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Affirmations ~ December 3, 2021

Published December 3, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

man has to decide whether to take the way to the old or new life
By fotogestoeber, Public Domain

Things are being set right.

I have learned many lessons; many mistakes of the past will not be repeated.

I heal.

I withdraw from controversy so I experience less tension.

I embrace the strangeness of this new experience. Even though it challenges my beliefs about self, I open to it and expand.

I am a Sacred Being crafted by the hand of Universal Creator, and I also create.

I am exotic, unusual, sometimes eccentric and even seen as a little bizarre. I make peace with this.

I release any fixed ideas I have about the way things should be.

I free-fall into life. The old way is on its way out.

I accept into my life something new and beautiful. It is coming soon.

I leave my historical experiences behind, retaining only the lessons learned.

I have outgrown my old methods of navigating this life.

My dreams can become reality.

I stay grounded. I remain patient as I contemplate new opportunities. A change for the better is taking place.

I heed the lessons offered by my shadow self. I do not deny this aspect of me.

I know love can give rise to great destruction, and hate can inspire acts of genuine love.

I am not a victim. I remain humble. I forgive those who’ve harmed me.

I am open to wisdom and insights from my elders.

I know what it is like to experience unreliability. I nurture its polarity in my life. I stick to tasks until they are complete.

I allow my hopes and dreams to become a reality.

I believe a new and better life is coming to me.

Be Blessed

Published December 2, 2021 by tindertender

Acknowledge all the areas within yourself that are praiseworthy.

Every smile shared, every good action or even thought, aids in the betterment of the surrounding area and all within that area.

When we raise the vibration of our immediate vicinity others feel it, that pure energy.

Focusing on compassion with an attempt to understand, without judgment …

What hurts one, hurts the whole. Share a smile, project the love in your heart outward.

Make someone’s day … just because you can. There is power in kindness …

Affirmations ~ December 2, 2021

Published December 2, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

I am master of myself.

I am at peace.

All aspects of myself are worthy of love. I honor them.

I understand I cannot please all others, so I please myself.

I am unique.

I allow my character to shine as I see it to be, not molding self into what others want to see.

I develop my own set of principles and beliefs based on my personal integrity.

Compassion nurtures my soul.

I look for ways to extend my compassion.

Compassion and forgiveness are tangible forces within me.

My needs are met.

I handle my burdens with ease.

I take time to reflect on my strengths and challenges. I recognize how far I’ve come.

I have expanded in many ways.

I offer myself approval.

I release all fragments of self-doubt.

I am able to achieve my long-term goals.

I am a Co-Creator, taking part in planetary transformation.

I dance freely and with power, for I have faced the death of all that flows through me.

My actions are based on the fulness of the moment rather than on sacrifice for the future.

I have united polarities of existence.

What Do You Feel?

Published December 2, 2021 by tindertender

There are many opinions around you. Some are helpful but others are distracting you from your truth. Although it can be helpful to hear the thoughts of others, when it comes down to it, you will have to come to your own decision. Do you know how unique you are? How your path is your path to be chosen, lived and created – only by you? Someone else cannot become the source of your decision-making power without negative repercussions for both of you in the long run.

You have become swept up in thinking things through. You have been thinking about which way to go with a matter of importance and you have got a bit stuck in the logic of the decision-making process. Sometimes we have to accept that any path is a path forward and if it is not the best path, we can change our approach later on if needed. If we are slightly off-base with a decision, life will often shift and move to guide us back on track. We don’t have to be perfect. In fact, there is rarely ever a perfect choice to be made – just some choices that feel more heart honoring than others. Sometimes we can only really know in hindsight if we made the best choice possible in that moment. At the time of decision-making, we only really have our internal wisdom to rely upon. And that is all we need.

There is no need to punish or traumatize yourself with possible choices. Just making a choice will set things in motion. The best way to catalyze the situation you are in and bring about healing change, stimulate your creative juices and find a more inspired, energized and enjoyable approach to your life, is to just make a choice based on what you feel right now. Not based on anyone else’s feelings. Just yours. So ask yourself – what do I feel right now? And go from there.

If you cannot relate to the need to make a choice between two or more clear alternatives, know this, you are at a crossroads in your journey and the choices you make at this time – even simply choosing to do things a little differently, without much drama associated with the decision – are powerful triggers for some great magic to enter your life.

