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Rape Triggering War

Published January 11, 2026 by tindertender

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Sandstone relief from Mathura , Uttara Pradesh, Kushan period, 2nd century. I just came across this sculpture of a man seizing or restraining a woman by both arms; another woman at right appears shocked. Abduction scene? dunno. One source suggested she was a drunken courtesan, but then why restrain her? My first thought was Draupadi being taken by Duryodhan, but no sari-pulling or hair-pulling. Maybe someone knows. In that instance, war resulted, culminating in the battle of Kurukshetra as recounted in the Mahabharata.

But this got me thinking about rape in epic literature (originally a contradiction in terms, since epics were sung, but no matter). It’s all over the Iliad and Odysseus, and Greek myth in general (I wrote a book documenting that, see Comments.) There are the foundational stories about the Rape of the Sabine women in the establishment of Rome, and the rape of Lucretia which led to the overthrow of the monarchy and founding of the Roman Republic. Other stories refer to rape as triggering wars.

Biblical stories refer to Shechem abducting and raping Dinah, daughter of Jacob (Genesis 34:1–31). In another chapter, the men of Sodom tried to rape two visitors to the house of Lot; he refused and offered them his virgin daughters instead. (Genesis 19:4–9). [Demerits to all the scholars who tried to explain this as a manifestation of traditional hospitality, not the utter devaluation of women; how was protection of family against violence not traditional?]

A similar dynamic plays out in the story of the Benjaminite men who demand that a traveler be surrendered up to them to be raped. He puts his concubine out the door instead. (I’ll tell this horrific story in Comments, but trigger warrning, and same goes for what follows.) This rape-murder leads to the other Israelite tribes making war on the Benjaminites, who refused to surrender the rapists. A bloody civil war follows, with much slaughter.

Then, having killed off most of the tribe, they felt sorry for nearly wiping out one of the Twelve Tribes. Having slain the people of Jabesh Gilead, including women, all except for virgins they had taken captive, the other tribes gave the teenager survivors over to the Benjaminites. But more female chattel were needed for wives (they must have killed a lot of women), so a plan was concocted for the Benjaminites to abduct the maidens of Shiloh at a festival dance.

Judges 21:20: “Look, there is the annual festival of the Lord in Shiloh, Go and hide in the vineyards and watch. When the young women of Shiloh come out to join in the dancing, rush from the vineyards and each of you seize one of them to be your wife. Then return to the land of Benjamin.”

“When their fathers or brothers complain to us, we will say to them, ‘Do us the favor of helping them, because we did not get wives for them during the war. You will not be guilty of breaking your oath because you did not give your daughters to them’.” (New International Version)

This mass abduction followed by serial rapes resembles the Roman story of the Sabine women, also seized at a festival. Actually, now that I think of it, Greek stories have this same theme, especially around the capture of maidens dancing at festivals of Artemis. And even an elaboration in which Spartan men dress up as maidens for a dance, either to ambush the neighboring Messenians, or to use as a pretext for invading western Greece.

Readers may be able to name other instances of this theme of rape triggering war, in ancient literature, in epic traditions of whatever nationality, or in historical legends. It is not a subject much discussed, as far as I can see, and deserves more attention. Reply in Comments.

Sacrifices, Deflowering … how many “flowers” do you think he has under his belt?

Published January 9, 2026 by tindertender

That’s the look of a guilty “man”.

Some say men are easy, because they can’t control their desires

Published January 4, 2026 by tindertender

Those entities who believe they own the whole of the world send in dancing puppets, beautiful, scantily clad succubusses, to wiggle and giggle and see if the cobra will rise from its basket and do a little weave and bob according to the dancing puppets will.

“Lust will be your downfall,” said the Most High to the warriors. Absolutely. A man who cannot control his mind, or his phallus, tends to “do the dance” and fall every time.

The hidden controllers have used the enslaved or agreeable Womb of Power against mankind for centuries, while causing great suffering for the Divine Feminine who tries, but cannot compete with the illusion, the alluring dance.

