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What Are You Made Of?

Published October 12, 2018 by tindertender

For us to find the beginnings of true peace and to extend a compassionate hand to others, we must start with compassion for ourselves. Forgive yourself. Forgive others. Compassion for another’s situation is important. Consider another persons point of view and choose connection rather than separation.

It’s time to think big. You are a star in your own right. There are unlimited possibilities. It is fine not to know every detail before proceeding. Mystery is a natural part of life. Share the infinite and expand accordingly. Think big and set positive intentions.

You are creative in every way. There are no barriers to constant, consistent creation. Allow yourself to create in joy, not because of pressure. Connect more deeply with the earth.

Do not give up; there is hope yet. Hope is a life changing emotion. Without it, people literally die. It is important to understand that hope requires some action. If we decide to co-create with our chosen deities and truly have faith in this process, we will not need to ask for a miracle, because we are working toward what we want with assistance. It is important not to just hope for change but to hope from a place of good intention, and to act.

Allow what you no longer need to be destroyed or reduced. Build your emotional authenticity. We aren’t always taught how to deal with sadness, anger, depression, or even jealousy, but they aren’t strange or unnatural emotions. In fact, everyone feels them at some point or another, but it is how we express them that makes the difference. In accepting these emotions and expressing them in a healthy way, we are able to release them and move on.

We are all irresistible in our own ways. Enjoyment is a natural part of life. Center yourself and be confident among chaos. External beauty is not enough ~ it is confidence that truly creates beauty.

Justice will be done for the good of all. Take responsibility for your actions. The chaos in life will end; natural order will be restored.

You are enough. Build your self-esteem from the inside out. It’s your turn to shine! Be the sunshine in your own life! If your strong, healthy self-esteem tips over into arrogance or narcissism, it is not true balance. In this world full of celebrities who are famous just for being famous, it is not surprising that many people believe that self-esteem and self-worth come from the outside in, from the admiration of others. Take the admiring people away, and if there is no solid core of self-worth, there is little left.

Trust that you have enough. Ask and you will receive. It is time to prune back the dead wood in order to grow. Nourish yourself and the earth. When we struggle to let go, we may feel stagnant for a time. When circumstances seem grim, we can catastrophize what is going wrong and easily overlook the things in our lives that are doing well. Sometimes things need to clear out to make room for another. Tough decisions need to be made at times. If brave enough to leave behind that which no longer serves highest good and move naturally, freely, in the direction we really want to go, the fruit of our labors is wildly born.

It is time for change, and it will be positive. Respect your own natural cycle. Be mindful of seasonal changes and go with the flow taking these into account in your diet and activity level. Life cycles are natural. There are times to feel introverted and extroverted, energetic and restful, happy and sad ~ none of these is better than the other. Take time to connect with your personal cycles and you can expect to reap many benefits.

Don’t expect yourself to be happy just because others are, or ready for the same steps at the same time. Let your body and mind experience your life naturally and without expectation based on someone else’s cycles. Pressuring yourself or others to want the same things at the same time isn’t healthy or respectful to your true self.

Are you crazy? No … you’re experiencing the cycle of your life, unique, and yet similar to all other life. It will be easier should you embrace these cycles, rather than fight them, or try to alter them to conform with others that you may feel are more ‘normal’. There is nothing more ‘normal’ than your own cycle and rhythm, embrace it … in all it’s pain and glory. This is your dance. Honor it.

 

Large Life

Published October 2, 2018 by tindertender

It is quite interesting that I should come across this video this morning.

I will never forget being so afraid of what was ‘outside’ that I sat frozen ‘inside’. I had to urinate so badly that I finally said to myself, fine, if someone or something ends my life when I walk out these doors, so be it … I walked outside, and no one was there to harm me. I walked straight into my overwhelming fear and found it to be nil.

As time progresses I find that the reactions I receive from people are me from a previous time in life. I often find myself saying that was me when … I behaved just like that!

I resonate with what she says about the spirit being sort of separate from every day life … and still I watch as it is uniting with all else as well. It is taking time, but it is happening.

The running away she mentions is so true! I ran and ran and ran, and then I got tired of running, I got tired of the same old story playing out in my life. So I dealt with the pain, I stopped all the things I used to do to try and bury the pain and the shame. I then began to understand that what happened to me was not anything but experiencing others in this world … their story, their journey did not belong to me, it was only experienced by me. This brought much relief and freedom. Of course the understanding never ends, it morphs as it needs to, in time.

