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Self Love

Published September 18, 2017 by tindertender

“Self Love ~ This is not lust behind you.”

Over time, throughout life, you may have been told that it is selfish to think of yourself before others, you may have been made to feel shame for doing so.

Shed that falsehood. It was only meant to control you.

You Are EnoughSelf love is not found in the opinion of what others have over your ‘appearance’ or ‘what you possess’. It is not found in the passion (lust) one may feel for you.

Self love comes from respecting yourself, from going within and discovering who you are. It comes from looking around at the people in your life and seeing whether they add to, or subtract from, the value you feel ought to be there. Not through ‘things’ but through actions.

Are you being assisted? Are the household chores shared? Who feeds the animals every night? Who cooks the dinner and cleans afterward? Laundry? Who changes the sheets on the bed? When every electronic gadget in the house is left on, whether in use or not, does this speak of caring about what the monthly bill will be? Does this carelessness show concern over the pocketbook and what is left for necessary purchases?

Look at the small things, the little things that add up to so much. Go deep into your heart and mind and see there what you find has true value.

A comparison I like to use is … seeds, or money (things)? When shtf, what do you suppose will have more value?

What The World Needs

Published September 14, 2017 by tindertender

Are the recruiters more important than the recruits? It seems they think so. The young are lined up in rows, dead. As the fat cat sits behind closed doors sipping on a drink, eating a grand meal, the vulnerable die in wars they did not start. Why are the young sacrificed in wars that old men begin? Why do old men deem the younger lives worthy of this, rather than life? Who are they, that do not seem to care for the living?

Mind washing … a belief is instilled that killing is an honorable occupation, that they are strong and resilient (which they are) however being strong and resilient does not mean one has to sacrifice their life for ‘peace,’ for war has never, and will never, bring peace … it will only bring more war, more fear, more chaos.

Meanwhile, the civilians who do not fight in wars are here, working as slaves, to have their wages taken in ‘taxes’, forced to pay for this death and destruction, without consent, the methods of warring not even made known to those who pay for it.

Beautiful lives are lost, over fictional stories and manipulations of the greedy and power hungry who have political ties. If those governing the system were to fight their own wars, war would end, for it is they who perpetrate it on the world.

Could it happen again?
http://www.bbc.co.uk/guides/zsshhyc
“Governments have the power to create an institutional, organisational, situational framework that will harness people to kill. They prey on people’s conformity, their deference, and their desire to be held in the esteem of their comrades.”

https://psmag.com/news/makes-normal-people-commit-war-crimes-77182
“Most of the time, soldiers who commit atrocities are not sadists or ‘bad apples’ … These soldiers are ‘normal people’ but they have been trained to obey orders with no discussion.”

Does this training excuse the actions of young people? I suppose it depends on who is doing the answering of the question. If it be the trainers and the ones doing the actions, a profound YES will be the answer. However if you ask those left behind of murdered families, those who have been raped or tortured by the ones ‘following orders’, there will be a definitive NO.

When did it become more important to follow orders than to follow ones own heart? When did it become acceptable to relinquish ones own authority over their personal life to another human being, who then decides whether they shall live or die?

Creator not followerThis is a screwed up and skewed reality that has been created by men who have their fingers intertwined in the purse strings of governments and secret societies everywhere.

When will the young people decide the war making business is not an ‘easy out’? When will they decide that building a peaceful and productive future is more profitable that policing the world?

When people are lifted as brothers and sisters, rather than shot down and murdered as an enemy, the world would begin to level out.

The world needs peace makers.
Are you one?

A Battle Is Not Needed To Win This Fight ~ Only A Steady Stream Of Love, One Drop At A Time

Published August 20, 2017 by tindertender

Years ago something happened to me, it took away the ability to have a personal relationship. I, at times, feel as though I have been robbed, that a thief came into my life and stripped this capacity from me. Sometimes I think it would be nice to share with someone, to be held … but truthfully, that is the extent of it, all of the other drama and energies spent, I now feel are better used elsewhere. So back and forth I go with this thought. Missing being close, and then realizing I am close to so much more now days instead.

