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Beautiful Day, Beautiful Life

Published October 3, 2019 by tindertender

A coworker said to me today, “You’re always so happy.” I smiled and replied, “It is a choice I make, every morning, and a continuous, conscious effort throughout the day.”

In no way am I saying this is easy, however it IS getting easier. In the rare occasions I come up against someone in authority (or anyone for that matter) having a bad moment, I have learned that I must take advantage of these moments, and teach myself to roll with it, and let it go.

Feelings … it is good to be soft, and it is good to be firm … be firm in your softness.

Isn’t it cool that we are everything, simultaneously? When you think of time collapsing, and visualize yourself as a young playful child, and an abused child, and a happy, seeing wonder in everything teen, to a loving adult who may later have trust betrayed, to a single woman (or man), finding their self and loving their self again as an older version of that loving, wonderment of a teen.

Pancake, feeling it all in a mixed up soup of a life … mind blowing, and cause for extreme gratefulness.

Strength comes from trials, and to know love prevails through it all is an awesome reality!

I have been abused, loved, and taken advantage of … and I have given these things to others as well. WE share ALL experiences … in one fashion, to a greater or lesser degree, even while denial may say it isn’t true.

When we finally see our self in each other ~ pain, love, compassion, and desire to be more joyful, or talented or whatever, sharing similar experiences, with varying responses ~ life becomes magical, a true, stunning experience.

I once stapled the end of my finger off. The doctor picked out the bone chips and sewed it back on, right through the nail. As it healed I would stare at it in amazement. It actually grew back together! I now retain most feeling in that fingertip also.

The mind, when it is completely scrambled by a traumatic event or events, and perhaps there is a thought that no thing will ever be learned again, and love will never come again because of the damage … when things start to progress, and skills are learned, a surprise happens, an understanding that the human mind, body, and spirit really can overcome very much, and still return to love and health.

Certainly, some of these understandings can take years to form, and the pain, fear, doubt, and many other emotions will appear to win the tug-of-war. Yet we are resilient … and by practicing patience, knowing Creator often does things in a time line that does not always seem fair, or appropriate (to us), always turns out to be just perfect.

Learning patience is one of the most difficult lessons. Controlling anxiety and frustrations while practicing patience nearly impossible … but it IS possible, and the more it is practiced, the easier it becomes.

Life is a dance, and we are our own partner. When we learn to dance and smile and laugh and experience joy through it all, gaining a clearer understanding through previous trials, then we can share the dance with others more heartedly, and be more grateful for it.

You Are Not Crazy

Published September 30, 2019 by tindertender

There is much suffering in this world. In the seen, and in the unseen. Incarnate spirits (humans) are made to go hungry, they are tormented in many ways. If their lives are cut short, especially through trauma, many remain and suffer still, reliving this trauma over and over again, going further insane.

Much of this tormented behavior we see in our fellow brothers and sisters is caused not only by their environment, but by other discarnate spirits seeking help. Often a medium, psychic personality will be a go-to for them, for their ‘antennae’ are wide open.

JS Godinhu writes much about this and techniques on how to help ourselves, and those seeking assistance from a discarnate position. I’ve learned of him only recently, have purchased a book on kindle, (using the translate option) and will put into practice these techniques.

If you find that you are somewhat anxious, have food fetishes, are experiencing pain in the body (stomach or otherwise), these could be experiences you are picking up from a discarnate spirit.

You have an opportunity to assist them in their healing, and in so doing, alleviating much suffering in this world. Of course, this is a choice for you. If you are a Medium, this is your gift should you choose to offer it for healing the traumatized … including, first and foremost, your own traumas, triggers, and defenses.

These connections will make you feel crazy, the Western Doctors will tell you you are crazy … however, this is the furthest thing from the truth.

Link: https://smile.amazon.com/s?k=JS+Godinho&ref=nb_sb_noss

The link may say there is nothing found by JS Godinho, push the search button with his name in the tool bar, it will show up as:

Also, this lady is a wonderful go-to for more information.

