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It Is All Worth It

Published December 4, 2017 by tindertender

Two doors opening to star filled skies. You say you’ve never felt like this before. Surely you have, although you may not remember, for you all are like me, and I am like you. Deeply, what affects one affects all.

Unconscious consciousGracious gifts we give to each other through our experiences. Knowingly or not, every event that has impact on your life will affect every life around you. People do not even have to be in the same room, the same city, or state, or even county. It is all interconnected, WE are all interconnected.

I see you laughing, I feel your joy, I sense your heartache, your pain. I witness the battle as it is waged and I see you standing, so brave, so strong. I want to be like you, I envision a world where everyone is … fighting for peace and freedom in a new fashion, yet an old one too, reborn into a world of chaos.

I am glad you are here to teach us the ways of peace. I am thrilled to find that these threads belong to me, are present within my being. Even though we are apart, we are near, heart to heart.

Thank you for showing me how it is done. Thank you for teaching me patience. Thank you for steadfastly showing me that perseverance for a cause benefiting all, increases, blossoming and healing.

I am blessed to witness you as you breathe. I am joined to you, our roots entangled through time. As time speeds up, and then slows once more, we arrive at seasons, where we can relax, and know it was all worth it.

 

A Tiger’s Tale

Published November 18, 2017 by tindertender

End of an era

The tale end of an era is here and it is finishing strong. Those who have become accustomed to having their every desire accommodated are seeing the lost ground, and they begin to ‘force’ their wishes on people. They do not care how many they upset, for their end goal is the same as it always has been … suppression and repression of the majority.

They flaunt their murderous behaviors of sentient beings in our faces, they kill large, peaceful, endangered creatures for the sheer ‘pleasure’ of it, for the trophies. They strip the animals of their rights to life, they get a sense of satisfaction as they dominate and control the existence of others. They market the eating of flesh as though it is our only hope of healthy bodies, exacerbating fear and pain in the world.

A Tigers TaleThere is another end that goes along with that tale though, and it is called the head, the head of a ferocious and powerful creature. I compare it to the masses who are awakening to the reality of the greed and hatred in this world, those who wish to create a better tomorrow.

The tale knows the head is coming around, they realize this beast will chew off it’s own appendage to assist in the elimination of this infection, the virus which is decaying the whole body. A scurrying about is happening … like little ants, a grasping at, and enforcing of, the only thing they have to offer the world … pain and sorrow. It is they who must be removed.

Like a scab over a wound, we’ve been picking it. It opens up afresh, scabs over again, and we pick it. The healing takes longer this way. Soothing, naturally medicated balm needs be added to this wound, something that prohibits the scab from hardening, something which keeps it soft. The dressing must be changed often as the infection oozes into the bandage, as the puss is discharged.

Light-in-DarknessThe head licks the wound during dressing changes, it does not want to eat it’s own tale, however it will, should the wound continue to fester and rot.

Let us be the light in the world that shines into dark places. Let the energetic imprint we leave behind as we walk among each other be that of light and love, full of compassion and understanding. Growing a peaceful atmosphere in which we, and others, live is the only way to reclaim the capacities the shadow has stolen. This darkness needs not be ‘fought against’, for as long as we clean our inner sanctuaries, in unison, the dim reality we experience now will brighten, naturally.

Real ~ Like A Ton O’ Bricks

Published November 17, 2017 by tindertender

When did the format of our questions change?

why-is-the-sky-blue

As children we would ask, “Why is the sky blue?”, among many other ‘curiosity’ questions. As adults, it is more along the lines of, “Why would they do that?”, or, “Why would God allow this to happen?”

We enter this life full of happiness and interest, eager to discover the wonderment’s it will offer. Soon though, our excitement shrinks as we experience harm, hurt, and betrayal of all kinds. This comes from parents, ‘friends’ and governing bodies. The system proves itself to be broken, and it fosters a broken reality, indeed, it creates what it has become.

Joy and embrace are replaced by bruises and disgrace.

How can the beauty of a child alter the fate of the world, instead of a corrupt and broken world altering the fate of the child? This current structure must ‘flip’, the balance is no longer there and the whole of the world is off kilter.

How can health be part of an organization which is ill in itself? It cannot. This structure is full of people intent on fixing everyone else, while ignoring their own bullshit.

1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.

     ~ Matthew 7:1-5 KIV

Hypocrites, everywhere.

In order for this change to occur, people must demand the reintroduction of their inner child. We carry around these pains from our youth, we’ve buried them and think ourselves strong for overcoming trials.

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The truth though, is unless we embrace that vulnerable child within us and allow it to have a voice, giving it permission and freedom to finally be heard, using our adult common sense and compassion, change will be very slow in coming, if not impossible.

Our obligation to ourselves, if we honestly choose to be free, is to accept liability for the stuff we’ve crammed into the depths of our soul under lock and key, and to also be its liberator, all the while embracing that fragile, and now knowing, inner child.

