Letting Go

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Sharing, Healing, Moving On

Published October 1, 2018 by tindertender

Recently I shared my #metoo experiences and today I took the sharing down. It amazes me how shame of another persons act upon me can still be so embedded in the psyche.

My life is moving forward, as it has always. The wrong-doings against me proved very well the privileges people feel they are entitled to. It also made clear the pain in this world, for hurting people hurt others, this includes those who have strived for financial or power gain while their hearts wither and atrophy.

Indeed, since Divinity is experiencing life through multiple facets, it also knows the hearts and minds of humanity. It knows those who choose to harm or take advantage of others and then blame them for their own deeds while they gather supporters, and it knows those who carry the weight of immoral behaviors bestowed upon them. It knows how an attempt to ‘join in’ with what seems can’t be beaten turns into a walking away and shedding company with the likes that repulse heart space.

Today, I walk away from all that has ever violated my heart, my trust, my mind and my peace.

I wonder what “enduring to the end” really means. The Bible has been horribly edited and tailored with just enough of the original to keep the masses in the dark, thinking they are in the light. I do not feel the need to endure trespasses against me, nor do I feel the need to try and understand their behavior.

I will be busy creating a better world for my end of days … and it won’t be involving anyone who lacks a willingness to clean up their own inner chaos.

Freedom In Love, You Are Heard

Published July 25, 2018 by tindertender

When things start spinning it is instinctual to grab onto something, to attempt to stop the fall. As the struggle ensues, fear grows, panic takes over. Overcoming the inclination to scramble for safety is near impossible. Do it anyway … let go, trust that all will be well.

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Photo by Derek Owens

You’ve done all you can do for now. Unwind and allow your story to unfold of it’s own accord. You’ve earned the right to rest and relax. Remember the saying, “We do without doing and everything gets done.”

See yourself in the mirror made by the events in your life. What you are is what you attract. Certain events are fated to test our faith, beware falling victim to them, or blaming yourself for them. Rather, find yourself within the web through your life. Observe how you responded to life’s challenges, great and small. Release judgement and accept things exactly as they are, with love.

Honor every part of your story as essential to your highest unfolding. You will find answers in a thorough and honest self-appraisal.

The correct next step will be revealed – just in time. Keep listening for the lessons that the vulnerability of love brings.

Be tough, have courage, and dare to dream no matter what the circumstances. It may seem to be a hard time, but not only will you survive – you will thrive. In spite of conditions, you’ll succeed. Expect nothing less than what is in your most precious dreams and watch miracles manifest.

Look up. See the opening in the sky, the circle of blue filled with cotton-ball clouds, focus on this. Relax into it.

The Non-Conformist

Published November 29, 2017 by tindertender

Breaking OutShifting color turns to amber, dense form. Ebony looks like licorice, I dare not bite … open end, raw connection. Tickle at end of nose, as if there were a hair there … but no … scent gone now.

Delicate movements, no spill, replenished supply. Formula for pleasure, lasts for a time, out of sight out of mind.

Where did the heat come from? I did not sense it at first. Black spots on white, stubborn, settled in, comfortable right where they are.

Who wears a red bow tie at night? Perky and stiff all at once. Images so dark, it is a challenge to lighten them, to brighten them, what will they become?

coherenceSlowly with downward motion, equally slow to rise … moving to and fro, settling once again. This makes no sense! What ever does? A strange convincing is what we give ourselves, master story tellers, awesome reality creators. Think ~ great surprises await.

Misfit phrases make beautiful lyrics for song. How many life experiences can one tune hold? How many memories, or current realizations?

Practice … practice releasing anything coherent, break open that cage of conformity, let it go. Standards and norms are not to be sought after. No cookies for the cookie cutter, the mold has been broken.

Oscar WildeHa, ha, ha, a chuckle rises from depths, laughing, silly nonsense. Imaginings of thoughts potential, mayhem?

Current bounces high coming to a point as it peaks and falls once again, rapidly. A slight, ever so faint smokiness develops … unseen, barely noticed.

Two circles, lopsided beauty they hold. Delicate remnants of the past, collected there and held as treasure.

Mired, or Mirrored … who knows. The mystery really isn’t a puzzle at all. Categories fall, they fail. New beginnings forming some day, a new end.

Purposeful opening to scattered remains of what began as a question never fully answered.

Self Love

Published September 18, 2017 by tindertender

“Self Love ~ This is not lust behind you.”

Over time, throughout life, you may have been told that it is selfish to think of yourself before others, you may have been made to feel shame for doing so.

Shed that falsehood. It was only meant to control you.