Take a different approach to something. Be open to that which makes you uncomfortable but could be exciting and interesting. Even small adventures will yield big rewards right now. It matters less that you do the most wonderful thing ever (too much pressure!) and more that you simply take action from your heart. Open up to the creative magic of life and don’t worry about how it is all going to work out. The bigger creative flow of life is sorting out all the details and you are not immune to that plan. In fact you are a natural part of it! So just spend some time with your own feelings and know that all is going to work out perfectly.

Healing process ::
Close your eyes and relax, rest your open palms facing upwards on your legs. Imagine that you have a ball of light in each hand. If you find it hard to visualize or feel, you may prefer to draw this process in your journal instead.

Focus on one ball of light first. What color or colors does it feel like? What feelings, words, symbols or qualities does it have? How heavy or light is it? How substantial? What do you feel about it? Do you like it?

Turn your attention to the second ball of light. Repeat the investigation or exploration that you did for the first.

When you are ready, choose one. There is no wrong or right choice, just whatever captures your attention, energy or heart most at this moment. The other may be there waiting for you later on, if it needs be – or it might be easily released, if that most serves your life’s path and creative journey.

You may like to take that chosen ball of light and imagine sending it our into the universe with love. If you have drawn it, you might like to add words, feelings or colors.

When you have finished, simply say, “My choices flow easily from my heart and I tread my path with certainty and grace, always within the merciful protection of unconditional love. So be it.”

When you are ready, simply open your eyes and you have completed your healing process.

Artwork by Autumn Skye Morrison

Sacred Rebels oracle by Alana Fairchild

Affirmations ~ November 30, 2021

Published November 30, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Earth Milky Way & Moon
Public domain illustration of moon, earth & milky way
SinarBack 54H

I accept the guidance being offered to me now as I move through this transformative process.

What was once obscured is becoming clear. It comes gently, as a simple knowing.

I honor all messages coming via higher knowledge.

I move forward in this new found clarity.

Through personal transformation I make great strides.

My life path unfolds in a brilliant manner.

I trust in myself.

I do not over-think things.

Any instability that arises is only a growing pain. I flow into it, around it and I let it be formed.

I trust in the future.

I deserve blessings and I accept them when they arrive, without guilt.

I decide how I feel in every now moment. I am not controlled by my emotions.

I focus on the highest level of emotion.

I am deserving and I choose to achieve more, to love more and to be the best version of self possible in this moment.

I am not a victim.

I forgive, and I release.

I see the light of truth within shadows.

I see when actions and words do not support each other, in self and in others.

I hone my intuition.

I honor life supported by this beautiful planet.

I honor new friendships and partnerships.

A Splendid Torch

Published November 30, 2021 by tindertender

This wonderful elixir of light is the thing that actually connects the immaterial with the material – that connects the cosmic to the plain everyday existence that we try to live in. ~ James Turrell

You’ve had life-altering experiences, learned libraries worth of knowledge, and are now incalculably wealthy (spiritually, and otherwise). It probably feels selfish to keep all this life-affirming wisdom to yourself. If you could, through osmosis, you would transmit the contents of your journey – every experience, trial, and reward – to every person your meet. And yet, if you share when uninvited, your gifts will fall upon deaf ears. Honor the wisdom you’ve earned and learned, while honoring the people in your circle of life, by remembering that you are the elixir. Without having to say a word or do a single thing, you are the medicine, blessing and presence that soothes hearts, minds and souls of all you meet. You are so steeped in the elixir, that you do the work simply by being, beaming, and showing up.

Mantra ::
The elixir encoded within me is now being contagiously transmitted.

Artwork by Rassouli

The Hero’s Journey dream oracle by Kelly Sullivan Walden

Affirmations ~ November 29, 2021

Published November 29, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Phases of the Moon: waxing crescent, first quarter, waxing gibbous, full moon, waning gibbous, third quarter, waning crescent. Forest landscape with stars. The elements of this image furnished by NASA
By elen31

I face this new cycle with courage.

There is a healing force entering my life.

I am aware.

I accept my emerging self.

I achieve my goals.

I commit to friendships.

I embrace my inner vision.

I accept this grand vision that has rested upon my mind. It is possible.

I am healing, and it is time to send forth this healing into the world.

