Integrity

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Into The New

Published February 25, 2021 by tindertender

When my father moved onto his property he said it was a dump. People had been dropping their garbage there for years … old beds, refrigerators, you name it. It took him a couple years just to get rid of the trash.

He then proceeded to plant trees and manacure the place. Forty acres of beautifying takes time, and he enjoyed every minute of it.

These days, people from all over are calling him wanting to purchase his property. California, Florida, Washington … ALL over, people are harassing him about selling his land, his home of the last 35+ years. The shits of it is, they are offering HALF of the value of the land, and offering NO thing for the labor he has put into beautifying it.

No one wanted it while it was a trash dump, they simply added to its deterioration … and now they are clamoring for it … even though he tells them straight off it is not for sale.

The same is for people.

Many of us were once looked upon as though we were garbage, worthless bits of flesh to be owned, abused and tormented as someone else saw fit … they trashed our beautiful, childlike persona from a very early age, and they wanted us to adopt their opinions and views of us …. indeed, the majority of us did.

But we grew strong.

We nurtured and cared for Self like no other ever had.

We kicked them from our life.

We became our own Best Friend.

We learned how to walk alone, to be comfortable in the silence of our minds, and we discovered what lay in the very depths of Self.

We mended our broken heart.

We faced our triggers and we dismantled them.

We became master of our emotions rather than being ruled by them.

We decided to be alone was better than compromising our Self Worth, our personal Value, and we in no way permit these ones to take up residence here any longer.

But they clamor for it.

They want it bad.

They see us shining and bright, the diamond, once in the rough, sparkles.

Fortunately we have come to a place where we are able to say, NO. My integrity is not for sale, nor is my Life Force Essence, my purest energies, or my Soul.

The Polluters, the Violators, are not welcome here, where the Sun shines in its Highest Glory.

We are Sovereign.

We are Divinity in motion.

This Life is Ours.

And we share it with those who have also arrived in this place.

Lifting each other.

Rising even higher together.

Into the New.

If you’re searching
For the answer
To the riddle
Here on Earth,

The Riddle’s
Gone unanswered
From the moment
Of it’s birth.

Searching
For the answer
So many
Would pursue,

In favor
Of their honor
She provided
Just one clue.

Rise up
From the ashes
You decide
Which way to go,
Either up,
Down,
Or side ways,
Then you’ll need
To know.

You will Rise,
Like a flame,
Rise live again,
You will rise
Like a flame
Rise live again.

If you’re searching
For the answer
To the riddle
Here on Earth,

The Riddle’s
Gone unanswered
From the moment
Of it’s birth.

Searching
For the answer
So many
Would pursue,
In favor
Of their honor
She provided
Just one clue.

Rise up
From the ashes
You decide
Which way to go,
Either up,
Down,
Or side ways,
Then you’ll need
To know.

You will Rise,
Like a flame,
Rise live again,
You will rise
Like a flame
Rise live again.

Source: Musixmatch

The Journey

Published February 23, 2021 by tindertender

Everyone has their own path, walk yours with integrity and wish all others peace on their journey. When your paths merge, rejoice for their presence in your life. When the paths are separated, return to the wholeness of yourself, give thanks for the footprints left on your soul, and embrace the time to journey on your own.

Heart Wide Open

Published February 1, 2021 by tindertender

“Dominator culture is co-dependent culture.”
~ @PartnershipVibe

It never ceases to amaze me to see and hear people pointing at others and listing the faults they perceive to be there, or the ignoring of reasons as to why they see these things in another in the first place, mirroring back to them.

Perhaps they are part of the dominator culture. Needing to point out flaws of others so their own flaws don’t seem too big, bright, or shiny … to take attention off self and place it upon another in a manipulated fashion.

In other words … don’t look here … Look! Over there!

Dominating the viewpoints of others, forming opinions in the minds of those who will listen … about the subject matter, whatever it may be.

The need to dominate thought processes of others in any given situation is indeed the need to have another follow along with ones own personal perceptions and/or agenda … whether right or wrong.

Ever so slightly manipulating the Will of others, usurping theirs with ones own.

When others stop going along with gossip and pull away, the dominator is left standing alone, wondering, what now?

Well, dear …. Now you take a look at Self, a long introspection of what dwells there.

Release the need to manipulate anyone or anything other than the internal Self. This alone is plenty of opportunity to alter the world for the better … Unless this is not what is desired?

Heart Wide Open

When To Tune In

Published June 30, 2020 by tindertender

Some folks will say anything to flatter you.

Your ego will be so happy at receiving attention it will not allow the inner portions of self to pick up on the vibration …

Are the words truth?

Or are they being utilized to manipulate you into a specific situation and experience?

It is so important to gain control over the ego’s need for praise.

It will get you into trouble every time.

Allow the heart to see clearly … reading between the lines … increasing the chances of gaining access to transparency, to truth.

This secret powert of discernment belongs to every individual.

With practice … releasing the need for praise and promotion … truth will become more readily available and error will become less frequent.

Heck, with practice, we ALL might just become one happy go-lucky family!

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