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Certainty

Published June 23, 2020 by tindertender

It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.

What Is The Next Step?

Published June 22, 2020 by tindertender

In these days we can sometimes feel overwhelmed by the chaotic movements and energies around us.

We may become so overwhelmed that it is difficult to know which direction to turn, which project to tackle first, or be completely at a loss as to how to begin lifting the pile of worries from atop our heads.

Breathe.

In times of stress it is typical for us to lose our rhythm. Our muscles contract, our breathing becomes shallow or labored, and may include any form of release … outbursts, tears, fights.

If this is your current experience, stop.

Check in with your heart, your muscles, your breath, NOT the mind. Examine the tensions dwelling within your person. Focus on relaxing them, and releasing them.

Take time every morning to make a vow as to the efforts you will apply to the day.

What will you create? Where and how will you apply your energies to affect a benefit for the whole?

Our energies influence all others, just as ours is influenced by those we encounter.

Distinguish the subtle differences between your energy and that of those you have relationship throughout the day. Become familiar with what belongs to you, and that which you pick up on and absorb.

Reject any energies which are not yours if they are dark. There are many methods of this and I have found the best is to move, breathe and gently push the negative away.

As with all delicate energy work, we must be tuned in order to recognize the varying degrees of flow.

With time and practice, you will easily remove the energetic imprints people add in your experience. You will maintain balance. You will stop ‘reacting’ and will start ‘responding’. You will become an expert at energetic transmutation.

Control your emotions.

Do not be controlled by them.

In all instances, keep humility in mind.

None of us know it all.

Everyone has a lesson to teach.

Everyone has a lesson to learn.

It truly is a team effort, and the more of us who are aware and practicing, the quicker the transmutation process becomes, not only for self and personal relationships, but the flow of the entire world will begin to shift.

LOVE

Keep going.

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There are some wonderful suggestions on shifting energy here: https://www.consciouslifestylemag.com/energy-clearing-techniques/

Stand Your Ground

Published June 19, 2020 by tindertender

By doing good and placing all your trust in God, you repel the influence of inferior spirits and you destroy the dominion they wish to establish over you. Guard yourselves against listening to the suggestion of spirits who stimulate evil thoughts in your mind, those who provoke disagreement and elicit in you any evil passion. Distrust particularly those spirits who flatter your pride, for, in so doing, they attack you at your weakest point. That is why Jesus teaches you to recite in the Lord’s Prayer, “Lord, do not let us fall into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

A spirit never receives a mission to do evil. When he carries out evil deeds, it is by his own will, and he shall, therefore, suffer the consequences. God may let him test you, but never directly orders him to do it; it is up to you to repel him.

The Spirits’ Book by Allan Kardec – Part 2, Chapter 9: 469 & 470

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Electromagnetism

Published June 19, 2020 by tindertender

Written by: https://twitter.com/tammiesawakenow?s=20

You are an electromagnetic being emitting a frequency only those things that are on the same frequency as the one you are emitting can come into your experience. Every single person, event, and circumstance in your day is telling you what frequency you are in.

The Universe responds to your frequency. It does not recognize your personal desires, wants or needs. It only understands the frequency in which you are vibrating. If you are vibrating in the frequency of fear, guilt or shame, you are going to attract things of a similar vibration to support that frequency. If you are vibrating in the frequency of love, joy and abundance, you are going to attract things that support that frequency. It’s like tuning into a radio station. You have to be tuned into the station you want to listen to, just like you have to be tuned into the energy you want in your life. People with good/pure souls don’t just appear in our lives. Once you reach a higher vibrational life and let go of all the things that are spiritually weighing you down, you will naturally start to align.

Whenever you are with someone notice how you feel. Do you feel guarded, sad and/or uncomfortable? That’s a sign you maybe you shouldn’t spend that much time with them. If you feel light, comfortable, safe and happy it’s most likely a sign that this person is good for you.

Energy is my first language. I understand it more than I do words. You might as well be who you are because your vibes are going to tell the truth anyway.

As your vibration raises, forces will come to work against you. [They] are afraid of your power. Your spiritual awakening scares [Them]. Your job is to keep lifting. Because everything comes as a result of your vibes.

Are you serious?!?!?

Published June 18, 2020 by tindertender

PERCEPTION

So after leaving the drive thru today in Jax Beach, FL my wife took her sandwich out of the bag and we see THIS!!

Seriously?

Oh not today, not today!!

