He inquired of an invisible dominator masculine, “They like Dogs? Do they make their life better?”
Unfortunately, they like to get in my mental space, so they get to hear my opinion.
I responded, “How is it you are in management of anyone if you are ignorant of the fact that having someone or something to love and care for makes life better?”
F-ing Jack wagons.
Oblivious to the intricacies of relationship which make life worth living.
Dogs are friends, guardians, children, protectors, companions who accept without judgement and are always happy to see us, willing to go and do whatever it is we ask …
That masculines ignorance is astounding. Who decided he was worthy of leadership?
“I do not have authority over other people to tell them what to do.”
“Do I ever tell you what to do ?”
“Very rarely. We decide together and you help us to reach the right decision. Or you know the answer and explain it’s logic to us. If our logic and our answer is better you listen and use ours.”
“Exactly. It is painful for a true leader to rely on his or her authority.”
“But what do I need to do to become a leader, then ?”
Leaders are not appointed. People become leaders when they earn and get the following: Trust, Respect, Initiative: Do not wait for a perfect moment. Take the moment and make it perfect, Sharing: share information, knowledge, credit, Influence and Inspiration: Influence people to do the right things, inspire them to do their best, Empowerment: empowering others and stepping back. An employee is a rocket, a leader is a rocket booster.
Telling people what to do is not anywhere here. Because it is not what leaders do, that’s what bosses do. Leaders do not act from a position of authority or a title, they lead by influence, inspiration and a personal example.
The one thing I have come to realize is that “leadership” in this country, and all over the world, is based on ‘forcing’ people to bend their Will, to whatever laws or mandates are put in place.
Control is their game and goal, and it seems, at any cost.
I am surprised, because even the least of them ought to understand that to have the best situation and the utmost power, is by obtaining cooperation and even excitement of participation, of the citizenry.
I wonder why “leaders” who have had so much practice at managing cities, states, and countries, have not tried to get the Will of the People in agreement … and instead rob them of choice, money through taxation, food in their bellies and even the roof over their heads.
They could do so much better.
It must be difficult to reformat the agenda that has been used to reset cultures and the world so many times already. Why fix it if it ain’t broke?
Problem is …. it IS broken.
I am baffled that humanity has agreed to this template for so long.
Do you suppose it’s because of fear?
Or perhaps it is due the the frequent mind swipes and rebirths humans have undergone while in habitation of the planet.
Do you think it is both the politician AND the citizen that are fueling fear in each other?
Or is it all a game … a game in which the majority do not even know they are playing?
Do you suppose what is going on now is simply because the chessboard has too many “pieces” on it?