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Acknowledging Emotion

Published January 9, 2021 by tindertender

The child who is taught that their emotions do not matter, becomes the adult who struggles with acknowledging their feelings.

The child will become the adult who lacks emotional awareness. Who does not know what emotion feels like in their body. Will feel emotions like it’s their first time experiencing it, every time.

Imagine that you’re filling water in a glass. Water is your emotions, the glass is your body.

Someone who doesn’t have good emotional awareness will only see the problem when the water finally overflows, and *not* when it’s dangerously reaching the brim.

The child will become the adult who holds their emotions in until a faint breeze comes in that makes them break.

The adult will end up getting trapped in this cycle of not acknowledging the problem until they have to clean up the mess. They will lack emotional accountability and the inability to create spaces for emotional safety for themselves and others.

Let’s change this by prioritizing the need for acknowledging the body. It’s not healthy to go weeks on end without checking in with yourself. It will always end up with the glass overflowing. Slow down, sit down, and take some seconds out of your day to ask how you’re feeling.

Source: https://twitter.com/ehimeora?s=21

Chart Source: https://twitter.com/melposted?s=21

Use this emotion wheel for recognizing the reason you are struggling communicating emotions. May it help to identify them.

When experiencing a strong emotion, use the wheel to identify and write it down. Start with the umbrella center emotions and work it through the middle and outer tiers.

Becoming Tempered

Published January 8, 2021 by tindertender

“The ancient Irish had a saying: ‘You don’t give a man a weapon until you’ve taught him how to dance.’ In other words, a different kind of learning is required before someone can be truly trusted with social power and potent things like weapons. If a man does not know the wounds of his own soul, he can deny not just his own pain, but also be unmoved by the suffering of other people. More than that, he will tend to put his wound onto others. He may only be able to see the wound that secretly troubles him when he forcefully projects it into someone else, in forms of abuse or violence.

So in the old culture-making idea, in order to properly bear arms a person must first become disarmed, as in becoming vulnerable and connected to something meaningful and supportive of life. The idea of forging the temperament of young men took precedence over the idea of simply giving them weapons at a certain age. The tempering of the souls involved discovering what kind of anger each might carry and learning about the inner line where anger turned into blind rage. Becoming tempered also meant immersing in the sorrow of one’s life and thereby being in touch with the grief of the world.”

~ Michael Meade
https://www.mosaicvoices.org/

Consciousness: The Mistaken God

Published January 7, 2021 by tindertender

A book my new brother in Namibia has written. If so inclined, please contact him directly for purchase.

Darlington is a teacher of children, and also provides instruction to enable the adult opportunity for learning how to train the mind and program the consciousness.

My book (E-book), Consciousness: The Mistaken God is now available.

Not yet online due to technicalities of online payment in Namibia. However, one can DM and be given the straight details and for acquiring the book.

The book explains how failure to understand consciousness has resulted in mankind “creating” the God. The three states of consciousness have manifested this universe, and we all have those 3 states of consciousness. Thus, we are Gods who created the universe.

Quite an enlightening book. It explains how consciousness used to exist as formless b4 the Big Bang.

Also how Demiurge “captured” Source Consciousness, how to program the subconscious mind and the 3 states of consciousness, among others.

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She Let Go

Published January 6, 2021 by tindertender

She let go. Without a thought or a word, she let go.
She let go of fear. She let go of the judgments.
She let go of the confluence of opinions swarming around her head.
She let go of the committee of indecision within her.
She let go of all the ‘right’ reasons. Wholly and completely, without hesitation or worry, she just let go.
She didn’t ask anyone for advice. She didn’t read a book on how to let go… She didn’t search the scriptures.
She just let go.
She let go of all of the memories that held her back.
She let go of all of the anxiety that kept her from moving forward.
She let go of the planning and all of the calculations about how to do it just right.
She didn’t promise to let go.
She didn’t journal about it.
She didn’t write the projected date in her day-timer.
She made no public announcement and put no ad in the paper.
She didn’t check the weather report or read her daily horoscope.
She just let go.
She didn’t analyse whether she should let go.
She didn’t call her friends to discuss the matter.
She didn’t do a five-step Spiritual Mind Treatment.
She didn’t call the prayer line.
She didn’t utter one word. She just let go.
No one was around when it happened.
There was no applause or congratulations.
No one thanked her or praised her.
No one noticed a thing.
Like a leaf falling from a tree, she just let go.
There was no effort. There was no struggle.
It wasn’t good and it wasn’t bad.
It was what it was, and it is just that.
In the space of letting go, she let it all be.
A small smile came over her face.
A light breeze blew through her.
And the sun and the moon shone forevermore.

~Rev Safire Rose~

Let Go Today. See how it feels.

Oracle Reading 1-6-2021

Published January 6, 2021 by tindertender

New Beginnings: Love ~ Listen to your heart. Embrace what makes you happy. There are one million reasons to love ~ Today I will love. Before I talk I will listen. Before I criticize I will forgive. Before I judge I will think. I remember that after all of this is over, the only thing that will really count is how we treated each other and how much we have loved.

Personal Power and Strength: Gentleness ~ Strength is gentle. True kindness has wings. Love in action endures ~ Today I will let my kindness grow in me. I will be gentle with myself and give my soul the love it deserves. I will focus on everlasting love and let it gently flow into the world. I am alive, my gratitude knows no bounds, and my heart now overflows with love and kindness.

