You’re either in the club, or you’re not.
Beaten but not defeated.
Wounded but not broken.
From victim to victor.
No hiding in the shadows.
No running, from anything.
The story isn’t over.
A new life is just beginning.
Afraid but courageous
Observing and not judging.
Daring to see & speak truth.
Honoring the light within you.
Eye to eye with my soul.
I am never walking alone.
Face it all, there’s no shame.
We live & we learn to appreciate everything.
We rise & fall, and rise again.
No lesson is in vain.
No win or lose.
It’s about courage to face the pain.
It’s never over.
Breathe.
Rise up.
And begin again.
Unresolved feelings with people from the past generate toxic emotional ties that keep us connected to them emotionally and energetically. These ties act as true internal “us” that do not allow our life to flow naturally and block the flow of new and better experiences.
It is necessary to carry out an emotional cleansing and check which people we are still connected to. Sorrow, resentment, guilt, attachment, disappointment, illusion are some of the feelings that create and reinforce these bonds. The person is no longer there, but continues to affect your emotions, influencing your decisions, even if unconsciously.
Do an exercise: Stay silent for a while, relax and ask your emotional: What people from the past am I still connected to? Let your mind show you.
Imagine then that there is a cord that connects these people to you. Visualize him tying you to them. Then affirm:
“At this moment I declare that I am breaking all the toxic and negative ties that bind me to people from the past (visualize that you have golden scissors in your hand and see yourself cutting all ties). I let go of all those who were once in my life, but who are meaningless today. I let go of all guilt, hurt, resentment or wrongdoing that bound me to them. I value the past and the lessons I’ve learned, but I don’t need to keep living with the past. I am breaking free of that influence and opening myself up to better people and situations.” It’s done.
~ Alexander Gruber
The late king of a certain community had ten wild dogs. He used them to torture and eat any of his servants who made a mistake.
One of the servants gave an opinion that was wrong, and the king didn’t like it at all. So he ordered that the servant be thrown to the dogs. The servant said, “I served you for ten years, and you do this to me? Please give me ten days before throwing me to those dogs!” The king agreed.
In those ten days, the servant went to the guard who looks after the dogs and told him he would like to serve the dogs for the next ten days.
The guard was baffled but agreed, and the servant started feeding the dogs, cleaning for them, bathing them, and providing all sorts of comfort for them. When the ten days were over, the king ordered that the servant be thrown to the dogs for his punishment.
When he was thrown in, we were all amazed to see the ravenous dogs only licking the feet of the servant! The king, baffled at what he was seeing, said, “What has happened to my dogs?” The servant replied, “I served the dogs for only ten days, and they didn’t forget my service.
Yet I served you for a whole ten years and you forgot all, at my first mistake!” The king realized his mistake and ordered the servant to be set free.
This post is a message to all those who forget the good things a person does for them as soon as the person makes a mistake towards them.
~ Author Unknown
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