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Just the Facts, ma’am!

Published August 22, 2023 by tindertender

Some people have no idea what it means to hurt someone. They think because they didn’t slap them in the face or punch them in the guts, they did no harm.

Emotional and mental abuse creates trauma that must be worked through. A damaged spirit/soul/body complex can only heal if they do it intentionally, and revisiting wounds hurts real bad. This type of abuse literally alters the life path of another.

Some people have no idea what it means to hurt someone, painting themselves as a saint. Surely getting through the pearly gates.

They have to learn what it means to hurt someone.
And that means they have to experience it first hand.
And if they are already playing the victim, well, it’s gonna be a very rough, long hard road.

I hope they can persevere.
And I hope they choose to become kind, rather than vengeful.
I hope they learn patience, as so many of their targets had to, while being extremely challenged.

Some folks get cake the first half of life. They get glory, celebration, status and admiration.

Then the illusion dies, and people simply aren’t enamored any longer.

Some folks suffer real bad the first half of life. They wonder why life is so hard. They look around at others sucking on silver spoons.

Some get angry, bitter. They decide that to ‘take’ is the key. They make shady deals to get one up, only one…

Others sing the song of Patience. They don’t become bitter. They are faithful, that in the grand scheme of things, this will make sense. They remain open hearted to love, knowing it may hurt at some point … but ever faithful to love.

Some take.
Some wait.

What do you think the actual Big Kahuna is going to say about all of it?

Not much, most likely.
Just the facts, and the decree.
It won’t be denied.