You call it FREEDOM, but biology calls it FAILURE (a man can’t truly love two women and here’s why):
This isn’t about morality. It’s about biology:
The Y chromosome doesn’t lie. The vasopressin gene responsible for pair bonding – is embedded in a man’s DNA. The higher the level of this hormone, the stronger the instinct to attach, protect, and invest in one woman. It’s not a choice. It’s hardwired.
True alphas are monogamous.
Swans. Wolves. Eagles. All dominant males in nature choose one mate and fiercely protect their bond. Why? Because evolution eliminates the weak. Males who spread themselves thin produce weaker offspring and vanish.
Polygamy is a myth invented by the weak.
It’s not “male nature.” It’s a cowardly way to escape intimacy, depth, and emotional growth.
Real bonding rewires the male brain – activating the prefrontal cortex, the center for strategy, long-term planning, and protection.
Monogamous men are more powerful. They have higher testosterone, more dopamine in stable relationships, and greater emotional resilience. The ones jumping from woman to woman? Burnt out hormones, fried nervous systems, and a void they can’t fill.
Real strength lies in choosing one. The best one. The most worthy. And building depth over time. Collecting mediocrity is not “alpha” – it’s the move of an emotionally stunted boy afraid to grow up.
A If you can’t build with one woman – the problem isn’t human nature. The problem is you.
Monogamy isn’t a limitation. It’s a test of strength. And if you’re truly a man – you already know that.