All posts in the Spirit category


Published January 12, 2023 by tindertender

(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

(2) Stop begging.

(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.

(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.

(5) Don’t eat other people’s food more than they eat yours.

(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don’t reciprocate it.

(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.

(😎 Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.

(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.

(12) Respect your time.

(13) Don’t stay in a relationship where you don’t feel respected and valued. Walk away.

(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That’s how people will learn to spend on you.

(15) Be scarce sometimes.

(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.

(17) Don’t go where you are not invited. And when invited don’t overstay your welcome.

(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.

(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.

(20) Be good at what you do.

~ Author Unknown

Message from White Eagle, Hopi Indigenous from 2020

Published January 8, 2023 by tindertender


This moment humanity is going through can now be seen as a portal and a hole.

The decision to fall into the hole or go through the portal is yours.

If you repent from the problem and consume the news 24/7, with low energy, nervous all the time, with pessimism, you will fall into the hole.

But if you take the opportunity to look at yourself, rethink life and death, take care of yourself and others, you’ll get through the portal.

Take care of your homes, take care of your body.
Connect to your spiritual House.

When you take care of yourself, you take care of everything else.

Don’t lose the spiritual dimension of this crisis; have the eagle’s view above and see the whole; see wider.

There is a social demand in this crisis, but there is also a spiritual demand – both go hand in hand. Without the social dimension, we fall into fanaticism.

But without the spiritual dimension, we fall into pessimism and meaninglessness.

Were you prepared to go through this crisis. Grab your toolbox and use all the tools at your disposal.
Discover the resistance of indigenous and African peoples; we have always been, and continue to be, exterminated.

But we still haven’t stopped singing, dancing, lighting a fire and having fun.

Don’t feel guilty for being happy during this difficult time.

Being sad and down doesn’t help at all.

You help if good things are coming out of the Universe now.

It is joy that we resist.

Also, when the storm passes, each of you will be very important in rebuilding this new world.

You must be healthy and strong

And for that, there is no other way than to maintain a beautiful, happy, bright vibration.

This has nothing to do with alienation.

It’s a strategy of the resistance.

In shamanism, there is a rite of passage called the quest of vision.

You spend a few days alone in the forest, no water, no food, no protection.

When you walk through that portal, you get a new view of the world, because you faced your fears, your difficulties.

This is what you are being asked:
Allow yourself to use this time to perform your vision search rituals.

What world do you want to build for yourself?

For now, this is what you can do: serenity in the storm.

Keep calm and pray every day. Establish a routine to meet the sacred every day.

Good things flow; what you manifest now is what matters most.

And sing, dance, resist through art, joy, faith and love.

~ White Eagle


Prayer to Break Cycles

Published December 29, 2022 by tindertender

I now close the unfinished stories, unresolved situations, and poorly digested past experiences.

I put an end, a enough, a much needed limit on what no longer makes sense in my life.

I agree to complete this phase of my life freeing myself from everything that tied me to the old and the outdated.

May my past experiences not bring me the weight of pain, but wisdom to guide my steps.

May I never remain in what constrains, suffocates or limits me.

May I know how to let go of everything that is unproductive, that I be open to the new!

I allow myself to flow with life, changes and transformations.

I put an end to all the pain that I had not overcome, all the emotional disappointments that I have suffered, all the scarcity that I have experienced, all the physical and emotional woes, and all the woes that have bound me in the past.

In the name of my Holy Presence I Am, I decree that all knots, all misunderstandings and all discrepancies be broken now.

I now break all old, unpleasant and challenging cycles.

I am aware that I have served my purpose for these cycles, and that they have served their purpose for me as well.

I move on with learning and maturing ready for the new cycle that begins.

I accept endings and open myself to the blessings of new beginnings, to all the love, to all the health, to all the abundance and prosperity that await me.


I Live in Heaven on Earth

Published December 29, 2022 by tindertender

I am not merely speaking of the geography of where I live, though it is smashingly beautiful
I live in Heaven on Earth because that is what my heart wants and has always wanted, and that is where it has always been.

It’s not that I don’t see the shadows or haven’t played in them, I see them, I use them to reflect and refract to assist my channel of light in becoming even more radiant.

I designed it that way.

I live in Heaven on Earth, every moment of every day.

Every smiling face that looks back at me contains it.
Every blade of grass, every sparkle on every leaf on every tree, the animals, the humans, all of nature, the rocks, the ocean, the mountains – all of consciousness contains Heaven on Earth.

I didn’t always know that I lived in Heaven on Earth, sometimes I forgot how to focus as I walked through my own tunnels of darkness.

But the Light, it was always there, the Light at the end of the tunnel, beckoning me, reminding me.

I live in Heaven on Earth and it really is not a place, it is a state of being and I love knowing that.

The Seraphim live closest to God, they love to look into God’s face, into the radiant effulgent light.
I imagine myself as one of the Seraphim and I cannot take my eyes off of God.

Him her me she you they us.

We are Heaven on Earth, not because we deserve it, though we do, but because we choose it.