DSCN0511I recently replied to a blog someone wrote about sex. They wrote that if you don’t get it, you lose the desire for it, you lose the ability to think clearly, blah blah blah. The response to my reply was pretty amazing … quite a few women stated that it sounded like “you can’t get it”. Well, I can, I simply am so over that shallow chasing of the elusive dream. Momentary (whether the evening, the year, or years) pleasure, and the compromising in order to ensure someone else has no complaint … argh!!! Please …

My ex-husband still lives here, and even he is kind of in my space. If I want to shout to the walls, or cry and howl at the moon, I must face his opinion and questions about whether I should get on medication. See, that little thing right there, is why I do not choose to have relationship. I do not live for someone else’s opinion on who I should be, or what I should be like.

That being said, I do miss the hugs. The church I attended in my last home town was great for that fact (one of the many great things). Every one hugged, it was a welcoming and a departure thing. I loved the connection and the freedom to hug someone without that “icky” uncomfortable, too close feeling.

I also recognize that things never stay the same.

Someday there will be another shift, I am hoping a GREAT BIG one!!! Paranoia over being touched has gone rampant. People feel afraid that if they allow a touch, they’re “asking for it”,  then there are those who feel they will “get it” if someone allows a hug, well, they only take privileges that are not granted.

DSCN0519This world is screwed up from the top down. This is how it works, yes … from the top down. We see it in corrupt governments imposing corrupt rules and regulations, we see it in our justice systems where the victim is further victimized and innocent people are punished, we see it in families which allow their children to be abused, and then we see it in ourselves, as bad habits which we may find difficult to break. My hope is that the cycle of all this drama and harm stops with this generation, Right Now.

If we all awaken to the fact that we have been playing rolls created by sick minds, and if we choose to step out and away, breaking free from this sinister game, and do the work to break these “habits”, it WILL change. However, only if we do the work, and look deep within our self to see where the connection has been broken.

Change does not happen in the fight to alter others beliefs. Change happens when the energies to do that fight are withdrawn and utilized for peace … peace in our own minds and lives. This then ripples out like that perfect rain drop when it falls on a body of water, touching other ripples caused by other rain drops. A battle is not needed to win this fight, only a steady stream of love, one drop at a time.

Rebels of the Forgotten World

Published August 9, 2017 by tindertender

I wish humanity would learn to respect each other and the values each culture carries. If they are NOT hurting anyone or the land, they should be free. If the ARE hurting people and the land, they should be jailed, and taught a better way.

Wide-spread Danger ~ Collapse Of Eco-systems

Published August 4, 2017 by tindertender

Fires blaze across countries, and we ask why? How does the opportunity for such flame increase so? We can thank the aerosol sprays from the planes and people who release them for much of it. These chemical concoctions have damaged our trees ability to absorb moisture, and what they do absorb is toxic, they become dry and brittle, and one tiny spark lights it all ablaze.

If the trees die, we die. Whole ecosystems are collapsing all over the globe and our rapidly dying trees are the most visible harbinger of what is unfolding. Few seem to notice the die-off until it is pointed out to them, but once recognized, what can be seen is alarming. On a geological time scale the human race has decimated planet Earth in the blink of an eye. Though there are countless sources of anthropogenic damage to our planet, climate engineering stands out above all the rest combined. The list of environmentally devastating factors directly relating to the ongoing geoengineering programs is very long. Trees are succumbing to this onslaught and the human race will follow if our species does not completely alter its current trajectory. Global geoengineering is completely disrupting the hydrological cycle (http://www.geoengineeringwatch.org/ge…), destroying the ozone layer (which is exposing all life on Earth to extreme UV radiation http://www.geoengineeringwatch.org/ex…), and contaminating the entire surface of the planet with highly toxic bioavailable heavy metals and chemicals. Massive levels of radio frequency transmissions directly related to climate engineering are yet another layer of destruction which is radically affecting the trees, us, and the biosphere as a whole. It is imperative to wake the masses to our common plight. All those who are already awake are needed to assist with the ongoing critically important campaign to awaken others. Arm yourself with critical data and pass it on, make every day count in this battle. The attached 10 minute video shows first hand how rapidly our forests are dying, if the trees die, we die.

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