All posts tagged Lesson

Grasping At, Or Flowing With?

Published February 27, 2022 by tindertender

People in general think if they are not grasping, reaching for, or forcing into existence something in their life, it won’t happen.

Flowing with life is key.

There was a time I grasped at life. I’d gain a little, (in relationship or material item) trying to hold onto it, but like always, it would be taken from me … people would leave, items would be stolen, or ruined by another …

Heartbreak would shatter my soul when love would leave.

My trust and faith in humanity would shrivel every time someone would steal from me, or destroy something I loved, or needed (like a vehicle).

But then I made friends with my exes, and I determined love was still there.

I also chose to believe that an other simply needed what I had more than I, obviously they were in a more desperate place where they believed that stealing would answer their needs. Others would intentionally destroy something close to my heart, just to try and cause suffering in me, and it worked.

I learned to release what flowed away from me, rather than chase it, or get emotionally bent over it.

If it flows, it will be held in the hand, in the personal experience, for a time … then it will flow out again, being filled once more with the next set of experience.

Like a cupped hand held under running water from a tap of sorts, the water fills the cupped hands, and then flows out, but the flow keeps coming, filling the hands.

It’s the tightening up, the clenching of, the must have it mentality, that shuts the flow off, and lack is experienced.

The lesson is …. Flow and Release, hold gently that which is with you for a time.

Let it go when it shifts.

Abundance will come if we relax into it.

Abundance may appear to be nothing, it could be love, or peace, or comfort, or delightful nourishment. It doesn’t need to be so big everyone in the vicinity notices it.

Abundance resides in the heart.

I’m now in a situation where I need to consciously and purposefully release items that have collected over the years. My flow permitted abundance to grow.

Now it is time to release, so the NEW can flow into my open cup.

This releasing business, if it is not done willingly, will be forced, for the Divine wishes for us to be in Flow. It is the only way to BE in the collective, and until Flow and Release is learned, there will still be the lessons to teach it, to add to the experience of it.

Graduation from the lesson does not happen until the lesson is learned.

Then the next lesson can begin.

Some folks are real badasses who decided to take on multiple lessons at once, and probably feel like the whole world is caving in on them at times … but that’s because they are so capable they chose the most challenging experience, to get the most out of this life.

If you are one of these, You Got This … and deep down, you know it.

Oracle Reading 10-14-2020

Published October 14, 2020 by tindertender

See the truth ~ Do not be deceived. Be watchful and mindful of the illusions others weave around themselves, and that you may weave around yourself. Know the night. Understand the shadows. See through the darkness to the light of truth. Pay attention to contradictions. Notice when actions and words are not in harmony. Hone your intuition and insight so that you may know the minds and hearts of those around you – and yourself – and trust in the wisdom born of that awareness.

Have courage ~ There are times when you feel small, afraid and alone in the world, but you are not alone. You are watched over and cherished by Gaia and Great Spirit. Know that you have within you the strength to overcome all obstacles placed in your path no matter how daunting or large they may seem. Have courage. Now is the time to trust in yourself and have confidence that you will overcome all.

Seek the lesson ~ Wisdom is born from seeking the lesson in all experiences, both the good and bad. It is born from awareness that everything is connected, and that all happens for a reason … even when the reason remains a mystery. Embrace a new idea, new awareness, or the new knowledge that comes from listening to your internal voice, and to the human and non-human teachers and messengers who will come in, and out, of your life. Let them inspire you to explore unknown pathways.

Reading from “Messenger Oracle” created by Ravynne Phelan

Burnt Toast

Published October 5, 2020 by tindertender

One evening my mother made dinner after a hard day’s work. She put a plate of eggs, salad and burnt toast in front of my father…

I immediately noticed, the burnt toast…. And, I was waiting to see if he was going to complain about it, but my father started to eat them, smiling and asked me how I spent my day at school…

My mom apologized to my dad for the burnt toast. I will never forget his response to her: “Honey, I love burnt toast!”

Later when I went to bed and my dad came over to kiss me goodnight, I asked him if he really liked the burnt toast?

He hugged me and said, “Your mother has had a difficult day and she is really tired. She went out of her way to prepare this meal for us, why blame her and hurt her. Burnt toast never hurt anyone; but words can be very painful!”

We have to know how to appreciate what others do for us, even if it’s not perfect, because it’s the intention to do well that counts, and no one is perfect.

Shared by “A Woman’s Soul”

The Four Agreements

Published August 28, 2020 by tindertender

Have you read The Four Agreements?

It’s a quick, and honestly life-changing read. One of the agreements is essentially that nothing someone else does or says is about you.

It just isn’t.

Someone trying to cut down your dreams? Most likely, they’re projecting their fear of pursuing their own dreams onto you. Remember this the next time someone tries to talk you out of what your heart desires.

It’s not about you … ever.

Life Lessons

Published July 20, 2020 by tindertender

Anything that annoys you is teaching you patience.

Anyone who abandons you is teaching you how to stand up on your own two feet.

Anything that angers you is teaching you forgiveness and compassion.

Anything that has power over you is teaching you how to take your power back.

Anything you hate is teaching you unconditional love.

Anything you fear is teaching you courage to overcome your fear.

Anything you can’t control is teaching you how to let go.

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No Point In Hiding

Published January 7, 2020 by tindertender

It is said the “lesson” will continue to visit until we actually get it. Unfortunately, we never really do.

Sure, we may never do certain things again, but there will always be something else that replaces it, a new lesson, if you will.

When can a human being actually say they’ve finally got it, know the unknown, seen the unseen, and truly mean it?

It’s not possible in my view. Perhaps this is because I’m living in the impossible.

I could vow to live more inline with all that is possible, yet I understand that preconditioning gave me more habitual patterns than could possibly be deconstructed in one life-time.

“It’s Not Possible”, she said.

Ha! And she also said, Absolutely anything IS possible, if you want it proper and true … Whatever that means”.

There just isn’t enough time. Some of these lessons take a lot of time! And effort … the mind needs to recoup after every breaking down and building up.

Two steps forward, one step back.

Why is this? Do you suppose it could be mass hypnosis of a sort? Surely I am not the only one who recognizes this, after all, I did not coin the phrase.

I find it strange that over and over we see how crisis of any magnitude tends to bring people together, as a unit, working for the betterment of the whole. Yet for decades now, times of ‘crisis’ has been used to separate people … war, segregation … many other examples can be found should one think about it. IT’S BASS ACKWORDS!

Time to get back on track.

It all starts with recognition.

The people, for the most part, are broken ~ all across the globe.

They prepare to destroy an enemy, whatever the level … yet willingness for preparing to love with equal or greater intensity is fading.

I’m of the mind this was, and is, a very purposeful intention, an intention of those not fighting in the battles and wars.

What kind of rats ass game is this anyway?

Somebody(s) have been ‘complying’ very well.

What is done in the light is seen in the light. What is done in the dark is also seen in the light. The tendency to build an illusion which says the dark is not seen in the light is habitual, another human trait.

There is no point in hiding anymore.


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