I choose to see it, live in it, grow it, light it up.
I choose Heaven on Earth

As we turn this corner, the end of a year, the end of a cycle, Heaven on Earth is there too, around the corner but also here now.

We are just moving deeper and deeper into her splendor.

The sun the moon the stars the planets the galaxies the universe the multiverse the Om-niverse.
ALL here now in my Heaven on Earth.

And I am grateful as tears pour down my face speaking to the Joy that is bursting from my Heart.

Thank you each and everyone for helping me to choose again, to remember, to know that I can
Live in Heaven on Earth.

Image: Heaven’s Bridge from paintwithdiamonds.com. Not entirely sure of the artist.

Who’s That Lady?!

Published December 29, 2022 by tindertender


If you describe something or someone as formidable, you mean that you feel slightly frightened by them because they are “very great, or impressive”.

There’s talk going around about a worthy opponent. Wonder who she is? 😊

Who’s that lady? (Who’s that lady?)
Beautiful lady, lady, yeah (who’s that lady?)
Lovely lady (who’s that lady?)
Real fine lady (who’s that lady?)

Hear me callin’ out to you
‘Cause that’s all that I can do
Your eyes tell me to pursue
But you say, “Look, yeah, but don’t touch, baby”
No, no, no, don’t touch

Who’s that lady? (Who’s that lady?)
Sexy lady, oh (who’s that lady?)
Beautiful lady (who’s that lady?)
Real fine lady (who’s that lady?)

I would dance upon a string
Any gifts she’d wanna bring
I would give her anything
If she would just do what I say
Come around my way, baby
Shine my way

Who’s that lady? (Who’s that lady?)
Beautiful lady, lady, lady (who’s that lady?)
Lovely lady (who’s that lady?)
Real, real fine lady (who’s that lady?)

I would love to take her home
But her heart is made of stone
Gotta keep on keepin’ on
If I don’t, she’ll do me wrong
She’ll do me wrong, yeah

Source: LyricFind

Songwriters: O’Kelly Isley / Ronald Isley / Rudolph Isley

That Lady, Parts 1 & 2 lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC

Massacre of Innocence

Published December 29, 2022 by tindertender

Abortion isn’t about a woman’s right to choose.
It’s about stopping fresh challengers coming in to thwart the satanic dominance of this realm.

Minds are so twisted with manipulation and programming they cannot see it.

In the Bible it is said some king killed off all the babies because he was afraid of the challenger arising.

Same shit, different day.

And The Great Mother Said …

Published December 27, 2022 by tindertender

Come my child and give me all that you are.

I am not afraid of your strength and darkness,
of your fear and pain.

Give me your tears.

They will be my rushing rivers and roaring oceans.
Give me your rage.

It will erupt into my molten volcanoes and rolling thunder.

Give me your tired spirit. I will lay it to rest in my soft meadows. Give me your hopes and dreams.

I will plant a field of sunflowers and arch rainbows in the sky.

You are not too much for me.

My arms and heart welcome your true fullness.

There is room in my world for all of you, all that you are.

I will cradle you in the boughs of my ancient redwoods and the valleys of my gentle rolling hills.

My soft winds will sing you lullabies and soothe your burdened heart.

Release your deep pain.

You are not alone and you have never been alone.

~ Linda Reuther, “Homecoming”

Art by Lucy Campbell
SHE On The Tip Of Her Tongue


Send, Receive, Move On

Published December 26, 2022 by tindertender

Seek what feels true, even beyond the logical. If something doesn’t feel right, challenge it and dig deeper. Educate and inform yourself on matters of importance to you. Trust that your mind is strong and bright enough to do this. Enhance your self-esteem by searching for information and trusting your intuition to help you discern what is useful and true. Have faith in your mental abilities. If others have criticized you or made you feel inadequate in understanding, cast that off as belonging to the past and not relevant to you now. You will become immune to manipulation by others who may be convincing but not necessarily accurate or helpful. Trust the power of your mind to receive and recognize the answers you need. You will find your way. There is always new knowledge beyond existing boundaries of thought.

Though you yearn for peace, you recognize that, without truth, genuine peace can never be. Even if it triggers an upheaval of transformation, the need to set things right is strong with you. This is the inner drive of the Spiritual Warrior. Trust, see and feel the positive impact that you are making in the world. You are relentless, and the Divine is within you.

Make peace and let go of past issues around being abandoned or not understood or of feeling unsupported, as those experiences need no longer color your worldview. Trust that you belong here and that your connection to the Earth Goddess will support you in all ways. You are sensitive, and rightly so. Never judge your sensitivity or feel that you are overreacting. But, also allow nature to calm and soothe you, so that you can focus on accomplishing your soul mission. If you feel that you are on your own when you would like some help, allow the Divine Mother to be your friend and guide, whilst trusting that more allies will arrive at the right moment. The Earth Mother has her own sense of timing, and you are not forgotten. You are just growing according to her wisdom and grace. Have faith in yourself, and in her.

~ Alana Fairchild

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