I didn’t think this song could get any better, but it just did.
Freedom
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Affirmation 8-12-2020
Published August 12, 2020 by tindertenderToday is a day to focus on removing obstacles. Some days it feels like doors shut, roadblocks go up, stairs become steeper. Obstacles can teach me things, I know. But sometimes enough is enough and it is time to clear them out. Today I remove any obstacles of thought or action that are keeping me from reaching my goals. These obstacles will diminish and my way will be made clear.
~ A Daily Book of Pagan Prayer by Megan Day
A Post Many Women Can Relate To
Published July 22, 2020 by tindertenderWritten by Maria Palumbo
https://www.facebook.com/maria.palumbo.loves
https://mariapalumbo.com/
You know what life is right now?
It is hating my ass A LOT. It is thinking HOW CAN I HAVE AN ASS LIKE THIS, WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME.
HOW AM I EVEN A HUMAN WOMAN PERSON THING.
And then about a day later, I am LOVING my ass. Like really really digging the shape, and the jiggle, and the softness, and how I can flex it. I want certain people to do things to it. Sending pictures celebrating it to my women on fire, of course.
I am taking advantage of this happy ass moment because I know, inevitably, I am going to hate it at again at some point. I am going to wake up in the morning and curse the gods of asses and the creative demons behind perfectly curated instagram photos with arched backs and waxed ass cheeks that look like the virgin ass cheeks of a baby deer.
I am going to demand that I AM GIVEN ANOTHER ASS OR ELSE.
How I feel about my ass is essentially, how I feel about my life.
Reality looks like:
Feeling decent, good even. Like hey, I am not doing too bad. Then a day or so later….
DEAR CHRIST WHAT IS THIS THING WE CALL LIFE.
WHAT AM I EVEN DOING.
My work now isn’t so much the doing or changing or growing or being better, but letting myself be loved and not looking for the ways so much in which I don’t feel loved.
For I am being loved. Deeply. Every day.
Love reminds me to get an Xray on my back, even when I don’t want to go.
Love is putting my heart, needs, feelings, first, even if it’s not convenient, or easy. If it hurts. Or is scary. Or is annoying.
Love is so blissed out to be with me, it is as if I never have a bad ass day. Ever.
Love is playing board games with me, getting mad at me, giving me the best org*sms of my life.
Love goes pretty easy on me and most importantly:
Love tells me my ass looks great.
Because it does.
In woman on fire we have good ass days and bad ass days, and we celebrate them all. No more avoiding or numbing out or wallowing alone.
We do that shit IN THE LIGHT OF DAY: together! Where we can finally laugh at ourselves and cry and hold each other from miles away.
We get reprieve for a moment from the addiction to self-flatulence and aggrandizement that can play in our heads.
PM me to claim one of our last few spots for this round of woman on fiyah.
Because hey, you have a great ass.
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You Too?
Published July 16, 2020 by tindertenderMe in the physical, and in spirit.
And they said …. “Here kitty kitty” ….. not realizing what they started.
Dismantling The Illusion
Published July 14, 2020 by tindertenderWritten by:
https://twitter.com/SanandaEmanuel
The illusion is very easy to innerstand when one let go of how things SHOULD be and start embodying what actually are. Everyone is a POWERFUL CREATOR BEING.
You create with your Focus, Fantasy, Belief, WILL and action. But really everything is about FOCUS – What you focus on will manifest.
SO when you focus on everything you don’t want, woala. There you go, wonderful creation and you get to experience just that. The illusions are to keep everyone focusing on what they don’t want and feel very low, sad, anxious, stressed and all that. To break free is to really take back ones power of ones focus and at the same time OPEN ONES MIND = THIRD EYE.
It’s that easy as your mind keeps your beliefs and even when you focus on what you want, you’re beliefs are still a part of you and that means also what you manifest.
So open your mind completely and then focus on the absolute BEST CASE, MOST OPTIMAL DREAM SCENARIO. Also, trying to control how this manifests for you will block it all from happening so let go of that, of everything while continue to focus on the most profound dream of creation.
