Let go of the people who are not ready to love you. This is the hardest thing you will ever have to do in your life and it will also be the most important thing.
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Stop having difficult conversations with people who don’t want to change. Stop showing up for people who are not interested in your presence. I know your goal is to do everything to gain the admiration of those around you, but that is an impulse that only steals your time, your energy, your mental and physical health.
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When you start looking for a life with more joy, interest and commitment, not everyone will be ready to follow you in that place. This does not mean that you need to change who you are, it just means that you have to let go of the people who are not ready to accompany you on that path.
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If you are excluded, insulted, forgotten or ignored by the people you devote your time to, it is not healthy to continue offering your energy and your life to those people.
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The truth is, you are not for everyone and not everyone is for you. And that’s what makes the moment so special when you finally meet people with whom you have matching friendship and love. You will know how precious this is because before you experienced what it is not.
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The more time you spend trying to be loved by someone who is unable to love you back, the more time you waste depriving yourself of the possibility of having that true connection with someone else.
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There are billions of people on this planet, and many of them will match the same level of interest and commitment as you.
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The more you stay involved with people who use you as a pillow or as a background option, the longer you distance yourself from the true love you desire.
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Maybe if you stop showing up, you won’t be wanted. Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship ends. Maybe if you stop texting, your phone will go without ringing for weeks. It doesn’t mean that you ruined your relationship, it just means that the only thing holding that relationship together was the energy that only you gave to keep it.
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Its not love, its attachment. This is wanting to give a chance to those who don’t deserve it! You deserve so much more. There are people who are not meant to be in your life, and you’ll realize that with time.
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The most valuable thing you have in your life is your time and your energy, as both are limited. What you put your time and energy into will define your life.
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When you finally realize this you then start to understand why you get so anxious or tired when you spend time with people in places and situations doing things that don’t suit you. You are literally energy “stolen”
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You will also start to learn from this that the most important thing you can do for yourself and everyone around you is to take more care of your energy.
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Make your life a safe haven, in which only people ′’compatible” with you will be allowed to enter.
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Remember, you are not responsible for saving anyone. You are not responsible for persuading them to improve or change their way of being. It’s not your job to do everything for people or give your life for them. Your only obligation is to realize that you are the master of your destiny and that it is your responsibility to make yourself happy.
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Starting today, decide that you deserve to receive true friendships, true commitment and complete love with healthy and prosperous people. Then wait and see how everything will start to change in your life. You will then go on to meet more positive and good energy people in your path.
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Don’t waste your time with people who are not worth it, change will bring you the love, joy, confidence and happiness you deserve and so desire.

🖊Brianna Wiest