Many of the people in this world are choosing to foster care, compassion, forgiveness, patience, and acceptance of self, which in turn make it easier to see the need for, and have the desire to grow it, elsewhere on the earth.

It is time to water our garden folks. There is no better nourishment to be provided but for the gift we have capacity of giving ourselves … and each other.

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1 Corinthians 12:26-27
26 If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it. 27 Now you are the body of Christ, and each of you is a member of it.

People United

Published November 15, 2017 by tindertender

What happens when a concerted effort is placed upon the success of a thing? When people come together in a conscious exertion of power ~ very little can deter them.

people united

One has to admit it can be quite amazing when citizenry embraces their truest power, united. The force which proves itself to be nearly unstoppable, especially moral or mental strength, can actually end hostilities we see in the world.

Love is the power that holds together everything.
Deepening awareness of the natural world, it becomes
easier to see our connection to it.

“Nature. Love. Medicine. Healing. Reciprocity. Generosity. These capacities, taken together, generate a spirit of community, aspiration, togetherness, virtue, agency, meaning and purpose. We would be utterly lost without them. The integration of these capacities, taken together, is the source of all our good works. With the magnitude of the challenges that face us, there is no greater urgency than to understand their significance.”
~ Nature, Love, Medicine: Essays on Wildness and Wellness

 

Rest Areas Of Life

Published November 13, 2017 by tindertender

Certain humans beings led by evil do horrendous things to others. No one is born with this sickness. It is fostered, nurtured over time.

Rest areas

The rest areas of life have been given as a convenient place to stop for awhile, to regain composure and to gather about oneself the drive and determination to continue. There are those, however, who trash the place when they stop in, making it ugly and putrid for the next who will. Giving no thought to the one who keeps it tidy, they piss and shit on the floor, wiping it on walls, spewing their filth everywhere. They lack the ability to be grateful for this rest, they lack care for any who will follow, and most of all, they lack respect and honor for the one(s) who provide it for use.

The power of suggestion has been tested by governments and advertisers across the world. They use all types of media for influencing the decisions of the populace, for sending subliminal messages. They sing phrases called ‘jingles’, or they spew negativity in all too many ways. It is a form of hypnosis, we know that many actually seek this procedure out in order to help themselves. The media, and others, use words such as ‘cancer’ and ‘disease’ to instill fear and doubt in the human mind, attempting to program the brain to actually produce this sickness within the body.

Woman with mask in hypocrisy concept

There are those who smile, who send the message of care as though they are honoring others, as though they wish to ‘help’. For these ones, discernment is critical, for the copy of a caring human being is very similar to the true one, and hard to distinguish.

Pay attention to it, but don’t get too focused. We live in a place of shadows, it is our privilege to bring Light to these nooks and cranny’s. Who else has opted to go into the pits of hell and start taking notes? You have. Who else has determined to do all they can in order to flip this around and create a safer, happier, brighter place? You have. Those who tell you, you have no purpose are so very wrong … there is no greater purpose than this.

Her Testimony

Published November 10, 2017 by tindertender

“I wonder what it would be like if people
just loved each other.”

This is the thought she had for days prior to being relieved of the burden of anger. For years she carried a heavy load, weighing her down. She was fed up with the seemingly unjust life she was born into. She was indeed angry, she was hurting through and through. This pain she carried leaked into the world, it got on everything, but the day the load lifted she felt lighter, she actually felt the burden leave her shoulders, she grew taller.

She found that forgiveness came easier, but damage was done. Those who felt her pain over the years cannot seem to shake the old her, and embrace the new. They do not see she no longer carries the burden of anger, and that she no longer lashes out attempting to assuage her suffering by dumping it on them, or others. They do not see her concerted efforts to do what nice people do.

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She continues to work on the most important thing of all ~ forgiveness of herself. She looks very deep into her wounds, she removes the venom from them, and keeps them clean while they heal. Combating this poison is difficult for it has embedded itself into her. She is consistent in dressing the wounds, and they slowly heal.

It is sad that she need to love from a distance those who she caused suffering in the past. Because they cannot see the new her, they insist she hasn’t changed, the memory of the venom clear in their minds. It is important that the proper message be told in her life, and that is the knowledge of who she is becoming … not who she once was. She sheds the memory, she sheds the opinions of the past, she refuses to wear these labels any longer.

Embracing the new self she is creating, she improves on the efforts to become more than she was before. She longs to build a kinder, gentler world and she knows that it begins in her own heart and mind, in her own life. She knows she must be willing to be that which is needed, and it must start in her personal space, she must walk the walk.

She may stumble periodically, however each time she picks herself up, the footing of the new life becomes more sure, the relief becomes more firm in her mind and body, in her heart. Every day she begins again, finding ways that will help her to continue shedding this old persona.

She is a creator, a powerful force,
and it is seen in the way she changes her life.

You're in charge

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