The union of vibratory structures, bodies and colors extends beyond that which we can see. It is amazing how large this life really is.

Truth Is Simple

Published September 5, 2018 by tindertender
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Photo by Hello I’m Nik

I think you know … despite all that may have been said, or the tantrums experienced, Love, Joy, creating Peace, Sharing and Caring are where true strength is. Everything else, ALL else, is an attempt to thwart it.

We can look around us and see how the emotions of people are being manipulated by circumstances they have no control over. The body and mind, being mostly water, are affected in an intense way by all the currents of electromagnetic waves being sent here and there, moving through the human body and mind.

The body is one big antenna. It picks up on signals we cannot audibly hear, and reacts. Unless we are aware of the subtle energies and how they move through us and their affect on the emotional charge we hold in our mind, we will be subject to them. When aware of these things, we can recognize them when they occur and head them off at the pass, so to speak.

When we begin to realize and recognize these manipulations we can better look around us and see them in the reactions we experience in others when they interact with us. These invisible signals are combined with dogma, which instills a fear in people (if you don’t believe this, or if you dress like that, etc. etc. you’ll be punished eternally sort of stuff).

When fear is sufficiently implanted in the minds of people, then this fear can be manipulated using these invisible signals … see? Breaking free from fear is difficult, shedding the rules and regulations mankind has imposed on the spirits of their fellow brothers and sisters is hard.

Joy and Peace are the desire of ‘most’ people. Some have gone too far into darkness, and we can only hope they’ll find their way out of it. The main focus ought to be on breaking free from the chains of imposed fear, and then creating that which we wish to see in this world … Joy, Peace, Sharing, Caring.

Suspicion and Fear, Anger and Jealousy ~ These thing inhibit proper formation of Love and Compassion. There are those on the ‘job’, their duty is to unbalance Love and instill Fear. The few who do these things desire to see a shrinking of Love given in the world … and through fear and paranoia they have been succeeding.

But we see this now, don’t we? To hole up and not give of ourselves is to essentially cut off from every possibility of creating good. If we are not open to the possibility of pain, then we are also closed off from the possibility of Love … this reality we all wish more of. We CAN have it, but it requires courage, and willingness to bear the attack of the those who wish to kill love.

We are warriors of Love, and although it may appear we are losing the battle, it is quite the contrary. In fact, I like to think the dark deeds of those destroyers are back-firing on them, for they have opened the eyes of many to the stark contrast between shadow and light, making it more apparent what has been going on.

Choice ~ It is where your power resides. You have everything within you needed to win this battle.  This fight isn’t with swords or guns or fists … it is of spirit. Although this is what the bible tells us, that story is filled with half truths, just enough truth to confuse. Rather than rely on the book alone, trust in your personal connection to Spirit, to the Divine which desires to have union with each and every Soul … with You.

Trust the inner messages coming your way, do not doubt. Other people have no authority over this relationship each individual holds with Creator. Every person has a unique and personal connection to that Spark which wants the very best for humanity, for ALL life. If the inner intuitive messages are of Love and Kindness, trust them … if they are dark and desire you to harm anything, anyone, or yourself, they are of the parasitic invader, who is longing for destruction.

This is a serious matter, and there are those who have cultivated your passivity by asking you to give up your authority, handing it to someone else who will save you, and while ‘some’ of what they say may be true, the One who longs to save you also needs His warriors … and that is You … and Me … WE.

Energetic Keys of Restoration

Published August 10, 2018 by tindertender
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Photo by Katy Belcher

It is tempting to focus on the path others are on, however energy given to these things only fortifies their purpose and goals. Rather, pull your mind back from them, gather your energy to yourself, balance it … then emit it out into the fields which you desire in this world.

Most of us long for peace, safety, and a life filled with enough. Some others long for chaos, the power to instill fear in humans and animals, and stealing the ‘enough’ from people so they have a glutenous horde of wealth.

You can see from looking in the recent past where energies are focused. The news guides minds to the path they wish for them to take, energy is focused there, and then they win … time and time again.

Creator Soul ~ this is your world. Do not allow the parasite to feed off you any longer. Claim your power. Focus, with intention, that which is yours for creation. Use your word, your heart, your energies, and your action. Compassion, care, love and joy are all possible realities and can be grown in abundance just as, and more so, that those things we have seen promulgated.

This land IS your land, this galaxy IS your galaxy, this life IS your life … and through sharing and caring and recognizing yourself … your pain and suffering, joy and happiness … in others, you recognize what it truly means to be family.