Manifestation and Flow: Mercy ~ Let compassion fill your world. Offer kindness to all living things. What you give you also receive ~ Today I will live in compassion, for myself and others. I will show kindness in word, thought, and deed. Right now, I will count my blessings. I will love myself, forgive myself, embrace my humanity and in doing so I will be able to do the same for others. For what I give I will receive and I will begin with me.

Your place in the World: Reconciliation ~ Remember the source of love. A loving action is all you need to begin the process. Reach out with a simple first step ~ Today I will pause and remember those I have left behind, my lost loves, and broken relationships. I will be brave and take a step toward healing the past. I will reach out with silent love but will expect nothing. For I know the most important mending needs to take place in my own heart. Looking back, I am filled with gratitude. For the good we had I am filled with joy. I will give myself all of the love that I ever needed. I will heal the past and I will be free.

The Spirit Within: Clarity ~ Banish the fog of illusion. Open your eyes to the truth. Remember the perfection of who you are ~ Today I will be myself in a world that is constantly trying to make me something else. I will remember my true self and honor him/her. I will walk away from all of the confusion, drop illusions, and remember this truth, I am a powerful being, I have a clear mind, and I am a miracle in this world.

Reading from the deck “Magical Times Empowerment Cards” created by Jody Bergsma

The Matter of Time

Published January 6, 2021 by tindertender

Dear family, this will be a short lecture on the importance of understanding the relativity of time in the path of awakening.

The first thing is to remember together that we can be impatient most of the time, we want instant gratification and shortcuts to get what we want in life experience.

But, here it is also good to remember that our origins arise from the Father’s radiation that is expressed in a vibration that is first crystalline, then we pass through the plant kingdom, then the animal kingdom, until we become human and then cosmic human, in which we begin the path of ascensions, through dimensions of light, dimension after dimension, until we achieve the maximum achievement of an ascending being. We leave the Father Mother Creator as sparks and return to Him as Suns! completing the eternal cycle of an exhalation and inhalation of the Creator.

From 5D everything IS instantaneous, but the transitions to our present reality have a variable called time, and it is fundamental to reconcile these realities in our mind and heart to understand that we are learning to co-create from 5D to this plane of existence, and the speed of materialization depends at the individual level on our ability to love unconditionally and generate the fiat of light to be able to stretch or cut that variable, and turn it into timelines that will be the real achievement of such co-creations.

And on a collective level it works the same way, a single integrated cosmic Mind, united in love, in which individuality is honored and respected and is invaluable because the sum of the parts constitutes a complete creation that exceeds the sum of them.

That is what we are doing in the now… we are learning to stretch and cut that variable to be effective co-creators, this is a school for Ascended Masters and the wisdom of the soul invites us to study/recall these humble teachings from the heart, validating them as always by the hand of our superior Being and our analytical and deductive intelligence that are tools that must work at the disposal of our Soul.

But, in order to achieve this, we need to take anxiety, fear and anguish out of the equation, which is an individual task of each being, because Fear destroys even the most beautiful creations that arise as a yearning, as a song of the soul.

And then once we overcome our fears on an individual level, we will be united, in harmony as ONE, as a Collective Consciousness and thus we can achieve miracles. Extraordinary and wonderful events that cannot be explained by the regular laws of nature, and that are attributed to the intervention of the Creator Himself. This is our real challenge and the real teaching of Yeshua: to become Miracle Makers!

We embrace them with the soul, and we leave this small light on the path with the only encouragement of allowing other understanding to those who vibrate with it. love you ALL.

Source: @MelkyofMercy

Reflections

Published January 6, 2021 by tindertender

Last night as I was contemplating “my world”, thinking of past relationships and their failures, I understood that I have embodied the false belief that my love, and my own self, were not worthy of being cherished.

I examined the many experiences in life with the unseen and I realized … they are simply confirming my own inner truth … showing me what resides inside me. This was a sharp recognition of my internal worthiness factor … the lessons have been difficult and I am surprised it took me so long to see what was in the mirror.

It must come to pass that I release this erroneous, perceived reality.

Forgive myself, forgive the failure … and see it as not a ‘failure’ but an experience which offered great love … and .. great heartbreak.

These experiences in no way determine my worthiness.

Thanks be for the persistence, hard knocks and lessons from the unseen … wherever they may be in these moments.

Perhaps I will now be able to release this perception and move more fully into self-love, self-appreciation, and self-acceptance.

Lord Melchizedek has written an article to assist in the understanding of the shifts we are experiencing in these times. His writing and viewpoints are intriguing, to say the least. If you are so inclined, have a look: https://eraoflight.com/2021/01/05/lord-melchizedek-2021-yours-to-create/

Grateful

Published January 5, 2021 by tindertender

As some of you may know, I have a very active astral and telepathic life. It has been an extreme challenge, for telepathy was not a natural state for me. Becoming accustomed to invisible people having judgements on behavior and lifestyle is unnerving and feels very invasive.

I spoke to someone thru DM today who gifted me with kindness, explaining to me certain things, and offered suggestions on how to reframe my thinking around specific experiences.

I am grateful.

My next challenge is to shift perspective, using techniques offered (visualization, affirmation, prayer, making requests).

What I truly loved about this communication was the respectful way the discussion was approached and maintained.

It helps me to bring a gentleness to current experience, rather than a hard-nosed rejection.

Kicking or Smiling

Published January 4, 2021 by tindertender

On some days I could just cry or I’d like to kick somebody in the …

But hey.

We are the Devine feminine, goddesses and warriors – so let’s cry one day, but let’s also get up on the next one and smile …