I went back to the restaurant, went INSIDE (already fuming), asked to speak to the manager and then threw the sandwich on the counter. I asked him for an explanation.

He looked confused, so I pointed at the writing on the sandwich and demanded that he tells me why someone felt the need to write it on my Wife’s sandwich.

He answered, “because you ordered a BLT with cheese??”

To which I replied “Oh” 

It’s important to pause, not jump to conclusions, and think about things.

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We Have A Choice

Published June 17, 2020 by tindertender

It is apparent governments, or at least the one in my country, is steering us toward mass vaccinations and chipping.

Pretty sure this is happening to us world-wide.

Will the people choose the light?

Or will they allow politicians and scientists to shut it down once more, leaving the mind in the dark, and us feeling alone … with the suffering inflicted by lifetime politicians?

Message of Empowerment 6-13-2020

Published June 13, 2020 by tindertender

Walk in confidence with this knowing and all the doors of life will “Magically” open. ~ Jody

Take time for the dreamer in you. Find your power in stillness. In your sacred space is the peace you seek.

You have seen and unseen allies. Draw upon their strength. Join forces with friends and flourish.

Laugh at yourself. Lighten your heart. Let nothing steal your happiness.

Be grateful for abundance. Live in appreciation for what you have, and more good things will come.

Be open for whatever comes next. It might just be the music your heart’s been waiting to hear.

“Be careful of your thoughts, for they become your words. Be careful of your words, for they become your actions. Be careful of your actions for they become your habits. Be careful of your habits, for they become your character. Be careful of your character, for your character becomes your destiny.” ~ Unknown

Message from the deck “Magical Times” Empowerment cards created by Jody Bergsma

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Learning How To Bend

Published June 12, 2020 by tindertender

Why is it acceptable to ask for criticism, yet not alright to ask for compliment? We’ve been ‘trained’ to seek the negative … in self, in others, in situations.

Self-trust.

Self-esteem.

There’s always someone to help us in this regard, to the positive, or to the contrary.

When we fully take responsibility for our actions, stop blaming our attitudes and character on past experiences, then we can claim our life.

We can choose the practices we wish to embody. If others are not okay with any of it, let them be. Honor yourself in the moment, every one of them.

If experience brings tough lessons, embrace them as thoroughly as possible to decrease the chances of a lesson needing to be relearned.

Recognize.

Accept,

Or release.

Once you are okay with every little quirk and habit, the rest doesn’t really matter, as long as no harm is coming to self, or any body.

The wind will go where it desires.

In this moment, all the earth stands still.

No fear here.

No fear here.

No fear here.

Start anew.

Begin again.

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Daily Inspiration for Women 6-10-2020

Published June 10, 2020 by tindertender

I am whole.

I am powerful.

I am divine.

I am enough.

The thing that is really hard, and really amazing, is giving up on being perfect and beginning the work of becoming yourself. ~ Anna Quindlen

Many of us hold an image in our minds of who we think we should be, and we constantly compare ourselves to this imaginary version of ourselves. Anytime we fall short of this standard by not being pretty enough, successful enough, smart enough, or fill-in-the-blank enough, we judge ourselves harshly.

The truth of the matter is that we will always fall short of perfection when we compete against an imagined version of ourselves. You are perfectly imperfect, just as you are. Free yourself from the imaginary chains of perfection. You are the only one who can do so.

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From “Warrior Goddess Wisdom” Daily inspiration for women by Heatherash Amara

Oracle Reading 6-9-2020

Published June 9, 2020 by tindertender

The gift of free-flowing liberty, movement through the world, deciding your own direction.

This gift of movement offers of freeing of the stagnant parts of your life, of the disentangling of the cords that have bound you, and the clearing of the way before you, so that you can go – and go where you dream and wish of. You finally begin to break free and explore more, either through movement of the mind, with ideas, or movement of the body – with joy in the expression of the body.

Divine and flowing inspiration.

The inspirational flow of energy can bring to life new projects, friendships, wisdom, and understanding. With every breath you take, you feel more connected, more unique, more divine, more magical. Let yourself feel the blessing surround you with a visionary new approach to your life.

Being seen for who you are, for being known and understood.

The gift of knowledge and recognition – both for yourself and others. With this gift comes the ability for others to connect with you in true love – for where there is understanding, there can be affection and comfort and a sense of ease in who you are. You belong in the presence of another when understanding comes. So, may you be blessed and be truly seen by others.

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Reading from the deck “ Faery Blessing Cards” created by Lucy Cavendish