All posts tagged Understanding

Turning Tides

Published March 11, 2018 by tindertender

One of the most disabling circumstances for humanity is, it has been stripped of the capacity to trust. Many, if not all of us, have had our trust abused. At first we believe it’s a solitary situation, so we continue to wear our hearts on sleeve. Then, it happens again. Now naivety is dissolved, and it becomes harder to have faith in the goodness of people, yet we do, again, believe and hope with faith.

Heartbreak after heartbreak, damage untold … causes friendships to be rare, any type of relationship becomes most difficult to build. This circumstance causes anger, pain, despair even.

I look at women, on women’s day, and I see them opening to each other, even though trust is difficult, still they try. It seems many women have moved beyond the thought of another woman taking their man, or whatever. The courage shown and lived is extremely powerful.

Women have decided on a large scale that we need each other if we are to heal ourselves, and the damage in the world. This union of spirit is the only way out of this mess.

There are many men who stand by woman’s side not as an authority, but as a partner, friend, and co-creator of that which is good, blessing us, and the world with their wider vision.

Seeing young people stepping into adulthood with eyes wide open, strong, and only slightly damaged dna is exciting! They are showing grit and integrity which has been lacking for some time.

As I attempt to turn back my own dna damage, I continue to watch the scene, hope is growing once more, for the future.

Relativity & The Equivalence of Reference Frames

Published February 8, 2018 by tindertender

I really enjoy seeing young people “getting it”. In today’s world there are so many people arguing whether they are right, or the other is wrong … closed minds which have a hard path to opening up to the possibility (fact) that there are indeed different observations and understanding of the exact same occurrence, and ALL of them are correct.

It is difficult to step out of the ‘right and wrong’ idea of things and come to agreement that lifes experience is so much more than imposed limitations.

I am so happy that younger people are expanding the horizon, stepping out of the box and seeing the bigger picture. There may be hope for humanity yet.

Orchestrated Separation, Shattered

Published February 3, 2018 by tindertender

It Is PossibleTime has given us one thing for certain, and that is carefully orchestrated separation. Many will say peace can never be, but this is something that’s been taught.

The system we dwell in has planned very carefully, and has become very good, at manufacturing distress and solitude among the people. With the assistance of alcohol and pharmaceuticals it is even easier to get people to bend to their will, to harm each other and themselves, rather than connect in brotherhood, sisterhood, with common goals of the better good for humanity.

If anyone cares to really observe the situation of the world, they can see it, it is plain, these tactics are not even hidden. So blatant are they, people are blinded, it has become custom, normal.

The best place to hide something is in plain sight. Put it there and tell everyone it is not … most will believe the lie. We’ve been told this too, it is no secret.

One of the surest ways to break this connection is to stop turning the television on, stop reading the news … look into the eyes of people you meet and really see them, if only for a short moment. These bits of true connection will do wonders for breaking the spell.

May clear understanding be yours, it will be frightening at first, heartbreaking, infuriating, and may make you feel as if there is no hope, that it is too late … but it isn’t too late, and there is always hope … find it. There are many who wait for you …

12 Steps For Self Care

Published August 22, 2017 by tindertender


We see everywhere we look people marching for this and for that, attempting to “change” other peoples minds about a different number of subjects.

The truth is, we have better control over changing our own heart and mind, and this is often the most avoided method of altering the world reality.

When we say, “So and so is this or that”, we ought to ask our self, “Am I this or that?” Only by doing this will we better understand that we, and they, are not so different, and the opportunity for change becomes greater.

It is near impossible to change the heart and mind of another, but it is absolutely possible, and a necessity, to look deep into our own heart and mind, shifting all behaviors that do not benefit us, or the whole.

Leading by example is the most effective way to alter the course of our collective future.


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