So many folks are speaking love language, and I love it! Yet I am left wondering why I do not feel giddy and over the top love like so many appear to be feeling. Wondering if I’m missing the love boat some how.
I still have doubts.
I still have trust issues.
I still look at some folks like they have a hidden agenda.
Oh how I wish I could release all that and simply BE love … all the time.
Wouldn’t it be great if one could be that, without the possibility of that love being abused or used in any way?
I think it would be grand …
Yet, in this world … it is difficult to fathom.
Sometimes I think my spiritual energetic ‘exposure’ is different than all the rest.
May there be a shift that is as beautiful as many say it will be, and may there be a space there for me and all those I have love and compassion for … may all sentient beings be free from suffering and dwell in abundant joy.
The most likely reason for “Social Distancing” is not Covid-19.
It is my perception that there is an investigation being done currently as to the individuals “power” output, the electromagnetic field of the heart. (Why still remains to be seen, most likely has something to do with ‘ascension’).
When people are too close to each other, their energies mix, making this investigation quite difficult.
Being apart forces people to rely on their own measures rather than receiving, or giving energies … which form the world-wide ‘network’.
People will feel the absence of their friends. If they are not accustomed to self-care, they will not be able to replenish their own energetic needs, especially if they eat a majority of processed foods and sweet or fluorinated drinks. Their energy will fall, no replenishment, depression sets in and chaos ensues.
To keep the energies high, avoid drugs, smoking, alcohol use and processed foods as much as possible. Drink a lot of clean water, eat a lot of organic fruits and vegetables, limit meat intake. Much of it is diseased these days, see reference below.
Each person must take responsibility for their energy, for their own health and well-being. Recharging each other has become difficult.
Move the body, flex, dance, walk, do breathing exercises … anything to get the blood going and the energy flowing.
When able, see your friends. Laugh together, dance together, dine together. Try to leave fear behind you as you move forward into your tomorrows, fear creates dis-ease.
One way to remain connected is to write letters, send cards. In this way, you can sit with your friend or loved one while you have a conversation, and believe it or not, you’ll connect energetically to them.
“The dances are prayers.” –Pop Chalee, TAOS PUEBLO
When we dance to the drum we pray to the Creator and attract the heartbeat of the earth. We never dance without reason; every dance has a purpose. We dance for rain; we dance for healing; we dance for seasons; we dance for joy; we dance for our children; we dance for the people; we dance for courage. The drum plays to the beat of the heart, to the beat of the Earth. The drum connects us to the Earth while we dance our prayers.
Oh, Great One, let my dance and prayer be heard by You.
Copied with the permission of Don L. Coyhis, from the book Meditations with Native American Elders: The Four Seasons
Enjoy Success and Happiness ~ Know that doors are opening for you. Follow up new projects, ventures and ideas. Connect with the inner fire that is driving you forward.
Take Note of Intuitive Messages ~ Use your intuition. Practice discernment. See through illusions and blockages.
Shift Your Perception ~ Change the way you think and you will change your whole reality.
Unlock the Magick Within ~ Stop looking outside yourself and recognize that you have incredible power within.
Stand Your Ground ~ Hold firm to what you believe in or are focusing on, because it is absolutely right. Know that Heaven and Earth are supporting you.
Openly Dreaming of all that Creates your mind Telling of stories Exposing your light Fly high Sing your soul
Cause there are dreams yet to be dreamed Stories yet be to told It’s time to open your heart It’s time to sing your soul
Openly Dreaming of all that Creates your mind Telling of stories Exposing your light Fly high Sing your soul
Openly Dreaming of all that Creates your mind Telling of stories Exposing your light Fly high Sing your soul
Cause there are dreams yet to be dreamed Stories yet be to told It’s time to open your heart It’s time to sing your soul
Love means many things to many people, here is one man’s expression.
YOU ARE THE ONE
Do not seek love. Do not leave yourself for love, and search for love in the other. Love is not an object, it cannot be given nor taken away. It cannot be found nor lost. Love is not a feeling, a state, or a peak experience, but what you are, presence itself.
Do not confuse love with attraction. Attraction comes and goes, can fade over time. Do not confuse love with longing. Longing is impermanent, transitory. Do not confuse love with feelings of bliss, pleasure, an excited nervous system. These passing states cannot last; it is not in their nature. Even promises, given with such certainty today, with the best of intentions, can fade tomorrow, or be broken.
Love, however, does not fade. Love cannot diminish over time. Love is not a commodity, a shifting form. Love is a field, a field within and without us, a field in which thoughts, feelings, even the most seemingly solid plans for the future, can appear and disappear. Love holds hope as much as loss, excitement as much as boredom, crushing disappointment as much as bliss. Love is the field for the shifting forms, the ground that holds us as we walk, sit, talk or do not, feel what we feel in each other’s presence, go about the business of our day, plan, eat, hope, say goodbye, try to love. Love is greater than us. We do not generate it with words and deeds, or even intentions, but we are continually embraced by it, held in its vastness, no matter what we do, or do not. We are married, we divorce; we are friends, we are lovers; we break up, we break together; we are born, we die; the field endures.
