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Advice From Mama

Published April 18, 2019 by tindertender

If you could separate yourself from yourself, your loved ones would tell you to leave the relationship.

But you can’t, you are stuck with yourself.

Constantly calling yourself horrible names & thinking you are less than you are is only adding to how horrible you feel inside.

How long would you stay in the presence of someone belittling you before you said that was enough & walked away?

Being too empathic or being too narcissistic isn’t healthy for the mind.

You need a balance of both.

Just like how you need to balance out every other aspect of yourself.

You should feel a fluctuation in your vibrations as the day progresses.

No one is supposed to constantly be in a High Vibration, just like no one is supposed to constantly be in a Low Vibration.

This is a sign of imbalance.

Entheogens help you reconnect to Gaia again, see her & feel her, understand that she has all that you need.

You are in a relationship with yourself.

You will never get to leave this relationship.

If you are constantly belittling yourself & hurting yourself, either physically or emotionally, you are abusing yourself & this isn’t okay.


Love and Life

Published November 3, 2018 by tindertender


Photo by Nathan Dumlao

Eventually you will come to understand that love heals everything, and love is all there is.
~ Gary Zukav

This is your life. You own everything in it, the good as well as the bad. Take this ownership seriously, because you can’t change what you don’t own. So, stop looking for causes outside of yourself. All the answers you need come from within. YOU are the source.
~ Gordana Biernat

Love can never be Lost. Love is an expression of Life Itself, an expression of Being… We are born AS Love and falling victim to our conditioned mind – we forget what we truly are. Release the conditioned mind and Love appears in Abundance. We can all remember our Truth…
~ Ginormous Buddha

If we trusted God – that is to say, if we trusted Love – we would know with certainty that Love would never make us wait to ‘become’ enlightened. It is our beliefs in time, in delay, in unworthiness that are blocks WE have made and inserted between us and our own Self-Awareness.
~ Patrick Darling

We don’t attach to things; we attach to our ‘stories’ about things.
~ Byron Katie

The more you are motivated by love, the more fearless and free your action will be.
~ Dalai Lama

We must be true inside, true to ourselves, before we can know a truth that is outside us.
~ Thomas Merton

Teachings About Mother Earth and Feminine Energies

Published July 6, 2018 by tindertender

“There is cosmic energy that is creating much now in both the human and the animal world. It is affecting all walks of life. You can see it happening now. It began in 1988 and increases in 1989, continuing into the end of the century. The causes are very understandable to those who are in harmony with Mother Earth.

“Mother Earth, as you know, is a living organism, just like you. She loves, She feels, She senses, and She hurts. She is trying to heal Herself now. This generation is being affected by this. Many people are being forced to make changes in their personal lives, especially in their relationships. Those who are not afraid to grow spiritually will understand and be able to adapt. Those who don’t grow spiritually will find their lives aren’t working, and unless they seek their spiritual selves, their lives will continue not to work until they self-destruct.

“As Mother Earth heals and grows strong again, the ill shall become well and the weak shall become strong. Each in its own way shall be given new life; just seek it out. Earth energy is feminine energy. As the feminine energies are increased, women and especially Mothers will be affected, so please make them aware that it is just to make them grow and be strong with Mother Earth. Many Mothers will become assertive, because they want recognition and validation of their worth.

“Mother Earth provides for all of you; use it to fill your needs, but when you take, you must give back.

“All knowledge is available to mankind, if he would just open up to it, but first he must reconnect with Mother Earth and become more spiritual within. Realize he is One with all things. Psychic ability is just being spiritually connected. There is a lot of psychic energy available now, but many misinterpret it and misuse it.

“There are going to be some Earth changes to come. Many people will be afraid, because they don’t know what’s happening. If the time comes and it is necessary, people will be shown safe places to go ahead of time. There is no need to fear.