You Are EnoughSelf love is not found in the opinion of what others have over your ‘appearance’ or ‘what you possess’. It is not found in the passion (lust) one may feel for you.

Self love comes from respecting yourself, from going within and discovering who you are. It comes from looking around at the people in your life and seeing whether they add to, or subtract from, the value you feel ought to be there. Not through ‘things’ but through actions.

Are you being assisted? Are the household chores shared? Who feeds the animals every night? Who cooks the dinner and cleans afterward? Laundry? Who changes the sheets on the bed? When every electronic gadget in the house is left on, whether in use or not, does this speak of caring about what the monthly bill will be? Does this carelessness show concern over the pocketbook and what is left for necessary purchases?

Look at the small things, the little things that add up to so much. Go deep into your heart and mind and see there what you find has true value.

A comparison I like to use is … seeds, or money (things)? When shtf, what do you suppose will have more value?

Healing Takes Time

Published May 18, 2017 by tindertender

I woke this morning with the residue of yesterday. The years come pouring back of pain, anger, retaliation. I want to defend myself, yet the truest way to do so is not any of those already mentioned. The best way is no participation. I will take my energies and my attempts to get along and I will instead focus on loving me … just the way that I am.

I find myself alone most of the time. This is perfectly fine for when I am around others who are close to me they seem to feel the privilege of verbal assault, and then comes the go’round of defense. Oh how ugly this attack is, and it lasts. If I attempt to argue the points, defend in any way, then of course the other will retaliate in a manner that is equally, if not more so, unpleasant. And it goes on and on.

healing_2So I walk away. I do not play. I can still love a person without being part of that viscous cycle. Game over.

1)     I identify myself with the Living Spirit ~ with all the power, all the Presence and all the Life there is, and my world is AWESOME!

2)     I am God’s LOVE in active expression, and my relationships are always unfolding and sustained in harmony and divine order.

3)     My heart is open and receptive to the highest love, affection, support and joy! I am loved and loving!

4)     Knowing that the Divine Presence flows through all beings everywhere, I see, feel and celebrate Spirit in ALL people.

5)     I sense and welcome the divine and harmonious activity of Universal Good embracing and revealing Itself in every relationship in my life.

6)     I am irresistible to love, and therefore I am irresistible to my right and perfect partner. I partner with Spirit within me, and am right now aligned with fabulous love and energy in every part of my life.

If relationships in life prove not to hold these thoughts or ideas and feelings, it is best to distance ones self from them and nurture these thought forms on our own. Sometimes letting go is the highest form of self love.

Attention To Detail

Published May 14, 2017 by tindertender

Let Go.jpgCalling attention to detail is not always a trait that is rewarded, in fact, rarely so. Shining a light on dark places which are being manipulated to appear good and true, yet are not, often causes ostracization.

Walking a path alone occurs for those who refuse to be part of the mind game.

Unless a path of truth is chosen, no matter how uncomfortable that may be, self respect will not be available and more harm than good will come.

What is true today, will shift and change as time goes on, but one thing should remain the same … speaking from the heart. When others judge an honest person harshly, it is sad. Sometimes though, falsehood is more comfortable than truth. If it were not, so many people would choose different clothes.

Ties Become Chains, They Grow Heavy

Published February 17, 2017 by tindertender

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Everywhere I turn … I am wondering why? Why am I even here? Surely there is something more important. Why can’t I just get on with it already? What is it? Just let me at it!!!

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I have practiced working very hard my whole life. Everything I take on, I throw my full being in to. Sometimes it is good, and sometimes it hurts, but it always lends experience of perseverance, and continued  stretching of the capacity of comfort zones.

How wide must I grow? How far must I stretch?

PanicStretchComfortZones.jpgI try to have many experiences in varying arenas (consciously, or no) specifically for this reason, to expand.

If I had no ties … if I had no pets … I might just do what I have done before ~ simply take the leap of faith. But in truth I fear for my beloveds well-being, and so I hesitate. Some may say I’m too old for that thinking …. HA.

How much can one stand? I am not responsible for past choices others have made, and yet I carry a load from those choices on my shoulders. It is heavy, and I do not want it … it does not belong to me.

I have indeed carried my own load to twilight zone and back, still here, still sane, still … able, capable, and strong.

I look for options. Perhaps one I find will enable me to be comfortable enough with the safety of my fur kids, I’ll jump. It’s like being on a motorbike out of control, veering for the cliff … I stand on the pedals and ready myself for the bail (yes, this really happened) and just before hitting the guard rail the one driving gained control and righted the course.

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Instinct is tensing and the time nears, to once again, leave it all behind and start fresh. Ties become chains, and they grow heavy.

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