Acceptance

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‘Owning’ Lifes Experience

Published March 4, 2019 by tindertender

Note to self: Do not give other people more authority of my experience than I give myself.

There is always someone in this world who claims to know the fix to what ails you. In most cases, they may be familiar with the symptoms, but not the reality of the story, for they have not had personal experience of the same.

At times the assistance of those familiar with symptoms is needed, for they have the authority and access to many medicines which can make it possible to calm the storm in the heart and mind while the person affected gets a clearer knowledge and understanding of what is happening to them. Eventually they will be able to leave the symptom recognizer and handle their own affairs, should they choose to do the work.

I am amazed at how many people read stories in books about the Spirit Realms and take them to heart, believing that all who are not in body are bad. You ask them if they believe in God, most say yes. Ask them if they believe what they hear may be of God, and they say it’s the devil.

Some say that God would never speak to folks because he respects their sovereignty, but people have been messengers of Spirit for a very long time. This relationship was at one time more intimate, now everyone is trained to fear it, medicate it, and deny it.

Fear has had its day in my mind and life. I’m going to move forward with a different frame of mind, a mind of acceptance, and a curiosity that brings blessing to reality, not fear. Yes, I know there are many people who behave very badly, they are not who I speak of. I speak of that intimate connection with those beyond, who simply wish to be heard, not feared, not slandered, not hated.

There has been too much rejection in this world, and not enough embrace. Unless I permit myself to love it, it will never reveal its true self to me.

People have been trained to eliminate everything that doesn’t feel comfortable. Getting stressed? There’s a pill for that. Anxiety getting you down? Here’s something to calm you. Can’t sleep, too many dreams? Here, take this 1/2 hour before bed time. Having conversations with those no one else hears? Take this, it will stop them from speaking … and on, and on … anything and everything to help you not deal with the way things are, just so things can continue in the manner which has brought upset to so many lives, without actual change. Honestly, this current system is not about helping people understand, it is about keeping them quiet and docile.

“We are so captivated and entangled in our subjective consciousness that we have forgotten the age-old fact that God speaks chiefly through dreams and visions.” … “People will do anything, no matter how absurd, to avoid facing their own souls.” ~ Carl Jung

Sources for more quotes of C.G. Jung:
http://freudquotes.blogspot.com/2014/02/cg-jung-quotes.html
https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Carl_Jung

Acceptance

Published March 1, 2019 by tindertender

How must it feel for those in Spirit who are constantly rejected, fought against and slandered. How must it feel always finding yourself in a battle when all you want is to be accepted?

Humans ought to know the answer to this, for all have experienced it at one time or another … Trying so hard to be accepted, yet always seeming to wind up in a battle of sorts.

Some people go to shamans or priests or other trying to become separated from these ‘entities’. There are folks who make a living attempting to ‘cure’ the spiritual ailments of people, fighting constantly against the unseen.

Maybe the unseen simply wished to be acknowledged, made part of the ‘family’ and not rejected constantly. And maybe this rejection is why we have so many angry and hurt energies in this world.

It seems there is a severe lack of understanding between life forms. I guess love is harder to attain that many say it is. Perhaps we are in the midst of a change, a positive shift.

Silky Stubborn Flow

Published February 2, 2018 by tindertender

Silken Hair

I put you up and support you with spray, spray of care and tenderness. Yet you fall again, and again. I do not want to cut you off, I’d like to see you grow, but this is quite frustrating. Perhaps it is frustrating only because I try to form you a certain way, and you have a life of your own … it is apparent. Maybe it is time to just be with what you are, observe you as you flow.

You and I will spend this life together, for I will never shave you off. I must use my will and open nature to accept you, for you. I love you … you are like silk, never in knots. You shine brightly and leave me in awe every time I look at you. I have seen you change over the years ~ light to dark you went, but here you are … turning light again, magnificent.

 

Goal: Cup Runeth Over

Published November 23, 2017 by tindertender

overflowing-cup

In my life it has been made clear time after time that I am not quite what someone else wants in their life. I have often berated myself, accusing myself of not being good enough. I have experienced much pain due to rejection.

In my now it has been made more clear than ever that although I may not possess the qualities others perceive might benefit their lives, I do have every quality that can benefit my own.

A life lived in the attempt to be all that others think I should be has led to much heartache, for I will never be able to live up to so many peoples differing ideas about what that looks like. Better to work towards pleasing ONE (me) than the many.

I have shut the door, for now, on folks who are not willing to keep it open for me. Instead of always trying to enter their lives and be what is pleasing to them, and being rejected, I stop trying, and it is apparent they have no intention of trying to meet half way. Too much of myself winds up in disappointment as rejection of my personality is stated and made clear, so I focus on loving me. Who can do it better?

I have lost a lot of time training to be my best friend, while trying to be that to others, and failing. As time on this earth is not foreseen or guaranteed, I will not waste any more of it. Loving others from a distance, while loving myself up close and personal, is where this life is going to be spent.

Those who feel the same about the environment and other topics I care deeply about, will be there. SO … focusing on issues that are important to me, ME being one of them, and reclaiming the wasted energy of attempted people pleasing, will allow room for those who are of the same capacities as myself.

With patience and honor for self, I provide nurturing in my home, and when that cup runeth over, it will spill goodness into the outer, for that is what I cultivate here.

Humiliation

Published August 2, 2017 by tindertender

Humiliation is what we allow it to be.

I spoke of the moon, and also the world map, in naivety. I spoke of them loud and clear for the whole of all who be on-line to see and hear.

My good, long time friend warned me not to voice my thoughts aloud, he was concerned of others reactions … people can be cruel. It is true.

However ~

Just as it is my responsibility to self to allow vulnerability, it is also my responsibility to others to give them opportunity to see the darkness within as it spews forth from them in judgement.

So it is my gift … not only to me, but to others as well.

I am not afraid to embrace my lack of knowing, for only in doing so will I have opportunity to learn, only in judging me, will you have the same.

We share this bond, whether it be intentional or not.
It is truly a give and take.

Attention To Detail

Published May 14, 2017 by tindertender

Let Go.jpgCalling attention to detail is not always a trait that is rewarded, in fact, rarely so. Shining a light on dark places which are being manipulated to appear good and true, yet are not, often causes ostracization.

Walking a path alone occurs for those who refuse to be part of the mind game.

Unless a path of truth is chosen, no matter how uncomfortable that may be, self respect will not be available and more harm than good will come.

What is true today, will shift and change as time goes on, but one thing should remain the same … speaking from the heart. When others judge an honest person harshly, it is sad. Sometimes though, falsehood is more comfortable than truth. If it were not, so many people would choose different clothes.

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