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Lumped Sum Categorization

Published July 10, 2018 by tindertender

School children all take the same aptitude tests and are scored on their ability of comprehension, never once being coached, or inspired to be their true selves, having their natural talents nurtured.

Same with the law … those that were young and careless having committed minor offense, hurting no one, are lumped in the same group as those who viscously create harm and havoc in the world, prevented from living freely even after decades of proving their great and powerful contributions of good.

These things we do … or lack to do … follow us throughout our days, ALL the way to the end of life.

In today’s world I look around and shake my head, feeling sorrow as I see an incredible lack of care, in the instantaneous self righteous judgements, and of the stifling of creative force in the youth.

Those without benefits are shunned and omitted from opportunity, which in turn causes anger, outrage even, for those with better support systems get the benefit while they without eat the crud left behind, struggling to survive, sometime barely holding onto their sanity in an extremely chaotic world.

There is no balance. Judgements made are not well thought out and considered. Focus has been, and increasingly so, on self … the normal response from so many is, “screw you and the horse you rode in on”, not even noticing that those they judge cannot even afford the invisible horse they imagine they see them riding.

Once again it is the need for power, the need of feeling important and authoritative which rules minds. No longer is there wise determination, well thought out understanding and solution. Power to hold the reigns of another’s life in ones hands and determine their ability to contribute is tempting to those who have been given the right.

Fear of the loss of this imaginary power drives lives … and eventually it will be recognized as the illusion it is. They will understand that their strength is actually weakness, and those they deem weak are actually very strong, having weathered mighty storms.

We’re coming full circle, the cycle is near complete. There will be a return to the path of true care and compassion … for each other, for the earth, water, and air … for self. What we have known for so long, that which has birthed error and lack, will be left behind.

A new day is dawning, and all people will be recognized for the value they bring to the table. All people will be honored for their contributions, large and small. No one will be deemed greater than, or less than, any other.

Count on it.

Trigger … 

Published May 15, 2018 by tindertender

“Go ahead … do it … no one has the right to judge you, well, almost no one.”
… as they shove a picture of Satan eating the brains of a person in front of you.

Reminding someone of error which occurred decades ago will not heal anyone, or anything. People making these judgments of others never see the details behind their actions, completely lacking compassion & understanding about surrounding circumstances or state of mind.

Past actions cannot ever be changed, yet that does not stop a person from living, from learning, from trying to repay … life, society … whoever, whatever … for the wrong. It does not stop them from learning … perhaps learning what they were never taught before mistakes were made, before realizing the sacredness of all that is.

I think of the boy who lit a forest on fire. I hear the memories of words said by those who rallied for his … and his families … extreme punishment. I think to myself that this young man has potential to be the biggest advocate for the forests in his future … if only someone would teach him the sacredness of the earth, the forests, the life that dwells there. Properly coached, he may develop a passion for protecting and nurturing the growth of the forest and that which depends on it for living. He could come into a fierce passion for creating health in the world. His error in no way seals his fate as a destroyer. Those who attempt to put him in that box for life are criminal.

Photo by Shelby Miller

The same can be said of other situations. As a young person I smoked. I tossed out the cigarette butts not once thinking of the harm I was doing. I did not know the filters do not deteriorate. I thought the sweeper truck would get them. Today, when walking in the forest or park I make it a point to pick up those that I see. I wish to pick up as many as I threw out, and then some … flipping the scale to the positive.

I used to practice verbal war. I had a tongue so sharp it would leave people stammering not knowing how to respond, speechless. That was angry me. Today, my goal is to be just as kind (and then some) as I was cruel. I truly do not have any desire to harm anyone. Honestly I never did, however being lost in pain and the darkness of anger, it happened.

This does not mean I’ve decided to be a push-over … far from it.

Realizing how much care for the world dwells in the heart after a life of anger and pain is refreshing. The desire to expand this is intense. Yet there will always be those who throw the past in the face and place judgement, stating no good could ever come from one who did harm. They are liars … and they ought not be allowed to make “I AM” statements for anyone other than themselves. If they do … it is only because they feel a sense of superiority over others, and this will lead to trouble for them.

So massage the trigger. Recognize it for what it is. Affirm the statement you, and you alone, make for your future and the contribution you will give. Stand alone if you must, but be true to you and shed that which brings you suffering … in doing so, your imprint of suffering in the world will recede and something more beautiful will begin to grow.

It is far from easy, especially when there are people telling you how horrible they believe you are. Drown out their voices and tell yourself the truth, the truth that only you know … and it is usually never what others plant in your mind. Count the blessings, there are many, none less than the other no matter how small. Make a list in your mind of the things you are grateful for. A shift will happen, and forward progress will become easier … every time.

One coming with Baptism of Holy Spirit & FIRE

Published June 10, 2017 by tindertender


. . . but the one who will come after me will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire. (Matthew 3:11)

Whose winnowing shovel is in His hand, and He will thoroughly purge His floor, and will gather His wheat into the granary; but the chaff He will burn up with unquenchable fire. (Matthew 3:12)

38 the field is the world; the good seed is the people who belong to the Kingdom; the weeds are the people who belong to the Evil One; 39 and the enemy who sowed the weeds is the Devil . . . 40 Just as the weeds are gathered up and burned in the fire, so the same thing will happen at the end of the age. (Matthew 13:38 – 40)

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Then death and Hades were thrown into the lake of fire. The lake of fire is the second death. (Revelation 20:14)

Surely the day is coming; it will burn like a furnace. All the arrogant and every evildoer will be stubble, and the day that is coming will set them on fire,” says the Lord Almighty. “Not a root or a branch will be left to them. (Malachi 4:1)

Will Love be Salvation or Destruction?

We ought to look deep within our hearts and discover what is there … make a conscious choice to choose love over hatred, compassion over indignation, kindness rather than affront.

When we stand in an awareness and foster joy in our life it will over flow into the world. Upon rising in the morning, let us tell ourselves what a fine and glorious day it will be and then set out to see that it is so.

Change in this world begins in our hearts and minds as individuals. Until we are willing to do the work, change will not occur.

Message or Coincidence?

Published December 5, 2016 by tindertender

I woke this morning with a song in mind, the main phrase repeated is “God’s gonna trouble the water.”  I am of the mind that those things which are repeating in the mind upon waking are a message. You may think otherwise.

Evil Ones :: Hear Now

Published November 26, 2016 by tindertender

Image result for picture of Archangel Michael using a megaphoneYou will succeed in harming and killing many. It is apparent this is your aim, all over the world. We know full well your agenda of population control, poisoning waters, lands and foods, creating enemies where there are none in order to get your citizens to kill each other.

But know this …

I have lived long enough to know for certainty that when a bully, or a liar seems to be in control, may even seem to be “winning” … they fall. Every time. It may take awhile, but it happens … Every Time. Your fall will be no different than the rest.

The time is coming … and you will fall. For you? There will be no saving of your soul, for you have denied goodness time and time again. You have been given time to change your mind, to turn your hearts ~ but it appears they simply grow darker, blacker with this evil you carry within you.

If you recognize any truth in this at all, if you can recollect your life’s experiences and are able to see the truth in the statements above, turn away now.

Walk away from your manipulator and Stand For Life.

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