Most treat sex like porn because they see sex as an act of release rather than an act of creation/manifestation. Sex is sacred & it’s meant to heal, cause growth (through Kundalini activation) & create intimate bonds for life. Without intimacy sex is destructive to Body & Soul.

I would add that it is also an energy drain/harvest, without sacred, intimate connection and union.
There’s no value in such an act.
It only detracts from one’s value.