Also, your FAITH in it is SO POWERFUL. You HAVE TO TRUST YOURSELF – TRUST GOD – THAT THIS WILL MANIFEST. This way you are able to let go of everything and then use your heart as a GOLDEN COMPASS, to really calibrate one now moment at a time.
Still, there is also your souls evolution so you will get tested by being put in situations that you feel “bad”.
When this happens, you know that you have two options – one is to change your perspective of that situation so you love that one too – really feeling it deep inside of you. Or you could choose to learn that lesson another time as you’re not yet powerful enough to face that.
Both are perfect – follow your heart!! Your mind will play tricks on you, your gut will play tricks on you so always go FROM HEART TO GUT AND MIND, not the other way around.
For this dream to come true one really has to learn how to love it all but each soul aspect have very different journeys there so one can not tell you what is true for you in your saga where you are staring the leading role. IT IS YOUR MOVIE AFTER ALL. So trust yourself.
Trust God AND MANIFEST ONE NOW MOMENT AT A TIME. It is this easy, yet it’s very hard as we have the human ego aspect that wants to interfere. This is bypassed by letting go of ALL JUDGEMENT and just trust your path. IT IS THIS EASY. Dance with creation.
I LOVE YOU EVERYONE!
Paranoia … It’ll Destroy Ya
Published July 13, 2020 by tindertenderI had mentioned to an acquaintance that there seems to be less paranoia in smaller towns than in the city, which is why I travel for music and dance these days.
He stated he feels there is less intelligence in a small town, rather than less paranoia.
I told him that a difference of opinion is great.
He said, “Not when it comes to science.”
Okay, Fauci lover.
Eat the lies.
Lock yourself in your house.
I’ll continue to dance, and will do so until I die.
While many cower in their homes in fear (or, as they put it, common sense) I will assist the others in keeping freedom alive.
Be Yourself
Published July 6, 2020 by tindertender
Daily Affirmation 7-2-2020
Published July 2, 2020 by tindertenderMorning: Today is a day to focus on cleaning. Cleaning out the things I don’t need. I will clean out and get rid of the negative feelings, regrets, grievances, grudges, and unhappy memories that clutter up my life. I no longer have room for these. I release them all, and I will spend the day with only good things, ideas, and thoughts that support me, in my heart and mind.
Evening: I know that I did my best today to focus on cleaning out what I don’t need. Tonight I will rest knowing that my heart and mind have released the debris of my old life, and made room for the new.
From: A Daily Book of Pagan Prayer by Megan Day
Slavery
Published July 1, 2020 by tindertender
Cover your face … you’ll be saving lives!
The assumption is that every person is sick and must spare the world their disease.
Catering to fear is un-“becoming”.
It stifles free expression.
It limits forward momentum in creation.
It’s a stop sign for your face.
So called leaders are showing their truest selves … as wanna be slave masters.
And many, many people are completely okay with this.
Believing subtraction of flowing freedoms a benefit to their well-being.
The issue here is not a virus.
It is fear … fear of living … and fear of dying.
Fear will put the entire planet in lock-down if this continues …
This is why Earth is called a “Prison Planet”.
This Is My House
Published June 29, 2020 by tindertender3 weeks ago I found this house online.
I said “this is my house”.
I called the seller and was told it was a cash only offer and that “I’m sure that takes you off the table”.
Don’t you ever underestimate a hard working black man. I saw the house last week and when I walked in I knew I was home.
The house was built in 1820 for the Russell family who owned the cotton mill in town. Slavery was still legal. When the agent asked me why I wanted such a large house I said it was “a generational move”.
I know this house is bigger than me. I wish I could’ve told my ancestors when they were breaking their back in 1820 to build this house that 200 years later a free gay black man was going to own it and fill it with love and find a way to say their name even when 200 years later they still thought I would be “off the table”.
We are building our own tables.
I’ve never been prouder to be a black man.
Come to my White House any time. I can’t wait to have you! Glory to God in the highest.
I’m a homeowner.
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