She doesn’t wiggle her hips like that.
She doesn’t dress to gain a rise out of the snake.
She’s busy building things, adding value to her soul, while he’s chasing smoke … looking for fire.

It’s too bad the Creatress doesn’t light his inner fire to match her efforts for creation … that he feels compelled to dance for the masters puppet, straight into fire of destruction.

A Lust Driven Man is the Most Dangerous Animal

Published December 29, 2025 by tindertender

A man driven by lust is one of the weakest, most dangerous life forms on the planet.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DSyV1v3EWPd/?igsh=MW0yOGhvYzU3MnFnYg==

YES!!!!!!

Published July 18, 2025 by tindertender

35,000 s.e.x. trafficked young people rescued. Putting together a case!

Celibacy Isn’t Hard for Her

Published July 13, 2025 by tindertender

Celibacy isn’t hard for a woman who knows her value.

Most men today aren’t worth her time or body.

She’s not desperate for physical connection.

She’s not settling for mediocre intimacy.

She’s not giving herself to men who don’t value her.

She’s not sharing her body with men who don’t cherish her heart.

She’d rather be alone than settle for less.

She’d rather have no one than the wrong one.

She’d rather wait for quality than accept quantity.

She’d rather protect her peace than compromise her standards.

She’d rather preserve her energy than waste it on unworthy people.

Her body is sacred, not recreational.

Her intimacy is precious, not casual.

Her energy is valuable, not disposable.

Her time is limited, not unlimited.

High standards mean high peace.

When you refuse to settle, you maintain your self-respect.

When you wait for quality, you preserve your worth.

When you protect your body, you protect your heart.

When you guard your energy, you maintain your power.

She’s not missing out, she’s leveling up.

She’s not lonely, she’s selective.

She’s not difficult, she’s discerning.

She’s not cold, she’s careful.

Celibacy is self-care for a woman who knows her worth.

She won’t give away what others have to earn.

Closed Loop Energy Exchange

Published December 14, 2024 by tindertender

Intimate union is a closed loop exchange, a sharing of powerful potency. Masturbation spews the energy out into the ethers, any energy harvester can collect, then manifest using your personal signature.

Protect your essence.
It is Sacred.

Sex vs Intimate Union

Published May 16, 2024 by tindertender

Most treat sex like porn because they see sex as an act of release rather than an act of creation/manifestation. Sex is sacred & it’s meant to heal, cause growth (through Kundalini activation) & create intimate bonds for life. Without intimacy sex is destructive to Body & Soul.

@BastAnubis37

I would add that it is also an energy drain/harvest, without sacred, intimate connection and union.

There’s no value in such an act.

It only detracts from one’s value.

Dream Lover

Published April 17, 2024 by tindertender

“Dream Lovers” tag the vaginal cavity and womb, or the phallus of the Divine. It’s the cord they use to yank back on them as they elevate, ascending into higher realms. Their pretend divine fems/masc use seggs magic together against the divine to assist in this cording. They “dirty” the divine by pushing the foul orgy magic, making them look like whores. They think they’ll elevate and rise into the kingdom, while the true divine get yanked back. They need you to remain so they can continue to drain your root and sacral chakras, your God-like Lifeforce.

Midnight Energy Harvesters

Published October 7, 2023 by tindertender

Sleeping, I vaguely felt my hands move to my private area. I heard myself say, “No.” My hands stopped. Again I heard myself speak, “I don’t want to.”

In the dream state a hungry spirit, (or an astral travelling, energy vampiring, harvester), tried to command me to masterbate. I refused.

Sex between two people is an exchange, a giving and a receiving.

Masterbation is a scattering of that precious life force energy, and some travelers in the night feast upon it.

Many feminine are having sexual dreams right now. I’m certain the masculine life force energy is being drained as well.

These harvesters collect this sacral energy and use it to power their creations.

Conscious awareness must be applied to this situation in order to command the subconscious, sleeping state.

Folks have no idea how they are being used and drained while in the other world.

Protect your energy.