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Follow the Leader

Published September 30, 2022 by tindertender

Written by: @tyromper

A client & brother of mine started texting his wife every morning a few things he was grateful for.

There was always something about her, little stuff.

•Grateful you pack the kids lunches.
•Grateful you’re such a hands on mom.

Before this they had a roomate marriage at best.

A cool thing happened after a couple weeks of not getting much back besides thanks.

Then, it was thanks & have a great day too.

Then it was thanks I am grateful for you working so hard too.

Then it was videos back & forth.

Then it wasn’t roommates anymore!

I share this because the MAIN DM I get from men is I wish my wife would __ xyz then I would….


She wants to FOLLOW your lead & energy.

But you must lead & be worthy of following.

This starts by leading yourself & DOING WHAT YOU SAY YOU ARE GOING TO DO!

I used to complain my wife was negative & that she complained too much.

-The President
-My boss & clients
-My life & challenges

She was simply mirroring back my energy.

Women are amazing.

They often magnify & AMPLIFY what we put out.

Now that I don’t complain my wife is my biggest source of encouragement & life.

It’s a beautiful cycle of uplifting one another in our home.

This all starts with you fellas.

You need to make a choice today that you’re going to lead!

Never blame your wife.
Your home is on you.

Take the lead.

Start with yourself!

•Wake up without snoozing.
•Get movement in & take care of your health.
•Help your wife & acknowledge all she does.
•Be present with your kids & high energy at home.
•Never blame anyone. There’s freedom in that.

The main thing guys need is community & accountability.

We need to grow together to be our best selves!

My brother @MikeSchiff_ & I are starting our second 16 week mens group soon.

Last group we saw guys lose weight, reconnect in marriages, become present dads & more!

Our groups go for 16 weeks, but to both Mike & I it’s a lifetime brotherhood.

It never ends.

If you want a community of men that’s going to challenge you, push you, & walk into your destiny as a leader & man then DM @MikeSchiff_ or I today TEAM & we will send you more info.

Whether you join our group or not,

Take ownership of your life today.
Take ownership of your home.
Take ownership of your mission.

I had only drinking buddies years ago & my marriage, health & life was in shambles.

Then 1 decision & a community around me turned my life around!

“A husband’s leadership in marriage is not based on superior abilities but on divine placement. Leadership means assuming responsibility for the relationship, being accountable to God and putting your wife’s needs above your own. It means making her load lighter, not heavier. It means helping her develop and utilize her gifts and abilities. It means loving her sacrificially.” -Dennis Rainey


Published January 4, 2021 by tindertender

You must understand that you who are reading this, are the ones that are awake on the planet. The rest of humanity is in a deep sleeping beauty slumber, completely unaware of what’s playing out behind the scenes. Until they wake up you must continue to fight for them.

Read these words again. Make sure you understand that we do not encourage you to become violent. We encourage you to fight for your freedom and your survival as a race BUT we urge you to do this PEACEFULLY.

To fight does NOT mean you should be VIOLENT.

Contact those who are in charge (Governors, Senators, etc). DEMAND that they follow your wishes. Command them what to do. Make it so clear that there is no doubt left that you are the ones who are in charge. You are the ones who elected them to speak for you.

Make it as crystal clear like a bright day to them that they are your employees being paid by your tax money and that you expect them to fulfill your wishes and follow your demands immediately or they will be fired. Let them fiercely know that you do not accept being held up a minute longer.

STOP Giving Your Powers Away.
STOP Giving Consent.

Every time you do nothing you give consent. Every time you say nothing you are giving your power away.

This is the greatest lesson of all that you ever had to learn. How much do you honor yourself, your freedom, your basic human rights?

This is the biggest barrier you have to overcome before you can ascend with planet Gaia.

Stand up for yourselves. Fight the good fight. PEACEFULLY PROTEST. Contact those in charge and make it clear that they are not in charge anymore, you are taking over now.

Fill the streets of your home countries and REVOKE YOUR CONSENT TO GOVERNMENTAL ABUSE.

We are here with you. Cheering for you. Assisting you from the non-physical realms.

You can connect to our collective consciousness simply by calling upon us. We, The Galactic Federation are the warriors of the universe. We are the army of God.

We have sent many of us into human bodies to incarnate to your planet so we could assist you better in the physical realm without violating your free will.

Tell us to empower you with courage, wisdom, and light to become sovereign beings on your planet. Even this is depending on your free-will.

You may ask us to shower you with the necessary means to create New Earth.

This is the Victory of Light over Darkness.

Source: @Karina89350882

A Dominance Issue

Published December 8, 2020 by tindertender

… those who dominate, and those who follow along, soaking up every word, every crumb that is dropped.

A form of worship … strange.

‘Leaders’ and those who long to be ‘led’.

Isaiah 9:16

16 For those who guide this people mislead them, and those they mislead are swallowed up.

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