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Transforming Hurt With A Hug

Published May 17, 2017 by tindertender

The easiest way to get past a perceived error is to embrace it and come at it from a different direction. Do not waste time stewing about it, reinforcing a negative mind set. HUG that event, and move on it with a positive attitude, break it down and transform it.

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Being vulnerable is a scary thing. Opening oneself up to further damage is very intimidating. However, this is opportunity for inner strength to be built, as well as opportunity for another to either participate in rectification, or further damage. Either way, karma works and will increase ten-fold, for all parties.


Truths and Paths

Published May 14, 2017 by tindertender

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Suffering … it happens to us all. The causes are many, perhaps it is a desire for something, and an attachment to getting what is perceived as a want or need. In order to ease this suffering, a change is needed, a change in the ideas of what we want, or need. The method of this change is in the eightfold path.

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I love being around people who create a spark in my mind. I walk away from meetings such as the most recent, and my thoughts gravitate to what is happening in my world … in day to day life.

I am grateful, for it is these moments that provide an expansion, a possibility for my “box” to get larger.

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There is a lot of talk on remaining grounded, it is difficult to do so. The world seems to be in chaos, it is a reflection of the hearts of humanity.

Working to bring calm to our own awareness will allow a peaceful flow of energies to join us in the outside world. It all begins in our heart, moves to the mind, and comes forth in action.

Message of the Sabian symbol

Published May 13, 2017 by tindertender

The sabian symbol of the Full Moon is “Obeying his conscience, a soldier resists orders”. The message of the sabian symbol is: sometimes you have to assert your values, your truth, even if you have to face the consequences of your decision, no matter the cost. You have to stay true to yourself, no matter what. This is the ultimate freedom. And the only one we really have.

“One can take away everything from a human being, but no one can take away the ability to choose our attitudes towards the circumstances in which we find ourselves.”



Published April 27, 2017 by tindertender

Defining WingMakers

“The term human derives from the Latin conjunction of “homo” (man) and “humus” (earth).Thus a human is an earthly being—descended from earth, as opposed to God some heavenly abode. The term WingMakers is encoded “wing” is derived from the term wind or blow. It is the active force of setting new states into motion. “Makers” is the plurality of the co-creators—that being the collective essence of humanity. Thus, WingMakers means that from the collective essence of humanity new states of consciousness come into being. This is the meaning of the term WingMakers, and it confers to humanity a new identity. I have posited that humanity is transitioning to become WingMakers.”

         ~    James wrote those words in his Introduction of the Collected Works of the WingMakers Vol. 1.

”You cannot fake this. You cannot practice like a machine. You must be human, vulnerable, open, humble, and willing to learn from yourself more than you’re willing to accept the words of another.”


Manifesto of the Sovereign Integral

~ There is no space more sacred or powerful than another.
~ There is no being more spiritual than another.
~ There is no thing more divine than another.
~ There is no tool or technique that accelerates the unfoldment of consciousness.
~ There is no truth that can be written, spoken, or thought unless it is conceived and expressed through the Language of Unity.
~ First Source transcends Wholeness.
~ All the fragments of philosophy, science, and religion, even when unified, represent but a fractional picture of reality.
~ The mysteries of your world will never be understood through inquiries that are based in the language of the mind.
~ Perfection is a concept of wholeness misunderstood.
~ The conditions of peace, beauty, love, and security are merely signposts to wholeness, as are their counterparts.
~ To live in the Wholeness Perspective is to value all things as they are and to bear witness to the unity of their expression.
~ No being requires knowledge other than their unique Wholeness Perspective.
~ There is no hierarchy. There is only One That Is All.
~ There is no model of existence outside of the model of self-creation.
~ True Freedom is access to First Source.
~ A being cannot get closer to First Source than in the existence of a moment.
~ The sovereign being and First Source are reality.
~ Having a physical body does not limit you, anymore than having legs on an eagle prevents it from flying.
~ All conditions of existence are facets of the one condition of the reality of unlimited self-creation.
~ There is no pathway to First Source.
~ Unfoldment, evolution, growth/decay cycles and transformation are all bound to the same premise of separation in linear time.
~ The hidden harmony is found with joy, while the obvious brings indifference.
~ The farther you enter into the Truth the deeper your conviction for truth must be.
~ There is understanding of the world precisely to the degree that there is understanding of the Self.

“As we turn within, reflecting on our subjective lives, we will likely encounter a vivid contrast between the inner world of the Sovereign Integral and the inner world of the ego with its well-established thoughtforms, beliefs, and attitudes generated from contact with the objective, outer world. Therefore, an examination of the twenty-four points of the Manifesto offers another opportunity (in addition to the other WingMakers/Lyricus resources) to expand our awareness to incorporate the Sovereign Integral’s wider and deeper awareness into our everyday consciousness.”

Following are the titles of the six discourses:

1. Experiencing the Wholeness Navigator
2. Calling Forth the Wholeness Navigator
3. The Nature of Knowledge
4. Universe Relationship
5. The Interface Zone
6. Techniques of the Intuitive Intelligence


It Is Time

Published April 22, 2017 by tindertender

It is time.

We must lay claim to our own lives and stop relying on corporate systems to provide the comforts we have become accustomed to.

The fact is that although we have many quick and easy things now-a-days, in the past, working hard for that which was needed provided a healthier and more fit body, a better nights sleep, and eliminated a lot of the waste we see today.


It is time to become responsible for the foods we ingest.
It is time to take measures to pull the poisons from the waters we drink.
(which have been put there by our leaders)
It is necessary to recognize we are capable of, able to, and the ones most affected by efforts of living a healthy life.

The day for loving fully is here.
Loving ourselves, loving each other, loving all that is.

We are our own authority.

When we left home, we decided we were big enough to manage our own lives. For some reason, we continue to relinquish that right to those in high places.

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