Women Are Like Roses

Published June 18, 2020 by tindertender

We are told how beautiful we are.

How desirable.

Yet if we do not comply with the instruction, we will be punished.

They love the flower, yet abhor the thorns.

The thorns that keep you safe.

The thorns created by interaction with the brutalizer.

The one who demands you be completely vulerable.

Open to abuse.

Or available for the demand.

Should you not comply, beatings will be frequent, and brutal.

Should you decide to comply, the beatings will be fewer,

Yet still there.

Does freedom in Love exist?

Or does Love make us slave …

To the others needs,

Forget our own,

Be a servant,

Who will not be served.

Or walk away,

Or fight,

For freedom.

For the truest, purest Loving Energies.

Yes, women are like roses.

Don’t you dare remove your thorns you beautiful creature.

Preditors are everywhere.

The thorns were given you for protection.

Keep them.

Allow them to shred those who attempt to hamper or destroy you.

Let your beauty rise.

Shine, you glorious beauty.

A Father Said To His Daughter

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

You graduated with honors, here is a car that I acquired many years ago … it is several years old.

But before I give it to you, take it to the used car lot downtown and tell them I want to sell it and see how much they offer you.

The daughter went to the used car lot, returned to her father and said, “They offered me $1,000 because it looks very worn out.” The father said, “Take him to the pawn shop.” The daughter went to the pawn shop, returned to her father and said, “The pawn shop offered $100 because it was a very old car.” The father asked his daughter to go to a car club and show them the car.

The daughter took the car to the club, returned and told her father, “Some people in the club offered $100,000 for it since it is a Nissan Skyline R34, an iconic car and sought after by many.” The father said to his daughter, “I wanted you to know that the right place values you the right way.” If you are not valued, do not be angry, it means you are in the wrong place. Those who know your value are those who appreciate you. Never stay in a place where no one sees your value.

Beckoning

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

Words Are Words.

Each one a lesson you’ve learned.

Time has been distributed well.

We are free from that which prevents us from reaching our destination.

My savior is LOVE, and it dwells in my SOUL ~ A precious portion of creation.

Soul: Beyond this body, yet animates this body.

Some disconnects are necessary.

A shift in reality.

Start anew.

Begin again.

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Oracle Reading 6-17-2020

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

Heart of the Issue: Hope ~ Do not give up; there is hope yet. A wish will be granted. A birth is imminent. Fertility is everywhere. (Goddess: Yemaya ~ Often depicted as the goddess of hope and love. She is also considered the nourishing mother aspect of all water.)

The Challenge you Face: Justice ~ Justice will be done for the good of all. Take responsibility for your actions. The chaos in your life will end; natural order will be restored. (Goddess: Maat ~ She brought Law to chaos. She created and judged every natural law in the universe, making her one of the most powerful deities.)

The Solution: Unity ~ You will be victorious. Teamwork or a partnership may be better than going it alone. Synergy is important right now. Delegation is useful. (Goddess: Boudicca ~ Her name means “bringer of victory”. She did what no other could do in her time: she was a queen, a warrior, a leader, and a mother.)

Reading from the deck “Goddesses and Sirens” created by Stacey Demarco

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Global Human Experiment

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

Why was COVID-19 the first virus that required us to:

wear a mask?
stand on dots?
follow arrows?
social distance?

stop going to work?
stop visiting family & friends?
stop elective procedures?

Why this virus?
Why never before?
Why did we accept this?
Why no critical thinking?

Beloved Sisters

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

You are deep soul women. You won’t find a worthy love in the shallows. Within your chest beats a heart from light. You are from stars.

Beloved Sisters ~

You deserve Divine Masculine. The One who sees you as Holy. Sees you like the high priestess that you are.

Who worships you at your altar as you do theirs in body, mind, spirit and Heart. Someone whose words are prayers pressed openly against your bare Soul.

You deserve someone who sees your loving Heart, free and wild.

Divine Love grows in the Light and honors you, not dismisses you.

You deserve someone who sees the magic that surrounds you as you move between the worlds and feel between the layers of time.

You deserve someone who understands your deep Soul-work, to walk the path of your ancient mystery.

Beloved Sisters ~

You deserve someone who understands you swim in the unknown, you move between worlds and among the shadows. And disappear at times into the realm of the unseen.

