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You’re In Great Company

Published December 23, 2021 by tindertender

Breathing in, I see all my ancestors in me: my mineral ancestors, plant ancestors, mammal ancestors, and human ancestors. My ancestors are always present, alive in every cell of my body, and I play a part in their immortality. ~ Thich Nhat Hanh

Those who have made the biggest impact on the planet, in addition to feeling extremely passionate, felt resistance, too. Martin Luther King, Abraham Lincoln, Harriet Tubman, Joan of Arc, Sacajawea, and Marie Curie are but a few. Every hero and shero in history has had moments of self-doubt, even paralyzing fear, before doing the courageous act that became their legacy. They felt the fear but did what they were called to do anyway. For this reason, you need not be detoured when you bump against uncertainty. In fact, doubt helps to chisel the ego out of the way, which is key to accomplishing a mission of merit, and becoming a channel of grace a higher purpose can move through. Know that you are in great company, and when you are ready, you’ll get up and go, like the great ones who came before you, upon whose shoulders you now stand.

Celebration and/or integration
You are on track
There is strength in numbers, you are never alone
Self-love is needed
Be in harmony with Self

Mantra ::
Like the heroes before me, I feel the doubt, and follow through anyway!

Artwork by Rassouli

~ The Hero’s journey dream oracle by Kelly Sullivan Walden

Affirmations ~ December 22, 2021

Published December 22, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Photo: https://unsplash.com/@trommelkopf

I release all vows of silence I have ever made.

I release all lies, deception and painful words spoken or unspoken that are affecting my ability to clearly know and speak my truth.

I am held in unconditional love with protection and grace.

I change my perspective to a greater cause.

I will free myself of that which hinders me.

I’ve graduated from having a story worth telling to embodying the potency of my story, and it emanates through every cell of my being.

Although some are fighting against it, hoping to cancel the blessing, I will receive good fortune and share it.

My needs are met abundantly in all realms.

I stand up for myself against those abusing their power. I refuse to tolerate their bad behavior.

The cycle ends. The struggle is over. New experiences are coming my way.

I trust my abilities and talents.

I move in a new direction.

I enjoy my own company.

I listen to my own council.

I nurture my creativity.

I manifest my soul’s desire for new meaning and a more nurturing and fulfilling lifestyle.

I allow my compassion to nurture my soul-self into my whole-self and extend to each living thing in my surroundings.

I look for ways to extend my compassion into a tangible force.

A celebration, a time for blessing is here.

I take time to reflect on my strengths and challenges and how far I’ve come.

Clock Time

Published December 22, 2021 by tindertender

We are a long way from seasonal time, from the ebb and flow of tides, the cycles of the moon, the rise and set of the sun. Instead we have watches and clocks, which tick and tick to mark the passing of every second. There are times when you need to move quickly – when you have appointments, deadlines or important responsibilities that need to be completed. When you are amidst such activities, you will be consumed with them. You may become anxious, short of breath, hurried and rushed. It may seem that you need to move faster than other people need to. This can lead to stressful, heart-racing moments, and when you are reactive like this, you are less capable than when you are focused, calm and clear.

Even though it is true that you must meet a deadline, you must take a moment to slow down so you can attend to your responsibilities. You are in the midst of a whirlwind – be the calm, the eye of the storm. Put to rest the urge to worry, to fret, to rush until your work is done, and the need to impress those you wish to please.

Work carefully, clearly, with focus and intent, see a sunrise, bathe in moonlight, notice the leaves changing color … and you will work faster than if you hurry and get caught up in worry. There is no need to rush, just look as if you are taking your work as seriously as it deserves. Pull back, stay calm, have a plan and stick to it, and all will be well.

A time of stress and added workload. Increased responsibility, feeling it is too late to pursue your dreams. Feeling pushed to complete too many tasks. An inability to say no. Insufficient support. The urge to rush. This could be a time of dynamic opportunity – but you must take charge of your own workload and do what must be done. It is time for one last push!

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish

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Stop Saying That!

Published December 21, 2021 by tindertender

Imagine an arena. A contest of strength and will is at hand. The audience has a favorite, and they chant the name. Over, and over, and over again. It is loud and it rings throughout the stadium.

The crowd goes wild.

Imagine the energy behind the roar ….. the excitement, the anger.

Now imagine a virus which is affecting the world. People all over the globe are speaking of omicr …. and delt…. and cov…….. All people speaking of it with big energies of fear, and anger at their fellow human, and anger over the loss of freedom to choose, and the energy of readying the defenses.

