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Do Not Drink The Poison

Published December 21, 2021 by tindertender

… If you drink much from a bottle marked ‘poison’, it is almost certain to disagree with you, sooner or later.

You deserve to treat yourself well. You deserve to inhibit what is not good for you. You do not need to try what is bad for you, to know that it is not for you. No longer do what is not in your best interest. You have a habit or two that you would do well to let go of. You have people in your life that you keep giving time and space to, despite knowing you will suffer afterwards, that you will again be upset and disturbed by their harshness, their unkindness.

Poison does not only come in bottles. It comes in the form of others who hurt us, deliberately or even without their knowledge. It can simply be that they are not for you, and you are not for them. Poison comes in the form of words which hurt and harm, that fall from your lips or which are spoken about you by others.

There are situations you know may hurt or endanger you. There are substances which could be toxic for you and you do not need to have them in your life anymore. It is time to eradicate that which can poison you. It is not cruel to refuse to hurt yourself. You will be astonished at the energy you will have once you remove these toxins from your life.

Avoid toxic situations, people or relationships. Do not partake in what you know is not best for you. Ending harmful relationships, changing toxic habits or improving your nutrition and health regime. A clean out from your home and pantry of substances, foods, even fabrics that can ‘poison’ your personal environment. Changing unhealthy harmful thoughts and beliefs about yourself and refusing to speak ill of others. Choosing to encourage, support and lead through kindness and strength.

Artwork by Jasmine Becket-Griffith

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish

Affirmations ~ December 20, 2021

Published December 20, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

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I release remnants of the past; I step firmly over them onto my path.

I honor my creative power.

I foster gratitude in my state of being.

I make room for grace so the call of my highest destiny can be heard and acted upon.

When the Universe calls, I pick up!

I appreciate my existence.

I relish being alive.

I make the most of every moment.

I enjoy a quiet period; I regroup and stabilize.

I focus on simple daily tasks.

There is no need for me to worry.

What I wait for is being taken care of in its own time.

A new life is emerging for me now. It matters greatly.

I stay centered in the heart.

I compassionately, yet firmly, denounce any intrusion of my Sacred Space.

Life is interesting, I embrace it fully.

I release that which disrupts my peace … mental, emotional, physical and spiritual.

I use my intuition.

I practice discernment.

I see through illusions, all is revealed.

I explore my creative gifts.

I look for, and find, my perfect moment of the day in whatever form it takes.

Storms of Grace

Published December 19, 2021 by tindertender

Storms so wild
Storms of grace
I call your blessing
Into my heart now

May I release and let go
May I be revitalized and grow
I open up my heart
To you now

Storms of grace
I stand my ground
As I allow your magic
To cleanse and surround

Any outgrown energy
Which I no longer need
Anything which will sap
Or deplete rather than feed

Storms of grace
Merciful earth
With your help
I experience rebirth

~ Alana Fairchild

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Affirmations ~ December 19, 2021

Published December 19, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

Photo: Public domain image from Wikimedia Commons

I stay in the heart.

I do not need to prove myself or fight against the darkness.

I do not need to heal the dark. I let it be.

I stay connected to the light of compassion in my own heart.

I face my challenges.

I expand.

I seek the blessing in my experiences.

Inspiration pulls me toward my dreams.

I drop the tug-o-war of duality and enter a field of power.

I turn my intentions into manifestation.

I create space to embrace all aspects of Self.

I take the first steps along a new path.

Possibilities are endless.

I plant my seeds.

I cut ribbons to old ties and vows not conducive to my greater good.

I remain committed to my dreams.

I am open to the wisdom of my elders.

I am reliable.

I seek the eternal.

My base is solid.

I let go of the idea that I need to search for my path. I get out of the way and let it flow.

I love, honor and accept myself in all circumstances.

Affirmations ~ December 18, 2021

Published December 18, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

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I change unhealthy and harmful thoughts and beliefs about self, and refuse to speak ill of others.

I choose to encourage, and support through kindness and strength.

I reconnect with the light essence of youth.

I remember perfect trust, fearlessness in others and total self-reliance.

I do not distance myself from life and those around me.

I offer support when someone in my circle is in need, without hesitation or question.

I am confident solutions to anything ailing me is being taken care of.

I choose the path which makes my heart and soul sing.

I release all expectations.

There are many directions to take, none of them wrong. All hold perfect opportunities to grow and to learn.

I choose with my heart.

I am a point of power for the divine plan which works unfailingly through me. Having set my will to follow the highest within, I am strengthened to express the victorious life.

I am transported by my Power to Will.

I am in the driver’s seat.

I appreciate how far I’ve come.

I am right where I need to be.

I rest, regenerate and simply be.

I stay alert to sabotage.

I do not need to carry others fear for them. I have my own process to attend to.

I release internal criticism of Self.

Lead the Way

Published December 18, 2021 by tindertender

Be a leader – Show others how its done – You can help others!

Alice led the way and the whole party swam to the shore.

Alice takes on a new role – that of a leader. She did, after all, create the problem that they are all experiencing, albeit accidentally. She is the one who thinks through what has happened and tries to calm the creatures about her – even though that doesn’t always go right. And, she is the one being who takes charge and leads them out of the pool of tears and onto land. Just as you must do right now.