And your Love is so strong in time and space that you will always return to them .

You deserve someone who will choose you fully and build a world with you. One of peace, Love and passion.

One and only who embraces you in your wholeness.

Who understands your deep loving, healing Heart in every loving breath in between.

Beloved Sisters ~

You deserve one who loves the fire in your Heart, in your spirit, in your veins. One who celebrates you for all that you are.

Sisters, hold your head high for the One who can see your bright Light. A spirit with a warrior’s heart to match your own heart.

You are born to shine.

You are a deep soul woman. And you won’t find a worthy love in the shallows. Those who are unworthy can never truly see your Light.

Dear Sisters ~

Somewhere on this planet there is One worthy of your love and sees your magic.

Somewhere on this planet beats a Divine Heart deserving your fire. Who is not afraid to dance with your Soul in your endless depths into the unknown.

~ Viera Grossmann

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Strong

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

When they see you as a strong woman, they think that you do not need anything or anyone, you can bear everything and will overcome whatever happens. That you do not mind being listened to, cared for or pampered.

When they see you as a strong woman, they just look for you to help them carry their crosses. They talk to you and they think you do not need to be heard.

A strong woman is not asked if she is tired, suffering or falling, if she has anxiety or fear. The important thing is that she is always there: a lighthouse in the fog or a rock in the middle of the sea.

The strong woman is not forgiven anything. If she loses control, she becomes weak. If she loses her temper, she becomes hysterical.

When the strong woman disappears a minute, it is immediately noticeable, but when she is there, her presence is usual.

But the strength that is needed every day, to be that kind of woman, does not matter to anyone.

Honor, recognize, respect and thank the strong women in your life, because they also need to be restrained, loved and feel that they can rest.

We’ve Canceled Aunt Jemima

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

Her actual name was Nancy Green. She was born a slave in 1834 in Kentucky. In 1890 she was hired to represent Aunt Jemima as an advertising character. It was her job to operate the pancake cooking display.

Green was 56-yrs old when she was selected as spokesperson for a new ready-mixed, self-rising pancake flour and made her debut in 1893 at a fair and exposition in Chicago. She demonstrated the pancake mix and served thousands of pancakes… and became an immediate star.

She was a good storyteller, her personality was warm and appealing, and her showmanship was exceptional. Her exhibition booth drew so many people that special security personnel were assigned to keep the crowds moving.

Her personality and cooking talent made her an instant hit. She won a medal for her performance.

Nancy Green was signed to a lifetime contract, traveled on promotional tours all over the country, and was extremely well paid. Her financial freedom and stature as a national spokesperson enabled her to become a leading advocate against poverty and in favor of equal rights for folks in Chicago.

She was working until her death until 1923. Green was one of the organizers of Olivet Baptist Church.

Her career allowed her …

Personality and a friendly nature. Her original painting sold for $9030.00. It was rendered by A.B. Frost one of the great illustrators of the Golden Age.

They took her life’s work and eliminated it.

She should be remember as one who persevered.

Not “just a slave”.

An achiever.

UPDATE: https://www.themix.net/2020/06/aunt-jemimas-great-grandson-is-furious-that-her-legacy-is-being-erased/

“This is an injustice for me and my family. This is part of my history, sir,” Larnell Evans Sr. told Patch. “The racism they talk about, using images from slavery, that comes from the other side — white people. This company profits off images of our slavery. And their answer is to erase my great-grandmother’s history. A black female. … It hurts.”

Doubt Is The Choice Of The Wise Man

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

“When science goes beyond the objective observation of facts and attempts to appraise and explain them, the field opens wide for speculation; each one then advances a theory of his own, trying to make it prevail and defending it relentlessly. Do we not see every day the most contradictory opinions, one after another, be proposed and rejected, sometimes repealed as absurd errors, only to be later proclaimed as indisputable truths? Facts are the sole criterion of reality, the argument that admits of no reply. In the absence of facts, doubt is the choice of the wise man.”
~ The Spirits’ Book, by Allan Kardec

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We Have A Choice

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

It is apparent governments, or at least the one in my country, is steering us toward mass vaccinations and chipping.

Pretty sure this is happening to us world-wide.

Will the people choose the light?

Or will they allow politicians and scientists to shut it down once more, leaving the mind in the dark, and us feeling alone … with the suffering inflicted by lifetime politicians?