All posts tagged Direction

Flashback, Renewed Purpose

Published March 10, 2018 by tindertender

I watched myself as I loudly sang a song, eyeliner darkening my eyes. Thin, pretty, and rambunctious, living an uncontrolled existence, rebelling against everything, and everyone. There were many lies told about me and gleefully spread by those who heard them, but did not know the truth. They saw my nature and assumed knowledge.

This was a short road to hell, one which the life lived practiced for. So much time wasted being angry, pretending to be happy.

In walks a man, a spiritual man, young … behind the scenes he assisted me in releasing these emotions, becoming more stable and strong. Old habits fell by the wayside, and forgiveness was given those who I had anger for.

Nearly 2 decades I have fought against this, demanding to make my own decisions … danger of anger reappearing, sneaky that way. I recognize it as it creeps in, I sense old habits behind the curtain inching forward. A revving up of what is desired in life is needed. A conscious choice must be focused upon.

Grounding is in order. There are 7 bags of dirt in my car waiting for me to clean out the garden bed and refresh it for new crops. It is going to be a sunny, warm day, perfect for laying hands in soil, listening to calm music, earthing.

This is an admission of error, my own. For so long I have denied any comfort from another, for deep inside I did not believe it was deserved, but I know better … for we are ALL deserving of compassion and assistance. So once again I embrace this care and offer apologies, and a renewed effort to remain on track.

Love is, and has always been, at the deepest core of my person. It was poisoned against me, and in turn against everyone else. No more … I concentrate fully on eliminating this toxic debris called self despise and move into the future, full speed, for positive change.

I hope you will join me.

Wonder Woman

The High Road

Published August 23, 2017 by tindertender

When you are told you cannot join the group, when you are consistently denied, take the high road. While the others are walking the lower road together, they essentially force you to walk the alternative route.

Remember …

We travel quickest when we travel alone. Do not waste time feeling dejected, rejected, or sorry. Be glad instead, for you have been offered opportunity to increase the length of the journey, and the speed and which you rise.

Travel with love in your heart, and as you look below and you see them on the other path, smile, and thank them as you move swiftly by, and up. Focus not on doing better than … but on the work that must be done, the work that only you can do.

The world depends on you ~ on your stamina, on your unbreakable will, on your strength of character, on the fact that you hold honor for all beings in your heart and soul.


Published August 2, 2017 by tindertender

Every human being, when they become conscious, has an opportunity to make different choices that will affect their lives … I am one of them.

Every waking moment, and every decision we make, will determine the path that we walk.

Past decisions do not determine the outcome of the future, for this moment is yet to be.

Change Is Inevitable

Published June 15, 2017 by tindertender

With an open heart and open mind, in gratitude, acceptance of knowledge must be. Asking “Why?” is no longer needed, for in the quiet the answer is already there.

Panic does no good. Change is inevitable. Rather than focusing on what ‘might’ be, focus on now, and what actions will be taken to improve this moment. The intention behind building the future is what is important. For peace to thrive, this intention must be strong, consistent, and true.

Road and MoonJust as in taking a road trip we cannot arrive until we drive, the outcome of peace will not happen until we drive there. Let not the mind travel ahead, reign it in and focus on the intention. The end result will be more solid this way.

Every small detail has a tremendous value. This life is training on how to adapt quickly to change. How well we thrive is up to us. No one else is needed to make these choices, to decide for ourselves what we must do, or where we must go in order to receive benefit.

There are many in the world who will turn their back, who will attack ~ Pay them no heed. Like the wind, flow around them to another destination … physical, mental, spiritual. Only the individual knows in their heart what is best for them personally. It is not necessary to convince the whole crowd.

Trust in your intuition. Trust in the silent urging of the soul. It will not fail you.

Daily Drama & Trauma

Published February 7, 2017 by tindertender

Heart strings are pulled, emotions like live wires. Give yourself the gift of a quiet moment, sit with it for awhile. Make the connection.

Let us turn off the television. Separate ourselves from the drama for a time. Love the kids, the pets, ourselves, and our connection with our Guide, with our God.

Lazy Sunday Morning

Published February 5, 2017 by tindertender

My Snowy girl is loving the fire. Seems a good place for an after breakfast nap.

My Toby boy prefers to stay right next to mom.

And while mom is blessed with this moment, she too, enjoys a wonderful piece of talent and art from these fellows.

This morning sends much to be grateful for. Amidst chaos, there is peace, there is love, there is talent and beauty and strength.

Harmony in all forms are uniting, people’s hearts are expanding, energy touching together and raising the pitch.

What a privilege to be here during these times. To be able, and capable, of altering the reality … from pain, to gain … from greed to true wealth for all … from discord to harmony … and from hate and fear to love.

Thank you for being here, for choosing to apply your powers for increased blessings ~ for ALL life.

Just … WOW.

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