There is an emotional situation about you and it is affecting not only you, but other people, too. And, they are finding it hard to make their way back to steady ground. They are floundering amidst this sea of emotions within the present circumstances. It is up to you to lead them to the shore – to bring them back to the land. Now, this means you are to help everyone calm their emotions and come back to a more grounded, clear and stable place.

Even if you have been very emotional yourself, it is time to show leadership, set for the shore and help others make it there safely, too! Show everyone how its done – demonstrate what is best to do. Help those who, like you once were, are overwhelmed by their feelings. All you need to do is show them the way.

It is time to step into a leadership role. Others are looking to you to solve a problem or show them how to work through an emotional situation. Help others by showing them what needs to be done, not by telling them what to do. Calm your emotions, ground and center yourself, so you can be of greater service to others. You cannot help others overcome emotional distress until you have learned how to calm your own feelings. Be steadfast, strong, and encourage others by your own calm example.

Artwork by Jasmine Becket Griffith

~ the Alice Wonderland oracle by Lucy Cavendish

Affirmations ~ December 17, 2021

Published December 17, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

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I forget who I’ve been taught to be and re-awaken the innocence of the soul.

I accept the mystery of me.

I rely on heart, receptivity and nature.

New friendships, connections, gentleness and joy will be mine.

A new energy is upon me.

I draw on the lessons I have learned and use them to assist me in moving forward.

I am ready for a new adventure.

I look beyond my current situation. I raise my vibration and focus on love.

The universe is recalibrating a path that is more favorable for me.

My energy is receiving an upgrade. I am moving towards something extremely uplifting and enlightening. I stay calm.

I trust my body; it speaks to me as instinct.

I release old ways of thinking.

There is infinite wisdom ahead.

I am growing.

Things will happen when the time is right.

I trust myself.

I relax.

I embrace my destiny.

I will not be detoured when I bump against uncertainty.

I avoid toxic situations, people and relationships.

I do not partake in what I know is not good for me.

Affirmations ~ December 16, 2021

Published December 16, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

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I rise above repetitive cycles.

I sit with my heart. I take my time. I respond appropriately.

I unleash my energy from unhealthy patterns.

I transition into a new way of being.

Divine discernment lets me know when to go, when to stop, and when to drop into the space in between.

This is a wonderful time to switch-up the order in which things are done.

I tune into the deep well of compassion.

I am alert to seemingly random input which gives me clues and ideas that have not occurred to me yet.

Others will not respect my emotional boundaries that I set within relationship if I do not respect them myself.

I love myself and honor my truths and dreams. I treat myself with the same care that I wish others to treat me.

I begin and end my day in gratitude.

I continue to follow the cosmic guidance that comes my way.

I have otherworldly support coming to me from my friends from the stars.

I am in relationship to all that is.

There are no longer meaningless parts of life that burden or encumber me.

I move toward true family and a meaningful life.

I relax.

My most difficult challenges have taught me the most valuable lessons, and made me more resourceful and resilient than I would otherwise be.

I revel in blessings discovered in the most unlikely people and places.

I release what I tell myself I am. I release what others have said I ought to be.

Affirmations ~ December 15, 2021

Published December 15, 2021 by tindertender

Neuroplasticity happens when connections are made across the neural network in our brain. Essentially, our brain creates super-highways that it travels quickly in response to outside stimuli. Thought patterns that are repeated often create massive highways that the thought travels on. The more the thought occurs, the more it will occur.

One of the most effective ways to reprogram the mind, to reformat the consciousness, is through using affirmative statements. I share with you examples that you may find helpful should you wish to use them to assist in reformatting the thinking mind.

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There is beauty and usefulness in my shadow. I integrate its good mojo into my conscious awareness.

With curiosity, I discover the treasures of my shadow and let them empower me.

I attune to the non-human world. I will help animals. I enjoy their company.

I learn from my mistakes and continue to practice.

I embrace my power.

I respect myself.

I strive toward more self-love each day.

I enjoy and love who I am.

I accept praise and credit when it is given to me.

I am mindful of illusions.

I pay attention to contradictions. I notice when words and actions are not in harmony.

I hone my intuition and insight.

When remembrances of the past arise, I see it as a movie and watch it gently dissolve after replay.

I create a plan for my future, and plant seeds of intention. I am supported as I move forward.

I attract what I wish to become. I radiate what I am.

Love now encompasses both the physical attraction on the human level and the craving for the divine.

As my perception expands, I see beauty everywhere, I love all things, I unite with the divine.

I embrace my new, emerging self.

My needs are equally important as another’s. I will not neglect myself.

I do not get drawn into the dramas of others.

Rainbow Children

Published December 15, 2021 by tindertender

I Looked, and I Saw

The field was large, grass covered the ground. I heard laughter, the laughter of children. I looked again and saw them dancing in circle, a very large circle … white children, brown children, blond children, brunette children.

The chief was Native. He was directing people where they need go. There was a woman who asked one young blond boy with thick sandy blond hair if he wanted to part the sea …. he said excitedly, mine? She said yes, and with a brush, she proceeded to comb his hair forward and then part it in the middle.

A woman with streaks in her hair was with a masculine, they were observing. She kept inching closer and closer to the crowd, stepping away from the masculine she was with.

There was a big pot with a sweet syrupy elixir. This woman stepped up and put her fingers into the spill of it, mesmerized. It looked as though she was leaving behind the old, which spied and tracked, to join with the laughing children and their caregivers.

The children are being freed. The rainbow tribe is being assembled.