“Mother Earth is using all available energy to heal herself. This is partly what is causing the earth changes. A balance must be regained. Mankind is being given a chance to heal himself. You are being forced to change, because energies are changing around you. Women are changing, taking charge of their lives, healing themselves, as Mother Earth is healing herself. Their female energy is being opened up, because women are instinctively in harmony with Mother Earth. This is causing stress in many relationships, as women who now feel empty, unfulfilled, invalid, and without purpose will begin to feel a need to get in touch with their feminine self and with Mother Earth. They will become more assertive as they reclaim their ‘power’.

“Even the female animals are changing – their behavior, their breeding habits, their migrating habits. The water too shall change. Mother Earth needs water for Herself and for her cleansing. She is calling for moisture, and the Universe will give it to her. There will be a time of imbalance, droughts where there was once moisture, floods where there were once droughts. Eventually a balance will be found. Unneeded things will be forced to the surface and discarded.

“Spiritual energy is primarily feminine energy. Mankind has been dominated by male energy; society is male oriented. You all have both male and female inside you. This should be in balance. Many men view the female as being silly, weak, erratic, and emotional. They deny any feminine aspects of themselves and put down feminine qualities in women as well. If such men begin to open to their spiritual self, the feminine self seeks balance. As they become more sensitive and begin to feel this feminine aspect of themselves, they fear they are becoming weak and overly sensitive, losing control of themselves and their physical world. They are quick to shut off this feminine energy and retreat back into their old masculine self, stopping their spiritual growth.

“The best thing Mankind can do is love. Love each other and love Mother Earth. She needs all this energy she can get. That’s why you are needed now, to gather the people together who are willing to understand. Show them how to get in touch with their Mother, how to love and share with each other. Separately you are weak; together you are strong.”

~ Dennison Tsosie, channeled message, August 1989, from Spirit Visions, The Old Ones Speak by Dennison & Teddi Tsosie

Random Statements

Published May 9, 2018 by tindertender

We have so much power to say no to one use plastic.

The idea is to become an alchemist once aware.

As a young lady I was furious when a culprit of a situation tried to tell my brother and I “why” we felt the way we did. Doing this to people is a Bad, bad habit.

The Way Of Life

Published April 6, 2018 by tindertender

Morning stretches … energetic flow brings a sweat to my brow, my cheeks. I sit in contemplation about my family, my friends both near and far, and I send them love and peace. I think of the animals in the world and send them kindness.. I work for balance between us all where compassion binds ‘we’ together.

I open my book of “The Way of Life” according to Lao Tzu and I share what I find there.

Lao Tzu

‘Yield and you need not break’:
Bent you can straiten,
Emptied you can hold,
Torn you can mend;
And as want can reward you
So wealth can bewilder.
Aware of this, a wise man has the simple return
Which other men seek:
Without inflaming himself
He is kindled,
Without explaining himself
Is explained,
Without taking credit
Is credited,
Laying no claim
Is acclaimed
And, because he does not compete,
Finds peaceful competence.
How true is the old saying,
‘Yield and you need not break’!
How completely it comes home!

On the opposite page there is another about nature, and since they both arrived together this morning, I will share it as well, for perhaps this is the one that will strike a cord in you, ever revving your creative connective flow.

Nature does not have to insist,
Can blow for only half a morning,
Rain for only half a day,
And what are these winds and these rains but natural?
If nature does not have to insist,
Why should man?
It is natural too
That whoever follows the way of life feels alive,
That whoever uses it properly feels well used,
Whereas he who loses the way of life feels lost,
That whoever keeps to the way of life
Feels at home,
Whoever uses it properly
Feels welcome,
Whereas he who uses it improperly
Feels improperly used:
‘Fail to honor people,
They fail to honor you.’

There are systems in place which are controlling the weather, misusing the nature of things. The disconnect grows and the angst between people does as well. My hope is that more will come to realize the saneness in the words of Lao Tzu and embrace a change of thought, of heart, and of ‘doing’.

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