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Energy Perceived

Published January 10, 2025 by tindertender

“You have to be odd to be number one.”
~ Dr. Seuss

The price of gratitude is only a moment of your time.

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I wish people had chosen to be kinder. I really do. I am grateful karmic delivery isn’t my department. Extremely grateful I got the easy job. I wish people had been kinder to the Most Highs family. 💯😢

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Some people intentionally cause suffering for others. I see nothing wrong with rejecting those gifts and forcing them to carry their own shit. By simply removing self from the equation. No need send anything back, for the “gift” was refused, the option not to receive it enacted.

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Narcissism isnt specifically about characteristic traits. Narcissism is a Spirit. This Spirit has the same characteristics, no matter which body it is attached to.

The spirit/soul of a “narcissist” is bound by that Spirit. They are puppets, who must behave in a particular way, exhibiting certain traits that will cause specific agitations, anger, or chaotic situations. It’s their purpose, to dominate a situation and bring chaos to it. They like to think of it as control. Perhaps in a way it is, controlled chaos.

When we separate ourselves from folks who have this Spirit attachment, they will get angry, defensive, insisting they are a benefit in your life. Some may threaten you for leaving. Some will certainly shoot mental knives at you, and throwing toxic, dark energy into your solar plexus.

Step back.

The “person” is gone, a shell remains, a “person”-ality puppeted by darker energies. You can literally feel it when it’s present, especially if you’ve been in Spiritual warfare with it for any length of time.

Release the guilt of severing attachment to such forces.

You don’t have to play their games.

You don’t have to accept being dominated, rewritten, controlled.

Claim your Sovereignty.

Release the “puppet-master”.

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You’re busy living life & thoughts, upsetting, keep poking the mind about someone, that’s you picking up on them having an issue with you.

Thought energy perceived.

You’ve forgiven, let it go, moved on. Yet these Smokey tendrils keep reaching for you, trying to pull you back.

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I didn’t only come here to be student. I came here to BE. Sometimes that means student, sometimes that means teacher, sometimes that means friend and sometimes that means foe…. Yet through it all, if we truly wish to flow, we will, and more than likely, see each other again … BEing our own unique way.

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It is said that something like 85% want to be led; 10% wish to lead; and the remaining 5% are usually killed because they try to wake up the 85%.

The 85% will never create solutions to anything except maybe calling someone to “fix it”, and doing as told, or arguing they’re not doing a good enough job.

Or maybe they want to but aren’t able to for some reason … I don’t mean to be harsh.

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Voyeurs … preaching about ethics. That’s funny. Hilarious even.

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‘Those who are not content with what they have will not be content with what they want’ – Socrates

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I am burning.
If anyone lacks tinder,
let him set his rubbish ablaze with my fire.
—-Rumi

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Know the mirror of the heart is infinite.
Either the understanding falls silent,
or it leads you astray,
because the heart is with God,
or indeed the heart is He.
—–Rumi

Strength and Safety

Published January 8, 2025 by tindertender

Most folks present their powerhouse to the world. The more intimidating they can be the better. Scary. Reputation. Gain.

Other folks present their inner child, or the vulnerability of their inner child. Heart open, Light bright, seemingly nothing to be concerned about, weak.

When this vulnerability is attacked, it presents the Strength in Self, whatever is considered to be that strength, opportunity to respond to the measure moving against it, expanding, discovering.

What happens to the strongman who hid the inner vulnerability behind the reputation, when the reputation fails?

Who will stand for them in that time?

AI?

Living in Vulnerability

Published January 8, 2025 by tindertender

It is a very tough path, for there are many who spy it and enjoy crushing the vulnerability they see.

Great strength and resilience is manifested in this state. Overcoming the hurt of betrayal and outright cruelty.

It is a mental, emotional and energetic feat.

Open Heart.

Remaining loving, knowing that in your presence are those who make it their mission to destroy the innocence and pure intention in you, feelings of childlike wonder and joy.

Hurting.

Heart Open.

An apparent reckless willingness, to shoulder the pain, speaking openly.

Standing in the midst of ferocious, growling, hungry (needless?) eaters …

Heart Open.

Letting others see the truth of Love’s intent, its willingness to never shut down, to keep itself from the world, even while being buried into the ground.

Heart Open.

Courage … labeled as self-sabotage. Gathering wisdom and strength every time a hurdle is hopped and a few meters gained.

Heart Open.

Loving the Divine within the Temple housing the Soul.

Heart Open.

Learning as much as you can, about as much as you can … pertaining to Self, and the All that surrounds.

Heart Open.

Expanded.

In balance.

Aware.

Good morning, Friends

Published January 8, 2025 by tindertender

They tried to pretransition me again last night. I do hope my new family tree were pleased with the very intentional way I met the challenge.

As I was getting coffee this morning, I was inspired to place both hands on chest and sing the Cherokee Moring Song. 7 rounds you go …

As I finished, one of my adversaries said, “Audacity!” and I smiled.

We survived the true christmas day.

Life is good, and I am happy.

The Five DON’Ts During Mars Retrograde

Published January 6, 2025 by tindertender

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/mars-is-retrograde-be-car_b_4865786

It’s time to pay attention to your “actions” because Mars is retrograde until February 2025.

(It seems some folks decided to ‘go forth’ anyway. Interesting visitations and events lately.)

During Mars Retrograde ~

1. Don’t Argue, Fight or Start a War – Mars rules War. During Mars retrograde it’s a bad time to initiate a fight or dispute, because the aggressor usually backs off or loses. It’s a horrible time to start a war or begin a military action against another country because there isn’t a strong will or desire to complete the action. The invading country is likely to be the loser.

