Many of us are like this couch. Top of the line quality leather and construction. Cold, elegant, unwelcoming even on its own, even tho It be impressive.

We cover ourselves in that which brings comfort and warmth. An inviting and friendly area offering a seat, a wrap in a cozy home-made blanky, with pretty pillows.

What else does the cover do? I protects from scratches, from anything “sticking” to it, and also it prevents debris from getting under the cushions.

This is what the feminine offers the masculine. A warm embrace. He is sturdy and strong under all that warmth, built to last.

We must ask ourselves, how do we feel about this union? Are we willing to pair, with respect, allowing the warmth and cozy to be supported by the firm and lasting?

Or will the blankets be stripped and thrown in a closet for whenever they are “needed”?

I’m sad because the warm and cozy had to become firm and strong. Being tossed aside until needed forced many to reach beyond the inner pull, becoming their own foundation.

Hopefully the past will offer brand new relationship qualities, better, stronger, more resilient, in the upcoming Kingdom Unions.