Every time someone says the name, the Universe hears it as a chant ….

Omicr …. Omicr….. Omicr……

The whole world chants the name and the Universe hears that the crowd wants more of it.

Every time it is said, the word, and whoever is behind this, receives power, the energy of each individual ‘chanting’ the name. It grows in strength, like the egregore it is, empowered by the very people who just want it to go away.

And yet they continue ….

Omicr….. Omicr…… Omicr…….

Delt……Delt…..Delt……

Cov……Cov…….Cov……

It is so important, now more than ever, to manage and maintain ones own energetic vibrations, which include words, actions, thoughts, and emotions.

Our energy has been utilized by the controllers for a very long time.

Games …. football, and everyone jumps to their feet cheering at a touchdown, thousands of people dumping energy into the field … the energetic field.

There is technology patented that harnesses the energy (https://patents.google.com/patent/WO2011138585A1) in the atmospheric field, and it is then utilized however another chooses it to be used.

The crowd is not choosing how the energy is to be used, but it certainly is being supplied in abundance.

There is a reason people can go to the stadium for games, but cannot go to concerts in the park.

It’s controlled energy harvesting. To empower a specific agenda … for domination.

Choose carefully what you empower with your thoughts and attention, your energy and emotion. It is your energy, your sacred essence. Manage it well.

Words are spells.

https://www.google.com/search?q=kinetic+energy+harvest&tbm=isch&ved=2ahUKEwiU497Rr_b0AhUUyKwKHen8AKEQ2-cCegQIABAA&oq=kinetic+energy+harvest&gs_lcp=CgNpbWcQAzIFCAAQgAQyBQgAEIAEMgYIABAIEB4yBAgAEBgyBAgAEBgyBAgAEBg6CAgAEIAEELEDOggIABCxAxCDAToECAAQQzoLCAAQgAQQsQMQgwE6BwgAELEDEEM6BggAEAUQHlDpCVi2L2C5M2gAcAB4AIABswGIAY0XkgEEMC4yM5gBAKABAaoBC2d3cy13aXotaW1nwAEB&sclient=img&ei=-47CYdT5CJSQswXp-YOICg&bih=610&biw=1280

Kinetic energy harvesting is the process of converting environmental kinetic or vibration energy – wind, waves, vehicle movement, machinery vibration, human motion, etc. – into electrical energy that can be used to power small and low-energy electronics. (and oh so much more, says I).
https://innovate.ieee.org/innovation-spotlight/kinetic-energy-harvesting-transportation-mode/#:~:text=Kinetic%20energy%20harvesting%20is%20the,small%20and%20low%2Denergy%20electronics.

Source and distribution of human body energy and applicable energy harvesting technologies.
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2667325821000698

Affirmations ~ December 21, 2021

Published December 21, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Photo by Natalie Grainger on Unsplash

Creation ————— Protection
Intuitive Messages ————— Guardian Angel
Renewal of Peace ————— Acceptance of Love

What I am destined for comes to me with ease.

My needs will be met in harmony with my own rhythms.

I surrender attachment to doing things the way others think they should be done.

I make room for success, happiness, prosperity and brilliant ideas.

I am in process of renewal; this is a time of shedding.

I harmonize with the Universe.

My path is unfolding exactly as it needs to.

I am blessed with not knowing every single detail of what is going to unfold before me.

Great power is not only around me, but within me.

All that ever was or will be is here now within me. My body incorporates the planetary dream and my most personal love into a life, grace-filled.

There is infinite wisdom ahead.

The old patterns of interference have been broken.

Father Sky ————— Mother Earth
Harmony ————— Temple
Energy Shift ————— Laughter
Balance ————— Don’t Drink the Poison
Follow Your Own Rhythm ————— Legacy of Light
Dream Sanctuary ————— Ally in Disguise

I listen for truths beneath the words rather than the superficial message of the words themselves.

I am hearing what is not being said, it is truthful.

I let go of old wounds.

I open up to healing.

Do Not Drink The Poison

Published December 21, 2021 by tindertender

… If you drink much from a bottle marked ‘poison’, it is almost certain to disagree with you, sooner or later.

You deserve to treat yourself well. You deserve to inhibit what is not good for you. You do not need to try what is bad for you, to know that it is not for you. No longer do what is not in your best interest. You have a habit or two that you would do well to let go of. You have people in your life that you keep giving time and space to, despite knowing you will suffer afterwards, that you will again be upset and disturbed by their harshness, their unkindness.