2. Don’t Have a Surgery – Mars rules surgery and is associated with surgeons. It also rules anything made of iron, including “cutting things.” If possible, avoid surgical procedures. Mars is a physical planet and during the retrograde, injuries and accidents related to carelessness (e.g. cutting) can occur more frequently. For that reason it’s considered a poor time for elective surgery. It’s not even a good time to find a new barber, hairstylist or any professional who works with a knife or scissors.

3. Don’t Start New Activities – If you do begin a new enterprise during Mars retrograde, your efforts to produce results will meet with greater frustration than usual. Projects are likely to stall or not develop as expected. You’ll find your energy level is lower than normal, making it harder to produce the success you had intended. If you’ve already started something, slow down and reassess your plans, adjust expectations and work through obstacles that are getting in the way of results.

It’s not a favorable time to start a new business with co-workers and partners. You’ll find that people will be unusually argumentative, and easily irritated when projects or activities do not run smoothly. Often the discord is so great, that even people, who normally get a long well, become angry and disruptive. The results are often poor decision-making based out of frustration, instead of patience and open dialogue.

4. Don’t Begin a Law Suit or Divorce – A lawsuit or divorce can be a fierce battle. Since Mars rules wars and battles, it’s not a good time for initiating a legal action. A lawsuit that’s initiated has no punch, with a high likelihood that the plaintiff will back off or end up the loser. If you’re trying to mediate a dispute, you’re likely to find yourself in heavy disagreement and not able to find common ground with the opposing party. When you present your side of the argument, there’s a lack of energy and passion in what you say that doesn’t compel the mediator to your point of view. To obtain better results in a lawsuit or mediation, wait until Mars goes direct on May 20th. (Note: Often during this retrograde you’ll hear about many high-profiled, celebrity separations and acrimonious divorces.)

5. Don’t Buy Mechanical Things – Mars rules anything made of iron such as engines and cutting tools. This is not a reliable time to purchase an automobile or any mechanical equipment. Just in the same way that Mercury retrograde can play havoc with the operation of cars and other machinery, you’ll find that computers and other equipment break down break more during Mars retrograde. In fact, if you have any mechanical equipment in need of repair, use this period to get it done quickly.

Use the Mars retrograde period, to slow down and reassess what you want and desire – before you take further action.

Memories Over Time, the 5th Day of January

Published January 5, 2025 by tindertender

“… why did you not become you, the fully active, realized person that only you had the potential of becoming?”

“We are reminded that illusion is child’s play and to follow illusion, naïveté.”
~ Leo Buscaglia

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“Our main challenge is to uncover, develop and hold on to our unique selves.” ~ Leo Buscaglia

“If we are not becoming all that we are, it is we who are not changing, and why we, therefore, must suffer our own non-being.”
~ Leo Buscaglia

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“We are all much less than what we can be.”
-Leo Buscaglia

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“I realize today that nothing in the world is more distasteful to a man than to take the path that leads to himself.”
~ Herman Hesse Demian

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If you don’t have trust, you don’t have anything worthwhile.

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No one can grow for us; we must each grow for ourselves.

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There he goes. One of God’s own prototypes. A high-powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die.

⸺ Hunter S. Thompson

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Those who want to love so badly, but the bodies of those we love have become hosts for brutalizers. It’s a dilemma …

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Enter My House With Respect

Published January 4, 2025 by tindertender

Not to say the one within you IS you …

Translation of the text written at the Entrance to the Temple of the Egyptian Goddess Sekhmet, Karnak Temple

I only ask you to enter my house with respect. To serve you I do not need your devotion, but your sincerity. Neither your beliefs, but your thirst for knowledge. Enter with your vices, your fears and your hatreds from the greatest to the smaller ones, I can help you dissolve them.

You can look at me and love me as a female, as a mother, as a daughter, as a sister, as a friend, but never look at me as an authority above yourself. If the devotion you have for any god, It is greater than the one you have for the God that is within you, you offend them both and you offend the one👌

What if I said Yes? What if I said No?

Published December 28, 2024 by tindertender

“Who art thou, and for what reason art thou here, O mortal?” the Angel asked.

For some people it’s not about love, it’s about need.

“If you want to change your personal reality, you’ve got to change your personality.”
~ Dr. Joe Dispenza

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What if I said yes to the moon?
What if I let my calendar mind fall quiet and forget
Let that incessant load of lists get parked
Over there,
by the side of the road
That I used to follow
when I thought I knew who I was
when I thought I knew what I was
~ Clare Dubois, Founder of TreeSisters

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God disguised as a myriad things and playing a game of tag has kissed you and said, “You’re it – I mean, you’re really IT!” Now it does not matter what you believe or feel for something wonderful, Major-League Wonderful is some day going to happen.
~ Hafiz

Awareness … it’s a beautiful thing.

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Courageous is the soul who adventures into time and space to learn of their divinity. For while they cannot lose, they can think they have, and the loss will seem intolerable. And while they cannot fail, they can think they have, and the pain will seem unbearable. And while they cannot ever be less than they truly are – powerful, eternal, and loved – they can think they are, and all hope will seem lost.

And therein lies their test. A test of perceptions: of what to focus on, of what to believe in, in spite of appearances.

YOU are divine.

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God changes caterpillars into butterflies, sand into pearls, and coal into diamonds using time and pressure. He’s working on you too.

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One cannot be to everyone what each one wishes.

Be Grateful, Not Sorry

Published December 21, 2024 by tindertender

A year ago today, I heard myself pray, “I’m sorry I’m so stubborn. It was necessary in order to survive.” Right away the thought, “Why are you apologizing for it then?”

So I share with you.

If you did the very best you could in order to pull through the chaos, without hurting anyone intentionally, don’t apologize for making it. Recognize the resilience of your Soul and Spirit. Be grateful for what resides in you.

Stop saying sorry.

Say thank you, instead.