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Who Knows Best?

Published July 25, 2017 by tindertender

Not knowing, they assume … thinking they know better than the experiencer, they become judgmental and cruel, lacking awareness that their behavior, which is based on ‘lack of knowing’, causes them to spew negativity.

So it is in the world.

Only when there is an awareness of how an individuals own actions and words affect the whole, and a conscious choice is made to be more kind, will things shift.

Fortunately, many people are doing just this.

Good people, who are adored and respected, admired for their successes, have this habit of judging without full knowledge. Some call it ‘leadership skills’.

Stepping back and simply observing, however, one begins to see the constant barrage of negativity coming from mouths. Good intentions, mixed with lack of empathy, really do no one any good.  The ‘I know better than you’ mentality, I believe, is partially responsible for the state we now find ourselves in.

It takes a lot of courage, back bone, and a strong will to step away from this, and firmly plant the feet in our own awareness, moving forward as we know is best for us in any given moment, in a wide set of circumstances.

You know best … you know whether it is beneficial to your present ‘beingness’ and those who your life is touching. You know. You are much wiser than, perhaps, you have let yourself believe. Deep within you is an abundant flow of advice. No words are spoken there, yet the information comes through just the same.

Allow yourself the freedom to be YOU. In kindness love grows. In pain compassion is multiplied. An understanding is gained through your experiences which will benefit others.

Be gentle. The world needs gentleness. A healing must take place and it begins in your own mind. Nurture yourself with positive thought and affirmation. When you understand how wonderful you are, you will begin to see this sameness in those you see around you. Even when they are cruel … for truly, they do not know what they do.

“I don’t know why I am here”

Published June 9, 2017 by tindertender

Life’s purpose is to bring goodness to the earth, to show what it means to overcome distress, hate, and negativity.  At times it may seem those emotions swallow the peace that dwells in the heart.

Like a wave, we rise. Soon, the waves will become smaller, calmer ~ looking into years gone by it is possible to see that these waves have already lessened in severity ~ yet they continue to come, and go.

Time is an amazing thing. Anxiousness may well in the belly, however when considered deeply, it can be seen that this energy bubble which rises may be coming from elsewhere, being only a sensitivity to what is going on ‘out there’. Knowing that the emotions are only energy, breathing, they fade.

We are all highly sensitive … we are more connected than we have been taught to acknowledge.

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The ocean of energy we swim in on a daily basis is opportunity to practice grounding, standing firm. These energetic impulses flow around, through, and past us. Sometimes it is easy to float along, coast on the current … and sometimes we dig in the heels and hold ground for a time.

The opportunity to build strength and endurance is what this life offers us. The difficult part is not growing bitter through the testing, to continue seeing the good, feeling the love, being compassionate and lifting each other, assisting each other to become more than we were before.

Kindness goes a long way, and we should be kind to ourselves also. Negative self talk will only reinforce what the bully once instilled in our mind. Break the habit of repeating those words and instead create a positive flow of affirmation.

Life is a gift, good things are coming, believe it.

Time & Space

Published June 6, 2017 by tindertender

Time and space is not a place you go to be taught, as much as it is a place you go to teach. Of what heaven looks like, on earth. Of what divinity feels like, in flesh. And of what it means to dream in spite of darkness, hope in spite of odds, and prevail in spite of fear.
©Mike Dooley, 

Thoughts become things… choose the good ones! ®
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We Must Be Strong

Published May 21, 2017 by tindertender

Heart speaksIt is important mood swings are wrestled to the side of good. We must be strong enough to handle this. There will come a time when patience and inner durability will be needed … indeed, it always has been.

It is no easy task to master ones emotions and energies, however with vigilant awareness and effort, it becomes easier with time.

Ephesians 6:12
For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.

1 Peter 5:8-10
Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. Your adversary, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. But resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same experiences of suffering are being accomplished by your brethren who are in the world. After you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will Himself perfect, confirm, strengthen and establish you.

Acceleration of the Temple

Published May 1, 2017 by tindertender

Stepping out from what is known, into the new, is a very courageous move. There are many who simply will not conceive of it.

There is a strength that resides in the deepest portion of a soul, and this strength knows what it is here to do.

There is something much more than what we have known. It has nothing to do with accumulation of things, however it has everything to do with quality ~ Quality of life for all.

Responsibility is everyone’s. When this passion for upgrade in life takes hold in the mind, change is swift, change for the better includes all men, women, children … all animals, land, waters and skies.

This home of ours needs our blessing. Let out hearts open, let us feel the earth as it breathes. We benefit from the gifts the world provides … let the world benefit from our presence as well.

It Is Time

Published April 22, 2017 by tindertender

It is time.

We must lay claim to our own lives and stop relying on corporate systems to provide the comforts we have become accustomed to.

The fact is that although we have many quick and easy things now-a-days, in the past, working hard for that which was needed provided a healthier and more fit body, a better nights sleep, and eliminated a lot of the waste we see today.


It is time to become responsible for the foods we ingest.
It is time to take measures to pull the poisons from the waters we drink.
(which have been put there by our leaders)
It is necessary to recognize we are capable of, able to, and the ones most affected by efforts of living a healthy life.

The day for loving fully is here.
Loving ourselves, loving each other, loving all that is.

We are our own authority.

When we left home, we decided we were big enough to manage our own lives. For some reason, we continue to relinquish that right to those in high places.

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