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She’s My Sister

Published September 20, 2022 by tindertender

“She isn’t a kind person” he said.

I do not agree.

She is beautiful, inside and out.

She is not a door mat, or an inexperienced, untested girl who needs to be “led”.

She’s a survivor who has raised good men and women.

She is a nurturer, with skills others lack.

She most certainly IS kind.

She is there when others need her.

She is strong.

She is one who needs a partner, not a master.

She is my sister.

Don’t forget it.

And don’t bring your shit talk of her to my door.


Every new note creates a beautiful memory. 
Time and space fall away like leaves. 
We may have pain, but we are beautiful energy. 
We got a gift, we got love, let it go.

To The Many Helpers and Friends

Published October 2, 2020 by tindertender

Thank you.

I know the spine is a tricky thing … its health can inhibit or prohibit beneficial work.

Sometimes I think the damages acquired throughout life are intentional, not by the one who experiences them, but by those who wish to inhibit progress.

It is clear that all thoughts and desires are not merely belonging to an individual, but to those who implant the thought or desire, again, in an attempt to inhibit progress.

Some may say this is an attempt to shuck responsibility.

A child cannot be responsible for its own programming …. this is an implant, or training, which continues throughout life in various forms, with the use of various abilities and technologies.

This comes in two general categories … those who wish to control life, and those who wish to be free, and seek the freedom and harmony of the whole.

All one need do is examine the heart. Does the thought or action resonate with the innermost part of the being? If not, it does not belong there and can be thought of as a manipulation effort.

This is my perspective, and I understand it does not align with that of many.

My purpose with this particular post is to acknowledge those who understand, and to tell you how greatly I appreciate your efforts to bring about harmony in this world, in that of other worlds, and in the hearts of life itself.

You are undervalued and misunderstood by most. To be truthful, I myself have difficulties understanding that which I was never exposed to as a youth, or otherwise.

Yet, I see you.

And I love you very much.

Thank you.

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