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Trauma Bonding

Published April 18, 2024 by tindertender

Someone with noble intent wouldn’t start a relationship by chit chatting about old wounds. (That’s called Trauma bonding). The shadow work, the healing hasn’t occurred, and will bring trouble in the connection.

Stages of Trauma Bonding

The seven stages of trauma bonding are:
1) Love bombing – the sudden, intense attempt to create a “we” in a relationship through high praise and excessive flattery
2) Trust & Dependency
3) Criticism
4) Manipulation & Gaslighting
5) Resignation & Giving up
6) Loss of Self
7) Addiction to the Cycle

Because the love-bombing first stage of trauma bonding is so intense, it quickly leads to the trust and dependency in the second stage. That foundation leads you to begin to agree with the abusive person in just about everything – including the abuser’s reasons for treating you badly. It’s like a type of brainwashing, where you don’t even realize that your beliefs about how you’re being treated are distorted.

Did You Know?

Published April 17, 2024 by tindertender
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Dream Lover

Published April 17, 2024 by tindertender

“Dream Lovers” tag the vaginal cavity and womb, or the phallus of the Divine. It’s the cord they use to yank back on them as they elevate, ascending into higher realms. Their pretend divine fems/masc use seggs magic together against the divine to assist in this cording. They “dirty” the divine by pushing the foul orgy magic, making them look like whores. They think they’ll elevate and rise into the kingdom, while the true divine get yanked back. They need you to remain so they can continue to drain your root and sacral chakras, your God-like Lifeforce.

Military Prepared

Published April 1, 2024 by tindertender

They’re getting ready for the return of Christ (The Son / from beyond the Sun).
5 days, and counting down, to right many wrongs.
Be prepared.

Easter Morning :: Waking Message

Published March 31, 2024 by tindertender

Six days to right many wrongs.

The Year 5784 and 2024 – The Door to Advancement

Published March 13, 2024 by tindertender
The Years 5784 and 2024 – the doors open at the Word of God

https://www.chabad.org/calendar/view/month.htm

Prophetic Word for 5784 Jewish New Year or 2024: The Door to Advancement

Personal Command

Published March 8, 2024 by tindertender

Command your mind, or it will be commanded for you.

We can see how well it’s working for humanity by observing the collective.

Too many busy growing implanted seeds of chaos.

Pluck them from the mind. Plant seeds of your choice, not what this matrix gives you.

Pull the weeds in your garden of consciousness.

Ignorance Exposed

Published February 7, 2024 by tindertender

He inquired of an invisible dominator masculine, “They like Dogs? Do they make their life better?”

Unfortunately, they like to get in my mental space, so they get to hear my opinion.

I responded, “How is it you are in management of anyone if you are ignorant of the fact that having someone or something to love and care for makes life better?”

F-ing Jack wagons.

Oblivious to the intricacies of relationship which make life worth living.

Dogs are friends, guardians, children, protectors, companions who accept without judgement and are always happy to see us, willing to go and do whatever it is we ask …

That masculines ignorance is astounding. Who decided he was worthy of leadership?