Nobody has ever given us love; that is the great illusion. We have simply remembered the field in each other’s presence, sometimes, recognised eternity in the midst of the everyday, then credited another. Love never came from outside of us; we simply touched our own presence, fell into the love that we are, and cannot not be. And nobody ever took love away from us; we simply forgot the field, and ‘blamed’ the other, and looked for love again, feeling its absence, lost in a narrative of ‘lost love’. Yet love was there, even in its apparent absence; it was present, even in the loss. It cannot be broken; a wave cannot crush the Ocean.
Do not seek love, do not look for the light, but be it, offer it; the joy of loving another is infinitely greater than the joy of fearfully clinging to another’s love, for deep down you know it is only an illusion that what you have always longed for could ever have come from outside of you. You are the One; you have always been the One.
The search ends exactly where it began – in presence.
You realise you are love itself, and this changes everything; love is yours, forever, even when it’s not.
Question: Does God prefer those who worship him in any particular fashion?
Answer: God prefers those who worship Him from the heart, with sincerity, doing good and avoiding evil, to those who think they honor Him through rituals that do not make them any better toward their fellow beings.
All creatures are siblings, children of the same God. He summons all those who follow His laws, whichever way they do it.
He who’s piety is nothing but an outward display is a hypocrite. He whose worship is an affectation in contradiction with his conduct sets a bad example.
He who professes to worship Christ, but who is proud, envious and jealous, who is hard and merciless toward others, or who covets earthly possessions, has religion only on his lips, not in his heart.God, who sees everything, shall say, “He who knows the truth is a hundredfold more culpable for the evil he does than the rude primitive man in the desert, and shall be treated accordingly on the day of reckoning.” If a blind man passing by happens to hit you by accident, you forgive him. But, instead, if it is a man with perfect vision who does it, you shall protest, and rightly so.
So do not ask which form of worship is the most suitable, for that would be tantamount to asking whether it is more pleasing to God to worship Him in one language or another. Let me reiterate: your chants only reach God when sung through the gates of the heart.
The Spirits’ Book by Allan Kardec, Chapter 2, Part 2, 654
Our heart is what connects us to all other souls and the mothership of life. And its ever so easy to love; they key is to let the heart be in charge, not the mind.
I live in a way now that if something feels broke, I fix it.
I don’t often lament anymore. Or get stuck in shame, or talk to my mom about it for hours or get everyone’s opinion or eat a bag of whatever.
I do something about it.
For example: Yesterday I was having a real AF relationship check-in with my husband, we hit a painful spot, and decided to get coaching ON THE SPOT.
We got clarity, excitement, closeness, and spent the rest of the day in bliss. The ease that we get when we have nowhere to be and no schedule to keep under other than the spaciousness of going on adventures and experiencing the world together, is incredible.
If something feels like it hurts in my relationships, I lean in and figure it out. I refuse to walk around in pain or allow my loved ones to be in pain.
I often face panic whenever I’d look at my bank account. After a year of feeling like shit, I decided to get some training on money and been rocking my woman on fire programs ever since, that continue to book up effortlessly and with so much fun.
Whenever I look at my bank account, all of my bills have been paid and I still have more than enough. It is an unreal feeling.
If something feels unclear or uncomfortable? I have a conversation right away, or at least I want to.
If something doesn’t feel quite right? I inquire about it and get to the bottom of it.
To allow something to be crunchy, uncomfortable, or unfinished, or not to speak to what I perceive to be an elephant in the room and figure it out, THAT is where I struggle.
To sit in the UNKNOWING and have no idea how something is moving or what is happening, that is when I start to freak out.
Not when I feel like I can act, repair, create, influence, make something.
I know I’m not alone in this:
High achievers, perfectionists, emotionally mature humans, we can have a real hard time with having a hard time.
Letting it not feel that good, and not making a story about it or heaping judgements on self or others. Not RUNNING from the thing that feels momentarily unsolvable, and instead, making space for all of the uncomfortable unclear feelings that come along with it.
In woman on fire, we learn how to sit in the fire. Unharmed. Freaking the FOOK OUT or going numb, running away or leaning in, and learning self-compassion and gentleness. Learning how to take a breath and make enough space for a feeling until it reveals your heart underneath. It reveals a need you didn’t realize you had, or a desire you have been ignoring.
We get to NOT BE PERFECT, and stay with it anyway. If we fail or succeed or are loved or hated, it makes no difference, for how we learn to show up for ourselves is what keeps us in the fire. Everything that is not meant to be, burns slowly and steadily away. So our aliveness can wake up fully.
Reach out to me to chat to see if this community is for you. For the ones who are tired from running from their fire and ready to embrace it.
Wake up late? Just get going, don’t let stress take over your nervous system. Slow down, you’ll get there when you get there. If you get fired, it only means its time to forge ahead on a new path, new beginnings.
Embrace opportunity to control your energetic output. Use it deliberately, fully conscious and aware.
What we put into the world multiplies.
Use your creatorship, your power, authority and leadership to generate a smoother, nicer future.
It is your carefully managed output that will generate the New Earth.
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