The rest follows, as union is made and creation amplified.

Choice is your power, and your Will enforces it.

And so it is …

Truth Sits At The Edge Of Illusion

Published April 24, 2018 by tindertender

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The truth has been withheld for so long. Even now, my consciousness struggles to release, yet to also hold on. Standing on the edge it was clear that no title or descriptive words could possibly do justice to what life truly is.

I had asked that no title be put on my business card, for it was apparent that titles are limiting in nature. There are some who would say that the ‘title’ makes the man (or woman) … but we are more than that … so much more.

Even with this knowledge, it can be difficult in this world. The person who had lived this life for so long fought long and hard to come back into the comfortable little reality it had always known. But there has been a change.

If there were a way to get to where I was without the discomfort, I would. Fifteen years … a long time it seems, yet just a drop in the bucket.

Does the land of time seem as bewildering to those not of it, as the land of no time seems to me? Fifteen years have passed, yet they speak as though it is still the same day … the same day that it started out as, in which great change occurred.

Loved ones passed … do they know now that I was not fooling when I tried to tell them of it? And those I did not bother bringing it up to, are they now more open minded, more aware?

We are here for a reason, it is not to “survive” … it is to create change … positive change.

Many are lost in the midst of illusion, skimming the surface from day to day, never leaving the shallow end of the ‘pool’. There are others who jump in the deep end thinking it fun, and still others who are thrown into the deep end, forced to learn to swim. This analogy is perfect, for life is exactly like that. Sometimes the mind gets cracked wide open by an experience, it can be quite frightening, even cause death, but many learn to swim and find they are strong enough to come back to the surface, forever changed.

Yes, I am still here. And so are you. There are better ways to do things that will not harm all life as we’ve been apt to do … If we will just listen to each other, assist each other, and embrace the gifts we came to share with each other. Do any of us have all the answers? Of course not, so let us not act as though we do, and instead honor each other for what we bring to the table.

For the betterment of the whole … for life … for each other, and all beings who live with us in this great world.

 

Stopping The End Game

Published March 19, 2018 by tindertender

Every time I walk into my roommates room, the television is on, as always. It is during these brief moments that I get a glimpse of the programming.

Nuclear war

What some people call entertainment is not that at all. It is indeed a ‘programming’ of the subconscious mind. For the short moment I was there this evening I saw a story unfold of complete planetary destruction. There was a nuclear war and all countries were involved, wiping out nearly the entire civilization.

MInd PuppeteerThose who pay for and actually watch this scheduled and carefully dosed media are having their minds organized to be in alignment with this story.

We see the so called leaders of continents losing their cool, the threat of these stories is imminent, yet still so many people fail to see that the intention by the few is coming to fruition, just as planned. By watching, many comply with the underside of this reality and actually propagate the desired affect.

Where attention goes energy flows.

There are so many people who have fallen into this trap, they are addicted to being spoon fed what the media calls fiction and fantasy and reality. All to often the psyche is warped in the night by the feeding of illusion, and during waking moments something similar is played out, exacerbated by pharmaceuticals and alcohol and other things which throw off the natural chemical balance of body and mind.

We are running out of time. It is plain to see as the intensity of programming is ramped up. It is evident even in the childrens cartoons.

The only way out of this dilemma is to stop participating. Turn off the television, read a book, sit in the silence and reconnect with life. Detachment experienced by the majority is quite severe. Video games, smart phones, horror movies, not only of murder, robbery and mayhem of all types, but now of the elimination of ALL life.  Governments are teetering on the edge and if they topple they will take everything with them.

The people CAN stop this, but only by controlling their own behaviors and what they “permit” in their lives. Personal power must be retrieved … it has been relinquished for the most part to those given the role of telling the masses what to think, how to behave, what is acceptable.

All the while the spiral spins downward … the movement must be reversed into an upward motion. It can be done, but only if humanity begins to truly see.

The world needs you … not Uncle Sam.

Relativity & The Equivalence of Reference Frames

Published February 8, 2018 by tindertender

I really enjoy seeing young people “getting it”. In today’s world there are so many people arguing whether they are right, or the other is wrong … closed minds which have a hard path to opening up to the possibility (fact) that there are indeed different observations and understanding of the exact same occurrence, and ALL of them are correct.

It is difficult to step out of the ‘right and wrong’ idea of things and come to agreement that lifes experience is so much more than imposed limitations.

I am so happy that younger people are expanding the horizon, stepping out of the box and seeing the bigger picture. There may be hope for humanity yet.

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