shapin’ me into what I never wanted, oh
Breakin’ me, shakin’ me makin’ my beatin’ heart a little stronger
Stronger, strong baby

Breakin’ every chain that you put on me
You thought I wouldn’t change but I grew on you
‘Cause I will never be what you wanted
This fire (this fire), this fire
Is keeping me alive

Breakin’ every chain that you put on me
You thought I wouldn’t change but I grew on you
‘Cause I would never be what you wanted
This fire (this fire), this fire
Is keeping me alive

Making me believe I couldn’t do without you
Make it hard to leave you think It’s all about you
You know I’ll never be what you wanted
This fire (this fire), this fire

Is keeping me alive
Keeping me alive, keeping me alive
This fire (this fire), this fire
Is keeping me alive

Source: Musixmatch

Songwriters: Brian Howes / Jason Van Poederooyen / Jonathan Roy

Keeping Me Alive lyrics © Songs Of Atlas Music Group, Cake & Eat It 2 Publishing, 8 Pack Of Lucky Publishing Inc., Cake And Eat It 2 Publishing

It’s A Beautiful Day

Published October 26, 2023 by tindertender

I dreamed I was killed last night. They dragged a hot blade from my throat to my sternum. I woke, it was a little uncomfortable, difficult to catch a breath. It’s not the first time they did this to me. I meditated with tourmaline and selenite until I fell back asleep.

I am wondering how my higher self, my King my God, and Heavenly Father will handle this. I’m out in that regard. All I do is facilitate space for others to show their truest selves, often they do so with great exuberance.

I’ve been a little funky today, my heart chakra aching … and I wonder if I died. It’s happened before …. I’m not too sure they can take the life my King gifted me the last time they took my life and I jumped timelines.

Spirit has been playing the lyrics from this song all day in mind. I am grateful for my beloved brothers and sisters of the unseen who try to uplift my mind and heart when another has hurt me.

I love my Divine Family.
I am grateful for this front row seat.
Looking forward to seeing the response.
Justice …

It’s a beautiful day

Ay, oh, no, no, hmm
(One, two, three, oh)

You’re tired of hanging around
Waiting for life to come to you
So tired, it’s getting you down
Miss the fun that used to be in you
I know that most of it is probably not your fault
But, I ain’t giving up, no way
No, I ain’t giving up, no way, no way

Oh, oh, it’s a beautiful day
Oh, oh, don’t let it slip away
Time wish you’d walk out that door
Tell me what you waiting for
Oh, oh, it’s a beautiful day (hey)
It’s a beautiful day (hey)
Oh, yeah

I know there’s gonna be days
When it’s gonna be hard for you
Let’s go, ’cause I know a place (know a place)
That I really wanna show you
You say you just won’t run
And I’m wasting my time
But, I ain’t giving up, no way
No, I ain’t giving up, no way, no way

Oh, oh, it’s a beautiful day
Oh, oh, don’t let it slip away
Time wish you’d walk out that door
Tell me what you waiting for
Oh, oh, it’s a beautiful day (hey)
It’s a beautiful day (hey)
A beautiful day
It’s a beautiful day (hey)
A beautiful day

And when you give in, let it shine
And don’t you let them change our story
Oh, can you see it? I’m here for you
If I fall, I will fall, pick you up from the ground, and I say

Oh, oh
Oh, oh, it’s a beautiful day
Oh, oh, don’t let it slip away
Time wish you’d walk out that door
Tell me what you waiting for
Oh, oh
It’s a beautiful day (hey)
Oh, yeah (hey)
A beautiful day
Nah, nah, nah, nah
Nah, nah, nah, nah
Nah, nah, nah, nah-nah
Oh, no, no, no
Nah, nah, nah, nah
Nah, nah, nah, nah
Nah, nah, nah, nah-nah

Oh, It’s a beautiful
Beautiful day
Beautiful day

Source: Musixmatch

Songwriters: Matthew Marston / Simon Ellis

Beautiful Day lyrics © Blackwell Fuller Music Publishing Llc

Pride is a Cheater

Published October 26, 2023 by tindertender

Pride – “My Name is Pride” poem by Beth Moore

My name is Pride. I am a cheater.
I cheat you of your God-given destiny…
because you demand your own way.
I cheat you of contentment…
because you “deserve better than this.”
I cheat you of knowledge…
because you already know it all.
I cheat you of healing…
because you are too full of you to forgive.
I cheat you of holiness…
because you refuse to admit when you are wrong.
I cheat you of vision…
because you’d rather look in the mirror than out a window.
I cheat you of genuine friendship…
because nobody’s going to know the real you.
I cheat you of love…
because real romance demands sacrifice.
I cheat you of greatness in heaven…
because you refuse to wash another’s feet on earth.
I cheat you of God’s glory…
because I convinced you to seek your own.
My name is Pride. I am a cheater.
You like me because you think I’m always looking out for you.
Untrue.
I’m looking to make a fool of you.
God has so much for you, I admit, but don’t worry…
If you stick with me you’ll never know.

Evicting Mind Monsters

Published October 23, 2023 by tindertender

There are those in this world who would have you believe that many must perish so that the earth will survive. This is false. The one who breathes life, who gives love freely, can undo this web of connection to darkness. The rotten leech which has infected humanity will be removed. Peace WILL prevail, and war isn’t necessarily the answer.

Believing everything we are told is dangerous. We see from the past that much of what has been stated is a total fabrication. An agenda which plays to the top percentage of folks is being laid out and that is what must change.

What is it that speaks truth to you? Leave the broadcast aside for a moment and touch base with the depths of your being. Forget of the opinions others speak of, listen to your own intuition.

It really will be okay. Do your part, do not feed the monster with the fear and paranoia it tries to stir up in your heart. It wages war on humanity, causing much harm. But you are strong, you are brilliant, and you are not alone.

Intensity ~ As Expected

Published October 22, 2023 by tindertender

Leo
Scorpio rising
Gemini moon
Red Electric Serpent
Born on the 11th (master number)
In 1996 (reduces to 22, another master number)
Also born on the 13th day of knife
With 13 years of celibacy
My energy is pure
I am the truth
It cuts like a knife
I am here
In service to the Divine
Called Life
Within all living things
“Reset”
It will surprise many
Who chose to torment Divine Essence
I am grateful for this front row seat
It was quite costly
Thank you Heavenly Father
Thank you my King my God
I came here for intensity
And it was delivered, exactly as expected.

The Subtle Bodies

Know thyself, Heal thyself

https://www.onbelaycounseling.com/new-page-3

https://goop.com/wellness/spirituality/healing-your-aura/

https://www.lakesidekinesiology.com.au/post/strengthen-your-auric-layers