I move out of old patterns. I am released from the cocoon of transformation.

Gratefully, I accept the guidance of my ancestors and the angels who walk this path with me in a good way.

I believe in myself and I believe in the capabilities of my truest family.

Light shines on inspiration.

A harmonious state of consciousness is mine.

I love all aspects of Self. I do not hinder the flow of life within me.

I release residual self-doubt.

There are signs everywhere confirming I am not alone.

My intuition is reliable. I embrace it and all messages my inner senses pick up on.

I have experienced heartache with the utmost intensity. I still believe in love and know a better life is coming to me.

The old cycle is completed.

I choose how I build experiences in the coming cycle.

Against the Grain

Published November 29, 2021 by tindertender

You want birds to be able to fly under water. You want love to trump power. You want humanity to relate to each other as equals and to recognize the sacredness in you and in the world around you. You want to unleash the beauty that hides in even the ugliest of scenes or sentiments. You want to make possible what others say cannot be. You are a radical dreamer, a sacred rebel, and you bring the light of a more positive future to this world.

However, this can have its burdens. Deep within you may feel that you don’t really fit in with the rest of the world. Perhaps your sense of how things can be and how they really are, is so different to the smaller minds or more fearful hearts of many others that you are rarely received for all that you offer. This might make you feel frustrated, thwarted or lonely at times.

The universe so loves you for your unusual take on things, for the quirkiness in you that dares to honor that which is different and renders the impossible, possible. You must never, ever lose your unusual ways and become dry, serious, appropriate and conventional – not even for appearance’s sake – for you would lose your essence. You are here to show what life is about so much more than conventional success.

You are someone who lives and breathes in the depths of creative waters. You need to lose yourself to the flow of music, nature, dreams, imagination and fantasy, through art and literature, meditation, dance and in sensual surrender to the sacred waters of the ocean, the river, the lake – or the bathtub!

You must go against the grain. It is just your way. You are not one of the followers but one of the agitators. However, yours is not a force of disrespectful chaos. You are a loving catalyst and by simply being yourself, you constantly remind people that there is always another way. You are meant to be exactly who you are. You are meant to be the black sheep, the rainbow sheep or even the wild wolf in the flock of sheep! The daring butterfly spirit calling to the caterpillars – that is you. The price you pay for the gift of individuality is that you must take care of it and guard it so that you are not dulled down and conditioned into playing at being something you are not.

If this has happened, or ids threatening to happen, this oracle brings you comfort. You will always dream of birds that can fly underwater. You know that the true nature of your being can never be changed – at most, it could only be hidden for a time. Now is the time to accept who you are and allow your truths to be fully expressed. Don’t worry about the effects of going against the grain. When we are who we are in truth, we attract the support, protection and energy that we need to thrive. Your power comes from aligning your outward self with your inner truth, not with the general consensus. You will then find other dreamers, other wild butterflies and atypically colored sheep to join you in conjuring better visions for our world.

Healing process ::
Close your eyes and relax. Take seven deep breaths in and out as you bring your awareness into your body and the space that exists within your body.

When you are relaxed, imagine, sense or perceive a winding river of golden light that starts below your feet. Sense it gathering there as a pool of liquid golden energy. It has an intelligence of its own and it winds its way into beautiful patterns before you, flowing with grace and playfulness. This river of light symbolizes your life journey. Just notice it and enjoy it.

See that your life journey is unique. You may focus on your own river of life or expand your awareness to sense the rivers of light that represent the journeys of those around you. You may see, sense or feel that their paths are unique to them also. No-one has the exact same journey to take, even though we are all heading towards the one destination of absolute love.

Say the following aloud, “I honor myself. I honor the truth that I express through my very being. I accept the protection that I am offered so that I may go against the grain from a place of love and as an invitation for others to be open to life. So be it.”

When you are ready, simply open your eyes and sit quietly with your hand on your heart for a moment. You have completed your healing process.

Artwork by Autumn Skye Morrison

Sacred Rebels oracle by Alana Fairchild

Affirmations ~ November 27, 2021

Published November 27, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Sun peeks out from behind the clouds in woman’s head.
By primipil

I find solutions to my problems.

I am safe.

I trust in the Universal Mother.

I value myself and open to receiving love and affection from another.

I enter a state of ease and I allow connection with the essence of life.

I have completed a cycle. I learned what was needed and I take the knowledge gained with me into the new.

I have grown. The old me has been transformed.

I am ready for this new adventure.

I cultivate balance within this new Self.

I have dedicated many years of my life to this personal alchemy. I have earned the new experience of this now moment, and those to come.

The outcome I desire is near. My hard work will pay off.

Guilt, shame and fear are behind me. A fresh new story is unfolding for me now.

Ancestors, Guardians, Guides and Angels are supporting me.

My strength has been tested.

I thrive in this new environment.

My life is shifting for the better, I do not rush it.

New opportunities come to me now.

Everything unnecessary will fade away.

I remain in love.

I seek my answers from within, knowing I have a solid, spiritual family supporting me.

Visions of Life Beyond Death

Published November 27, 2021 by tindertender

Sacred vision is awakening within you. You are becoming blessed with the ability to truly see. To what is real rather than what appears to be. This is true insight.

What was once considered consequential may soon be found to hold little consequence after all. What was once dismissed as an irritation or irrelevance may be seen to have great spiritual significance. As mundane as something once appeared it could now be worthy of absolute attention. The gift of genuine vision takes you into the being of the universal creator. This is sacred terrain, beyond logic, convention and that which is limited in any way. The more open you are to receiving true vision, the more love you will feel and recognize within and around you. Something may appear to change form, to be shed, to be lost or to die but there is love within it always. This realization doesn’t remove the pain of the loss. It does provide a way through which it can be healed and eventually transformed into peace.

The vision of love, the truth of all that is, can move us more than anything else possibly can. If you have been wondering about your path or whether you should take action on a project or you need inspiration to really move you out of a slump you have fallen into, have hope. You will receive your vision. You will be graced with a way out of the stagnancy. You will be able to see things differently and more accurately. Any confusion or uncertainty you have felt is going to pass and you will be left with clear insight. The stories you have been feeling, feeding yourself or telling yourself may end up looking different to how they appear now. This may surprise you, but the vision that is coming to you will be more truthful and therefore freeing. It will be worth the shock, surprise or the moment of embarrassment when you realize you have been operating under a false assurance or deluding yourself about the truth of a situation. Those moments will pass and they are not something to feel bad about. They signify that you are leaving behind a smaller view for a more expansive one. They are a sign that you have outgrown your old vision in order to live in a bigger one. This is good! There might be a moment when your ego feels a bit dented, but sure enough that too will pass.

You are watched over by life and held in protection. Whatever has been bothering you will not be able to harm you. You will prevail. If you are concerned that someone is getting away with something or blocking your path and it seems there is nothing you can do about it, don’t worry. The All-Seeing Eye of Life perceives everything, without exception. It is the universal mother with eyes not only in the back of her head but in every living cell of life itself. She misses nothing! And the truth of her vision will always be met with justice, mercy and wisdom.

Shift your perspective and look at an issue of concern a little differently. If you don’t know how to do this, simply add the following statement to the end of the healing process below, “I call upon the Universal Eye to show me the most helpful way to see this situation of concern now.” In shifting how you look at things, the energy in what is beheld changes. You can see this with people. When you shame and judge someone they react differently to when they are loved and encouraged. They may succeed nonetheless, but the journey to that success will be different. Looking at something through the eyes of love rather than fear, can help us find our way more quickly, easily and enjoyably.

Your ability to perceive is expanding into truth. Your ability to be inspired and see the light in all things is unfolding. It must be nourished in your heart with loving acceptance because you are going to help others through your vision, your art and how you choose to be in the world. The healing process below will help you accept and anchor this developing gift.

Healing process ::
Say aloud, “I now release any fear I have associated with seeing truth, with seeing beyond the veil of illusion or with my inner vision opening up, from my heart, mind and body. I release any wounding I have received in relation to what I have witnessed at any time especially where it is based in the fearful responses of others. I ask that my vision be restored to its fulness, through compassion and unconditional love. So be it.”

Close your eyes. Imagine love pouring down from the universe straight into your head, reaching behind your eyes and feeling really good.

When you have had enough of this, simply open your eyes and imagine you can breathe or exhale any excess energy gently out through them.

Then you have finished your healing process.

Artwork by Autumn Skye Morrison

Sacred Rebels oracle by Alana Fairchild