All For The Love Of It

Published September 4, 2019 by tindertender

Have you ever considered that having aced time and space again and again and again, you’re here this time simply for the love of the game?

Just to smell the dirt?

To lend a hand?

Give comfort?

And maybe for old times’ sake, to manifest a Carefully laid out agenda like it was a morning cup of coffee, even though you’re way past having to prove anything?

Remember?

I do,

The Universe

http://www.tut.com

Have You Ever Been ‘Broken’?

Published August 18, 2019 by tindertender

To all those who have ever been broken:

Have you ever wondered why God allowed that to happen to you if he’s such a loving God?

To that I present you another perspective:

Have you ever wondered why God trusted you with brokeness?

Sounds like those two words don’t belong in the same sentence but let me finish.

First of all , God would never put on someone, something they could not handle.

And second, Satan can’t do anything to anyone that God does not allow.

So if God has allowed any level of suffering/pain/brokenness in your life, and there’s not a single person who hasn’t had suffering, could it be that part of what you were annointed to do is to mend another broken heart because you know what brokenness looks like?

Think about it- anyone who’s experienced brokenness knows what it’s like to be broken and is sympathetic to others who are also broken. Anyone who’s experienced any level of brokenness now has a tender and more loving heart for others that are broken.

And if you’ve ever experienced any level of brokenness and by the grace of God are still standing here today alive and well then you now know three things:

1. You know exactly what you did and how you survived.

2. You know exactly what the very fabric you’re made of is worth.

3. You know God trusted you to be able to handle it.

Now because you are, or were once, broken and because of your newfound tender, loving and sympathetic heart you are able to notice someone else who’s broken and with 100% confidence be able to share the wisdom necessary to help mend their brokenness.

Could it be that the very thing the enemy had intended to break you with, that God allowed, was used in 7D holy chess by God to not only save you with but show you what you’re made of and anoint you to save others as well?

In the end, always and forever longer, God Wins.

I understand this now. Believe me when I tell you I have been broken.

Lost my mom, my best friend within 3 months when I was 17, later lost my wife and my son in divorce, then proceeded to lose basically every tangible asset I had. I had nothing.

And then I found @IncarnatedFruit and through her I found myself. And then together we found God

In order to truly understand the power of the kind of love God designed you to have and be, you must first suffer.

Embrace your pain for God will use that pain as part of the prize!

Ps. It’s worth all the pain and suffering, by the way.

Truly worth it.

I’ll add another note:

If you’re at rock bottom or falling and think your problems are insurmountable and it seems impossible to get out from underneath them – It only seems impossible because you’re trying to figure out how you can change it.

Think about what I just said.

Do you think (you) really know what’s best for you?

My genuine and honest advice from my own personal experience is that when you stop trying to do it (your) way and start asking Him what you should do and NOT ask why you’re doing it that life turns around.

But don’t worry. If you fail to realize it he will allow you to be reminded again.

And again.

Hence the suffering

Just my opinion.

Message mostly by:

… with bits of me included in.

Shifting Tides of Cooperation

Published August 8, 2019 by tindertender

… and so I dance.

In the old days it seemed no one would hire the youth in entry level positions … it seemed to me (at the time) they rather would hire a skilled professional, every time.

These days it seems no one wants to pay a fair wage for skilled professionals and would rather hire entry level needing training.

I’m sure this has to do with me being a youth in example one, and being a person with 30 years of knowledge in a specific industry thank n the other.

My employer is fair, perhaps more than fair even. I have no complaints at all. I’ve been blessed it seems with this particular role. Grateful … and observant.

Feeling, sensing and seeing the shifts …..

I believe soon, people will recognize trade is where it’s at … if only people would stop taking advantage of each other.

It is clear to me having had the experience, we ALL have our difficulties in this arena.

“You Can’t Handle The Truth!”

Published June 17, 2019 by tindertender

There are many varied truths held by people the world over. No two waves are alike, no two clouds. Why would it be any other way? And why would you choose not to celebrate it?

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.

— Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

http://humansarefree.com/2018/06/whether-we-can-handle-truth-or-not.html?m=0

People would become angry and violent and go on the rampage, once they find out they have been controlled and manipulated and used as slaves to the system for so long.

Once they find out about Agenda 21, the depopulation agenda. How we have been subjected to toxic poisons in our food by the use of GMOs, how we have been sprayed with toxic chemicals through geo-engineering and how fluoride has been added to our water and can cause dementia and how vaccinations are causing autism and have also been used as sterilization programmes amongst other things and how 5G can cause DNA damage, infertility and also impairs cardiovascular functions.

I’ve read recently that we are in the black hole which belongs to a greater universe.

(Star’s death dive into black hole mapped by NASA satellite)

What if there were opposing forces here that we probably would not want in that original space and … what if … those who are in the black hole are here because they were battling each other? They were in battle and wound up too close and got sucked in.

Millennia go by, birth and death cycles occur, species mix, and all are trapped, so to speak, for the draw holds them here. What do you suppose would happen if the ‘draw’ were reversed momentarily, spewing back into the universe from whence it came all that it held? When the reversal happens, who will be waiting to fight those who were fighting at the time their ‘people’ became trapped in the black hole?

Think about how the good and bad in people are becoming obvious, how this planet is being destroyed as humanity sleeps.

It’s all coming to a head soon.

Happy Fathers Day

Published June 17, 2019 by tindertender

As I looked at my friend he described his love for a particular song and tears came to his eyes. I silently thought, oh my friend … it is really something when you see a man who was never privy to showing emotion be so openly connected and affected by a song … or any number of others small things such as that. I am quite grateful to be present through these life changes with my oldest known friend. It is a real privilege, and I am glad I never “burned that bridge”.

I came home and sat in my chair focusing on those in the Aether, those who live but are not seen, by most. I asked them if any of them had ever been Father’s, and I wished them a happy Father’s Day, explaining that the humans have decided to put away one day in particular to celebrate the fathers of this world, and that means ALL fathers, not just those we can see right now.

I have enjoyed my time here in this world. I have created many pleasant, and also many non-pleasant scenarios. I now work on making these creations of future more positive since I can see from personal history what both look like and what both entail.

I came across a book which I honestly have not read yet, I just found it this morning. It looks to be something which will be of great benefit in the process of altering current realities. If inclined, pleas check it out. Perhaps you may find value in it.

https://s3.amazonaws.com/academia.edu.documents/47050556/Kathara_Level_1_Manual-Op.pdf?response-content-disposition=attachment%3B%20filename%3DKathara_Level_1_Manual-Op.pdf.pdf&X-Amz-Algorithm=AWS4-HMAC-SHA256&X-Amz-Credential=AKIAIWOWYYGZ2Y53UL3A%2F20190617%2Fus-east-1%2Fs3%2Faws4_request&X-Amz-Date=20190617T130634Z&X-Amz-Expires=3600&X-Amz-SignedHeaders=host&X-Amz-Signature=64b50190f065da877f1129b386aa68661d40ce24bb3402b7b887a6d29e1ac094

Life has shown the intricacies of relationship are boundless. Often, these relationships are the result of our efforts to bring harmony. If there is any form of chaos, perhaps our method of interaction and cooperation are not quite up to par. Or perhaps we have not put the needed work in for a situation to be harmonious … or maybe the methods that we are working with do not allow space for alteration and flow that is needed in order to embrace all aspects of our community, our self, and our future reality we are working to build.

I have found that even though some people and some events have brought great suffering to my world, they have also allowed opportunity for great love, and an even greater understanding of what it means to allow freedom in our friends and their choices, simply being with that, not judging … that beautiful mess that is sometimes created that we often call unity.

Yes, working with many personalities and preferences can be a challenge, but when everyone is on, or at least ‘around’ the right frequency, it all flows, and it is all beautiful. Individuals working together in the best manner possible to bring harmony to the whole.

I love you, friends, for being the mirror I need to make sense of this world. Thank you for letting me learn from your example, and for allowing me to take part in your life. It is indeed the greatest gift in this world, and I am grateful.

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