Poison does not only come in bottles. It comes in the form of others who hurt us, deliberately or even without their knowledge. It can simply be that they are not for you, and you are not for them. Poison comes in the form of words which hurt and harm, that fall from your lips or which are spoken about you by others.

There are situations you know may hurt or endanger you. There are substances which could be toxic for you and you do not need to have them in your life anymore. It is time to eradicate that which can poison you. It is not cruel to refuse to hurt yourself. You will be astonished at the energy you will have once you remove these toxins from your life.

Avoid toxic situations, people or relationships. Do not partake in what you know is not best for you. Ending harmful relationships, changing toxic habits or improving your nutrition and health regime. A clean out from your home and pantry of substances, foods, even fabrics that can ‘poison’ your personal environment. Changing unhealthy harmful thoughts and beliefs about yourself and refusing to speak ill of others. Choosing to encourage, support and lead through kindness and strength.

Artwork by Jasmine Becket-Griffith

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish

Affirmations ~ December 20, 2021

Published December 20, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Photo by Brett Jordan on Unsplash

I release remnants of the past; I step firmly over them onto my path.

I honor my creative power.

I foster gratitude in my state of being.

I make room for grace so the call of my highest destiny can be heard and acted upon.

When the Universe calls, I pick up!

I appreciate my existence.

I relish being alive.

I make the most of every moment.

I enjoy a quiet period; I regroup and stabilize.

I focus on simple daily tasks.

There is no need for me to worry.

What I wait for is being taken care of in its own time.

A new life is emerging for me now. It matters greatly.

I stay centered in the heart.

I compassionately, yet firmly, denounce any intrusion of my Sacred Space.

Life is interesting, I embrace it fully.

I release that which disrupts my peace … mental, emotional, physical and spiritual.

I use my intuition.

I practice discernment.

I see through illusions, all is revealed.

I explore my creative gifts.

I look for, and find, my perfect moment of the day in whatever form it takes.

Affirmations ~ December 19, 2021

Published December 19, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Photo: Public domain image from Wikimedia Commons

I stay in the heart.

I do not need to prove myself or fight against the darkness.

I do not need to heal the dark. I let it be.

I stay connected to the light of compassion in my own heart.

I face my challenges.

I expand.

I seek the blessing in my experiences.

Inspiration pulls me toward my dreams.

I drop the tug-o-war of duality and enter a field of power.

I turn my intentions into manifestation.

I create space to embrace all aspects of Self.

I take the first steps along a new path.

Possibilities are endless.

I plant my seeds.

I cut ribbons to old ties and vows not conducive to my greater good.

I remain committed to my dreams.

I am open to the wisdom of my elders.

I am reliable.

I seek the eternal.

My base is solid.

I let go of the idea that I need to search for my path. I get out of the way and let it flow.

I love, honor and accept myself in all circumstances.

Law Is Not Justice

Published December 19, 2021 by tindertender

Rules that are not fair.

“Let the jury consider the verdict,” the King said, for about the twentieth time that day.
“No, No!” said the Queen. “Sentence first – verdict afterwards.”

The situation Alice finds herself in is patently unfair. No-one should be judged, convicted or serve a sentence prior to the evidence being heard, but this is the situation Alice finds herself within. This could be what is taking place in your world. Unfair as it may be, someone wants to judge you before they know you, convict you before they understand your side of the story, and they most certainly have not examined any evidence. Nevertheless, they wish to judge.

As Alice so bravely does, you must speak up and say it is unfair and wrong. It is not right for you to be judged, but another person wishes to do so. Unless you speak up, there could be very strong consequences. When you are told to be quiet and to tolerate the judgements being made about you, you are urged to speak up against injustice and object to what is taking place.

Your opinion of yourself is what is most valuable. You can state your case clearly, with strength and power, and doing so will help you remember just how very strong you are, how very admired you are, how worthwhile and decent you are. You’re worthy of respect, fairness and kindness. If you are being treated poorly, speak up! When you do so, the spell will be broken and people will see that your side of the story is well worth listening to. Never allow another to steal your self-worth!

Someone may have the authority to impose the law, but the law, or the rule is ready to be questioned. Following the law, even though it is unjust. Condemnation without knowing the full story. Being judged by people who do not know you or have a biased view. You may be judging people you do not understand. Be sure to have a fuller picture, and avoid condemnation and judgement. Be discerning but be sure to be fair and just.

Artwork by Jasmine Becket Griffith

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish