All posts tagged Thought


Published March 29, 2022 by tindertender

Yes, this is true. We are all vibrating energy, and we are all clear on that now. Every negative thought is felt by the body. We might label it as ‘stress’ but it’s actually just a build-up of negative thoughts. All thoughts are vibrating energy, so where else do we think the first place our negative vibration would go? It goes to us.

When we cough something up that we must spit out of our mouths, we are getting rid of an unwanted energy. We are not aware, but this is no accident. Sickness more often than not comes from our thoughts. This is our body’s way of getting rid of thoughts that have manifested into our physical bodies.

~ An Accidental Guru

Fake It ‘Til You Make It

Published February 5, 2022 by tindertender

What we tell ourselves, our subconscious mind believes.

Most people are in the habit of expressing discomfort, passionately, and in doing so perpetuate more discomfort.

To break this cycle, one must begin to claim affirmative statements. Even if the statement is not felt at the time, saying a positive actually flips the narrative.

As a young person, I recognized and practiced …. when in a foul mood, to smile. To simply smile and tell myself everything was working out as it should for my highest good. Doing this simple thing would flip the script.

Making lists of gratitude is another way. When feeling very negative, rather than spewing about everything that is going wrong, or vomiting toxic emotions into the world, start stating aloud everything that can be thought of to be grateful for. The mood will shift, pretty quickly.

Where Did You Get The Thoughts You Think?

Published March 24, 2021 by tindertender

What if most of the thoughts you think and beliefs you hold don’t even belong to you? Then whose belief is this?

When these questions are asked from a point of wanting to understand yourself, what you want and what you create will dramatically change. 

Unravel who you are not and begin to embrace who you truly are.

Balancing the Mental and Emotional Bodies

Published March 12, 2021 by tindertender

I’m studying “Mastering Alchemy” now. This is a webinar from 2015 … good stuff.

Jim Self, a leader in the field of spiritual development, founder of Mastering Alchemy, international speaker and author, provides tools and answers questions about the Shift in Consciousness that we are experiencing.

Mastering Alchemy with Jim Self

Published March 5, 2021 by tindertender

Jim Self offers some VERY helpful info for the transitions we are experiencing now.

Fundamental Tools

Fundamental Tools 1: Introduction
Fundamental Tools 2: What are Dimensions?
Fundamental Tools 3: What is Time?
Fundamental Tools 4: Center of the Head
Fundamental Tools 5: Layers of Thought
Fundamental Tools 6: Grounding
Fundamental Tools 7: The Rose
Fundamental Tools 8: Running Energy
Fundamental Tools 9: Words
Fundamental Tools 10: Exploding Roses;

Mind F*ck ~ Psywar

Published December 22, 2020 by tindertender

If what you read plainly states a thing, if what you hear is plain, then your perceptions are correct according to your inner guidance.

When someone comes to you and says, “But what they meant was…” they are speaking for another they probably do not even know, attempting to override your own intuition.

This seems to be regular habit for many. And often it leaves one doubting their own self, and intuitions.

It is a trespass which does not honor individuality and freedom of choice.

It is an attempt to usurp your Will, and individual perception.

They may even tell you the warning signs you have taken note of are simply a reflection of what is in YOUR OWN HEART and mind … NOT reality. They’ll tell you the obvious threat you’ve noted is simply a reflection of your inner creation … when the actual creation is right in front of you, plainly.

Furthering the mind f*ck.

The intentional (?) mind f*ck.

Think like me, they say. You don’t understand the true meaning, they will tell you. You must ‘read between the lines’. They’ll try and convince you that the obvious is not reality.

Playing the game.

The game of molding minds.

Sometimes, we simply must disconnect from those we do not resonate with. Especially if they are attempting to reformat your mind and working toward instilling in your mind a lack of trust in your own intuition.

This war is fought by the military, by Alien tech, and sadly, by our own brothers, sisters and loved ones …

Gotta Let. Them. Go.

Affirmation 10-12-2020

Published October 12, 2020 by tindertender

Today is a day to focus on achievement. What are the things I want to achieve? Success? Fame? Fulfillment? Wealth? Peace? Forgiveness? Whatever I want to achieve, I can bring into my life now. I bring my thoughts into alignment with my intentions. And my actions into alignment with my thoughts. Today, my thoughts and actions will be directed towards my goals.

~ A Daily Book of Pagan Prayer by Megan Day

Affirmation 10-6-2020

Published October 6, 2020 by tindertender

Today is a day to focus on right action. Negative thoughts and feelings don’t lead to right actions. I need to let those thoughts, feelings, and ideas go and make all of my thoughts right thoughts. Right thoughts lead to right actions. Right actions lead to good results. Today I welcome only good things into my life.

~ A Daily Book of Pagan Prayer by Megan Day

Probing Of Our Thoughts by Spirits

Published July 2, 2020 by tindertender

Question: Can spirits see everything we do?

Answer: They can, becaue you are constantly surrounded by them. However, they can only see those things on which they focus their attention, because they do not busy themselves with matters to which they are indifferent.

Question: Can spirits know our most secret thoughts?

Answer: They frequently know about that which you would like to conceal from yourselves. Neither actions nor thoughts can be hidden from them.

Question: So it is easier to conceal something from a person who is still alive, than to do so after the person has died?

Answer: Certainly, and when you fancy yourselves in absolute privacy, you often have a throng of spirits by your side, watching you.

The Spirits’ Book by Allan Kardec, Chapter 9, 456 & 457

I can attest to the truth of the ‘throng’. I prefer to call them voyeurs, although that might be seen as a bit derogatory. You see, I’ve been aware of my “in crowd” for some time. They try to influence decisions, they attempt to coerce me into a certain ‘belief’ about them so they can attain some sort of ‘agreement’.

If you notice your thoughts tend to be on the darker side, and you also notice an abundance of karma in your life, you may want to consider what you are showing the unseen as to who you are and what you are about.

We gain what we give.


Be aware … you are never alone, even when it seems you are.

No thing goes unseen or unnoticed.

We ought to try and remember this when we choose to behave certain ways. It will be returned to us.

And we’ll have earned it.


Noticing Self-Talk

Published May 20, 2020 by tindertender

Lately, I’ve made it a specific intention that I notice my self-talk, and when negative, instantly (or as soon as I recognize it) “re-do” the comment with something of a positive nature.

I am honestly surprised at how many of these nearly invisible phrases show up. I consider myself someone who has done a lot of inner work, yet recently have discovered I’m on the next level … the next ‘cycle’ where it seems that I’ve regressed in some ways, but no … it is the beginning of next cycle.

Choice has it … and I have choice. Will I continue the journey on the same path as previous, or will I move forward. And perhaps, moving forward sometimes feels like regression, only because it has occasional similar traits as the previous cycle, or experience.

Progress ~ It can be difficult to spot if one is too involved in beating ones self up because of the perception of no forward (or ‘upward’) momentum.

Recognize your cycles. Don’t get hung up on the details, note the larger picture of progression and you will see it more clearly.

Just today I caught myself, and thankfully, it is getting easier, quicker, to see.

I stated,

“You already finished it … you dork!”

Immediately I caught that I had called myself a dork. (NEVER speak harshly or negatively to yourself about self, not even if you are ‘joking’).


“You are SO efficient you’ve already completed that project, you’re amazing!”

**Multi-tasking … it can getcha every once and again**

Yet through it all, remember to pay attention to your talk, external as well as internal. That’s where it all begins, after all.

And as you know, internal dialogue is one of the loudest!

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